I was diagnosed aspergers as a child and...

Dec 25, 2020#1

Thuledragon666said:
I really wish there was some easy cure I could just have that would make it go away because its depressing when I think about how much it bogs down my potential and my ability to help those I care about effectively while not looking like such an incompetent dunce. thinking here and there how I should just go and die because of how useless I feel, how much I feel like shit. is there something on the way? any actually good treatments that I can apply to function better? what could I do to remedy or fix this problem so I can be a better Zevist and in general a better person for everyone I hold dear.
I hope you guys understand :/

Better yet just be yourself and don't listen to the people that label you. Don't worry about how regular people feel about you that much and have confidence in yourself. Think about this the same person you are now was perfectly ok a great deal more in the 60s and 50s before all these labels. Either wear the label as pride that you are different or resist it in some way one of the two is a good deal. Unless something is actually causing problems in your advancement or is self destructive in some way it doesn't really need to be changed there are all types of people out there. I dare to say that most people labeled with a bunch or stuff are more interesting than "normal" people anyways. It probably means your an older soul who doesn't fit in.

Thuledragon666said:
I really wish there was some easy cure I could just have that would make it go away because its depressing when I think about how much it bogs down my potential and my ability to help those I care about effectively while not looking like such an incompetent dunce. thinking here and there how I should just go and die because of how useless I feel, how much I feel like shit. is there something on the way? any actually good treatments that I can apply to function better? what could I do to remedy or fix this problem so I can be a better Zevist and in general a better person for everyone I hold dear.
I hope you guys understand :/

Better yet just be yourself and don't listen to the people that label you. Don't worry about how regular people feel about you that much and have confidence in yourself. Think about this the same person you are now was perfectly ok a great deal more in the 60s and 50s before all these labels. Either wear the label as pride that you are different or resist it in some way one of the two is a good deal. Unless something is actually causing problems in your advancement or is self destructive in some way it doesn't really need to be changed there are all types of people out there. I dare to say that most people labeled with a bunch or stuff are more interesting than "normal" people anyways. It probably means your an older soul who doesn't fit in.

Dec 25, 2020#2

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Relax. You can fix anything with Zevism. As far as I know aspenger is not as bad as some others, you can definitely fix it.

Dec 29, 2020#3

Meteorsaid:
Thuledragon666said:
I really wish there was some easy cure I could just have that would make it go away because its depressing when I think about how much it bogs down my potential and my ability to help those I care about effectively while not looking like such an incompetent dunce. thinking here and there how I should just go and die because of how useless I feel, how much I feel like shit. is there something on the way? any actually good treatments that I can apply to function better? what could I do to remedy or fix this problem so I can be a better Zevist and in general a better person for everyone I hold dear.
I hope you guys understand :/
The only "problem" with curing Asperger's is that there's so many things that can cause sypmtoms that would be classified as it, meaning the diagnosis reveals little about the actual problems causing those symptoms. It's not an actual condition itself, but more of a way of saying that someone is socially awkward or gets upset over minor things other people don't care about as much. What actually caused or causes a person to be that way is seperate.
I think that just because people don't understand the way you think doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you. As long as it works for you and you're able to do the things you want to, it's not your problem. And if you're unable to do something you want to, then find a way.

I am actually pretty decent at socializing but yeah I have been reading some of the earlier posts on aspergers and autism on here and apparently its not even real. I guess i might be fucking up because I do tend to worry what other people think about my performance and turn into a bit of an anxious mess about it, other than that I have my own likes and dislikes and feel strongly with passion about things that people seem to regard as an "autistic fascination". starting to think autism as the label really does hurt people as they grow up; their stubborness for some individuality while they may keep in mind collectivism.

this might be a different tune but I was just stressed out during the holidays somewhat having those confidence issues. I guess i have to work on ignoring the label autism and carry on.

Meteorsaid:
Thuledragon666said:
I really wish there was some easy cure I could just have that would make it go away because its depressing when I think about how much it bogs down my potential and my ability to help those I care about effectively while not looking like such an incompetent dunce. thinking here and there how I should just go and die because of how useless I feel, how much I feel like shit. is there something on the way? any actually good treatments that I can apply to function better? what could I do to remedy or fix this problem so I can be a better Zevist and in general a better person for everyone I hold dear.
I hope you guys understand :/
The only "problem" with curing Asperger's is that there's so many things that can cause sypmtoms that would be classified as it, meaning the diagnosis reveals little about the actual problems causing those symptoms. It's not an actual condition itself, but more of a way of saying that someone is socially awkward or gets upset over minor things other people don't care about as much. What actually caused or causes a person to be that way is seperate.
I think that just because people don't understand the way you think doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you. As long as it works for you and you're able to do the things you want to, it's not your problem. And if you're unable to do something you want to, then find a way.

I am actually pretty decent at socializing but yeah I have been reading some of the earlier posts on aspergers and autism on here and apparently its not even real. I guess i might be fucking up because I do tend to worry what other people think about my performance and turn into a bit of an anxious mess about it, other than that I have my own likes and dislikes and feel strongly with passion about things that people seem to regard as an "autistic fascination". starting to think autism as the label really does hurt people as they grow up; their stubborness for some individuality while they may keep in mind collectivism.

this might be a different tune but I was just stressed out during the holidays somewhat having those confidence issues. I guess i have to work on ignoring the label autism and carry on.