Good day, dear family under Zeus. One morning, I was going to my job, and on the road, a thought came to me worth writing an article about.
I will be focusing on being right or wrong, especially when this happens between two or more people.
Yehuboric lies, which are seeds of disbalance, very often sprout into these fruits of negativity, which is “I against others” or “others against me.”
Very often, there is no truth in either of these. Because arguing about one’s truth is not validation for you to neglect others, and it should not be a block towards how much truth the other tells, regardless of the intention behind it.
Being “truthful” and blocking any input is wrong because everyone does not always say a complete lie, but they try to spotlight something you are ignorant of. It can be not only a disagreement with your opinion, but simply a failure to listen, being in double ignorance, ego puffing up for temporary power based on illusion, or whatever else.
It is best to listen, but listen differently, not with fear, shame, or guilt of being imperfect, but with the purpose of bettering your character and expanding your baggage of good knowledge. Anyone in our lives, even if delusional, you can always sense even a drop of truth in what they say, which can be used to complexify and empower your awareness, after all everyone are in touch to a certain extent to life in which we all are living.
When approached rightly and with willingness to learn, with intuition training, empathy, reasoning directed more rightly, knowledge growth, and life experience, all of the above and more can be gained from an argument handled properly, instead of feeling “lost, wrong, ashamed, or guilty” or whatever. All of these good and evolutionary things can grow, by participating in communication, and be trained.
Always be aware that maybe you are not truly right, and no one can be 100% truthful either, because such wisdom is on extremely high levels of divinity… unless the topic is very simple, just, and straightforward, and one truly is right. But it needs to be handled carefully because what another is saying may not align with your truth, or even be off-topic, but their point may contain truth which is valuable and part of life as well.
After all, the other person may be feeling the same way communicating their truth to you. Imagine what misfortune it is when one goes to either extreme of being right or wrong without finding a middle ground, blocking communication, and hardening this for another person who is also going to the opposite pole. It’s the chaos.
Knowing the above gives responsibility and empowerment for steering communication where it is better for everyone. It opens the mind for flexible communication, open not only to measures of being right or wrong and how much right or wrong, but also maybe exploring other underlying problems: maybe personal, maybe relational, maybe karmic between individuals, for it to be solved and acknowledged by both parties or finding out something about yourself what you may want to fix.
There is no better feeling than peace, and finding compromise sometimes, right? It is also a great empowerment, and being in peace with others in the name of advancement can give you grace from another and a blessing of support from another person which can make you more powerful.
-Flamma Bellum
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