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I am right or wrong. Disbalance, extremes on how I am wrong or right without measure.

AvatarFlamma Bellum3 min to read

Good day, dear family under Zeus. One morning, I was going to my job, and on the road, a thought came to me worth writing an article about.

I will be focusing on being right or wrong, especially when this happens between two or more people.

Yehuboric lies, which are seeds of disbalance, very often sprout into these fruits of negativity, which is “I against others” or “others against me.”

Very often, there is no truth in either of these. Because arguing about one’s truth is not validation for you to neglect others, and it should not be a block towards how much truth the other tells, regardless of the intention behind it.

Being “truthful” and blocking any input is wrong because everyone does not always say a complete lie, but they try to spotlight something you are ignorant of. It can be not only a disagreement with your opinion, but simply a failure to listen, being in double ignorance, ego puffing up for temporary power based on illusion, or whatever else.

It is best to listen, but listen differently, not with fear, shame, or guilt of being imperfect, but with the purpose of bettering your character and expanding your baggage of good knowledge. Anyone in our lives, even if delusional, you can always sense even a drop of truth in what they say, which can be used to complexify and empower your awareness, after all everyone are in touch to a certain extent to life in which we all are living.

When approached rightly and with willingness to learn, with intuition training, empathy, reasoning directed more rightly, knowledge growth, and life experience, all of the above and more can be gained from an argument handled properly, instead of feeling “lost, wrong, ashamed, or guilty” or whatever. All of these good and evolutionary things can grow, by participating in communication, and be trained.

Always be aware that maybe you are not truly right, and no one can be 100% truthful either, because such wisdom is on extremely high levels of divinity… unless the topic is very simple, just, and straightforward, and one truly is right. But it needs to be handled carefully because what another is saying may not align with your truth, or even be off-topic, but their point may contain truth which is valuable and part of life as well.

After all, the other person may be feeling the same way communicating their truth to you. Imagine what misfortune it is when one goes to either extreme of being right or wrong without finding a middle ground, blocking communication, and hardening this for another person who is also going to the opposite pole. It’s the chaos.

Knowing the above gives responsibility and empowerment for steering communication where it is better for everyone. It opens the mind for flexible communication, open not only to measures of being right or wrong and how much right or wrong, but also maybe exploring other underlying problems: maybe personal, maybe relational, maybe karmic between individuals, for it to be solved and acknowledged by both parties or finding out something about yourself what you may want to fix.

There is no better feeling than peace, and finding compromise sometimes, right? It is also a great empowerment, and being in peace with others in the name of advancement can give you grace from another and a blessing of support from another person which can make you more powerful.

-Flamma Bellum

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Good day, and thank you for this. It is a real piece of reflection, and it lands on something the Temple of Zeus and its Clergy have been teaching for years, so it deserves a serious engagement rather than a polite nod.

The term you used, "Yehuboric lies," is a precise one. High Priest Zevios Metathronos defines it on the Liturgical Terms - YEHUBORIM page as the condition of those who bear the seal of the Divine yet are inwardly void of Divine presence: hollow vessels whose boast is loud while their vessel is empty, who engage in spiritual warfare through lies. When you write that these lies are "seeds of disbalance" that sprout into "I against others" or "others against me," you are describing exactly the pathology that page names. The point is not that your interlocutor is bad. The point is that when communication hardens into two camps insisting on their own truth, both sides have already lost the conversation before it began.

The middle ground you call for is not a weak compromise. It is the heart of the entire Zevist system. Ma'at is described by the Clergy as the supreme Zevist concept: truth, justice, order, balance, and cosmic harmony, all at once, inseparable. Ma'at is not a commandment to obey but the structure of reality itself, the way things actually are. To live in Ma'at is to perceive the order and act in harmony with it, not to argue louder than the person across from you. The same idea runs through Virtue Ϝ - Temperance, where Aristotle's teaching "Everything in moderation" is preserved as a foundational principle. Temperance is the art of staying within the range of balance, never trespassing into excess or deficiency. The page is blunt about what happens when temperance is lost: disharmony, problems, evil.

This is why your warning about extremes lands. When two people both go to the absolute pole of their position, neither into excess nor deficiency, they end up exactly where you described: chaos. And the High Priest has made this point in plain language on the Ancient Forums. In a post titled "Arrogant, all-knowing people READ THIS" at this thread, he wrote that a little logical debating is fine, that people have their own truth, that we learn from others constantly, and that "we just have to agree on the logical middle ground." That line is the same logic your essay is walking. Two people can disagree, but they can both be partially right, and they can both extract something useful from each other if ego doesn't take the wheel.

You also named something important without naming it formally: "double ignorance." That term comes from Proclus, and the High Priest has written about it on the forums at this thread. The core idea is that the person who thinks they know but does not know is ignorant but just thinks they know. The shame is not in not knowing. The shame is in pretending to know when you do not. This maps directly onto your point about not being 100% truthful and about ego puffing up for temporary power based on illusion. When someone blocks your input because they are certain they are right, they may not be in possession of the full picture; they may be in double ignorance without realizing it.

On the listening piece, which is really the heart of your essay: Conscious Communication by High Priestess Lydia Coventina addresses exactly this. She teaches that a chaotic mind leads to poor communication, which causes frustration, conflict, and lowered self-esteem. The creative practices she outlines, journaling, rewriting replies you wish you had given, practicing in front of a mirror, are practical ways to train the kind of listening-without-ego you are describing. And High Priest Zevios Metathronos's Knowing Before We Speak - Helping Each Other points to the same skill: think and understand before reacting, support each other through disagreements rather than treating them as battles to be won.

A real-life parallel that might help: think of two drivers at a four-way stop, both insisting they have the right of way. Neither backs down. Both are technically correct about something, and both are technically wrong about something else. The accident is not caused by the rules of the road; it is caused by the refusal to give a little. Communication between two people works the same way. The "middle ground" is not splitting the difference; it is the recognition that two people, each holding a partial truth, can produce something neither of them possessed alone, provided both stay open.

One thing worth watching in your own essay, gently: you write that peace and compromise are themselves a form of empowerment, that grace from another and support can make you more powerful. This is true, and the Clergy teaches it directly. But it can become its own trap if it is used as another way to win. Real peace is not strategic. It is the condition in which both people can hear each other, which is what Virtue H - Harmony describes: "It takes good ears to listen to the harmonious cycles of existence. The one who refuses to listen is bound to dance wrongly."

If anything in this sparks a question, or a disagreement, that is exactly the proof that the principle works.

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