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Hello brothers and sisters, sorry for the silly topic, but someone from my "family" humiliated me, said things I didn't deserve, and... well, at the time I didn't know how to defend myself. It turns out the family accepted him here where I live. I don't even want to see his face; I only leave my room when he's not there, and I end up eating poorly because of it. He mocks me, and the person in question even wants to bring his girlfriend here too. Would it be ethical for me to perform a standard ritual to destroy him, or is there something I can do to expel him from here? I can't afford my own house, I hate him with all my might, and even more so for having accepted him.

#1

Destruction might be an unbalanced response. A binding spell should definitely help. Generally speaking, the ISA rune can be used in a working with the intent to bind.

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#2

It would be more beneficial to learn to stand up for yourself so that these issues become meaningless.

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#3

People should feel comfortable and secure in their own home, this is a bad situation for you.

Raidho rune can inspire someone to move out, I advised this to another Zevist years ago when he was in a similar situation and it worked. Vibrate into him and affirm that he is moving out, in beneficial ways for you. Orange is the color for changes.

Bind him too, as NG Daemontech advised.

It would be advisable to build your inner strength and personal power. Not leaving your room and not eating, because he is there? If you continue like that, this will cause damage to you, or it will build up and cause an explosive reaction. Build your inner strength and manage the situation as soon as possible.

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The problem I have observed with mocks, bullying etc,, is that the reason you are being mocked is because you have a personality that by its nature tolerates mockery from others. If you had a strong and perhaps "assertive" personality in a way, the chances of being mocked by anyone else would be close to non-existent. We usually only regard human interaction as only manifested via verbal communication but there are a lot of dynamics going on in terms of body language, your and his mindset and personality, the way you express yourselves (outside of direct communication between each other). These will play a major role in deciding how you will get treated before anyone said anything.

Besides the great advice provided above of binding the said person, doing a working to "stimulate" a situation where he can move out (more easier to achieve especially if that person didn't belong in that house in the first place, or if is a person that only recently moved in), I strongly advice that you work on yourself and your personality. The fact that you don't even get out of the room if that person is there says a lot about what I wrote above (body language, behavior personality etc). Do get out of the room whenever you need, be ready to confront him if boundaries are crossed, empower your personality: go to the gym, join a fighting school, become more sociable and outspoken, these go a very long way. It takes a lot of time and effort but the benefits of empowering your personality with the ways above and others that you see fit, will accompany you for the rest of your life and make existence easier for you.

Also weak people usually would resort to such extreme measures as "destroying" the offender, for the precise reason that you don't feel capable to handle this person otherwise, which again more or less confirms of the above. On top of that, even if you attempted a destruction ritual I doubt it will be very effective in the first place as the power of such a major working heavily depends on how powerful you are as a person and soul. A powerful and potent soul 100% reflects in someone's personality, you would also draw negativity and bad karma upon yourself by doing that so generally is it advised to always consider what is the most ethical and just way to proceed with such decisions.

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Thanks brother for helping me with these tips, I really need to improve in this area.

#5

What SG Alchemist wrote is very true. Bullies hone in on a certain type of person, and leave others alone. If they see that their tactics work on a person, they continue. Unfortunately since you allowed this person to influence you to stay in your bedroom and go without eating, it will be harder for you to strengthen yourself against him but it can be done, take the advice you have been given and SG Alchemist's excellent additional advice.

You didn't mention if you are male or female, especially if you are male you need to strengthen yourself, this is a natural part of male development.

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Thank you for replying, sister. I realized I have this difficulty defending myself; the voice won't come out. With the temple update, I started doing the basic program. What other programs would be better to add?

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I can confirm the advice given by both NG Daemontech and HPS Lydia. Though the characteristics of my situation were a bit different as I was in physical danger more than emotional, the solution was the same. You can both bind with Isa if you're worried about them still offending you, while using Raidho to move them on. Separate spells, of course. I can attest to the results. Regarding Raidho, the way this might manifest is that the person in question may feel unsettled or out of place there, or circumstances may evolve in such a way they no longer feel welcomed and thus inclined to move on.

Outright destruction right now sounds like overkill. Your mindset has to be proportional to the offense. That said, your dislike of this person doesn't sound unjustified, but try not to let uncontrolled hatred rot you inside out either. For now, stand your ground within reason. The first days of any such situation are typically the worst, I've found, as you tend to naturally develop routines of avoidance where necessary.