itsstarfire said:
Thanks it was the full moon on the 26, so friday the 29th im beginning cord cutting. only thing i'm confused about, it says one person at a time?
Does this mean like when im doing the working, i have to perform one working at a time for each person, or does it mean one person every 3 days after the full moon?
In my experience, the amount of time and effort required to break a connection with other people depends mostly on how deeply intertwined you are with that person.
If it’s just superficial, like a teacher at school or an uncle you see once in a while, perhaps a friend of a friend you aren’t too close with but still meet and talk to regularly due to being a part of the friend circle, etc, it usually doesn’t require a full working for just that one person.
What I do to disconnect from people is visualize the person in my mind, and trace back the connection to them, most often I visualize it as a thread, then I cut the thread, either by visualizing a scissor or knife, or by chopping it with my astral hand wreathed in Zevist blue fire.
Then I visualize (and feel), the blue fire burning the thread in both directions, until they are completely gone.
After that I blot out the persons face or name similar to how we blot out the Hebrew letters during the final Ritual (nickname works as well, just anything you identify the person with), and affirm either mentally or out loud that any connection between me and the person is totally severed and the person never interacts with me again, never thinks of me again, and never shows themselves before me again.
Works really well. It works best to this for one person at a time.
Just one single time is enough for most cases in my experience, this may differ though depending on your ability, so gauge for yourself how it feels after just one single day, if you aren’t sure it’s enough, continue detaching daily until any doubts regarding the success of the working go away on their own.
As for removing connections from regular strangers, they are too shallow to leave much of an impression, so just cleaning your aura usually takes care of that.
Visualizing Zevist blue fire cleansing your aura and burning all unwanted foreign influences works well as an extra addition if you feel regular aura cleaning doesn’t do it for you.
After severing my connection with a person, I take some time to clean my consciousness of any sentiments or residual emotions regarding the person I detach from. Any grief I may feel I let out at that moment once and for all. Any anger I return to them during the burning of the thread, and I permanently close of any happy memories or positive things by giving them their place in my memory and close of that piece in my consciousness by reminiscing until I am satisfied, then never thinking back to it again.
This I do to settle any regrets and remaining emotions to prevent them from lingering and making me cling to the person I seek to detach from for any reason.
After wards I never think of them again, and if somehow they do come up in my thoughts I immediately void them from my thoughts and give it no attention. If I meet them in my life again due to circumstances, I pay no attention to them and regard them only as strangers you see on the street. If I must talk to them for whatever reason, I speak to them as strangers as well and in my mind I continuously visualize blue fire surrounding me, burning any connection the person tries to establish on the spot, while pushing them away. Sometimes I visualize a solid barrier between me and them, and completely disregard them in my mind, and if this isn’t enough, I mentally let my anger flare up and mentally tell them to shut up and get out of my sight.
As a last resort type of thing, you can visualize burning them painfully with Zevist blue fire, or giving them a punch with a flame wreathed fist in the face, visualize them falling on the ground and looking down upon them with disdain.
All in the mind and with visualization of course.
People cannot sense telepathy consciously, but people subconsciously feel these things, especially if you have a stronger presence or soul, they shut up and leave you alone of their own accord when you reject them so harshly, and the best thing is, you can keep up your appearances by remaining distant but courteous in the physical while letting your mind do the rejection completely unseen to them or the people around you as harshly as you desire.
So outwardly you may be smiling and seemingly quite friendly, while inwardly you show your true emotions and direct them at the person.
It is kind of a variation of the Evil Eye technique on the TEMPLE OF ZEUS.
Lastly for detaching from very persistent people, or people you are deeply connected to, like a partner you’ve had sex with for years and want to detach from now, you need to do the severing and blotting out of the person everyday, and you should specifically go through all your chakra’s, especially the sacral chakra, to detach any individual connection that person has to your chakra’s.
You can use a working to set yourself free from them as well. Like an Ansuz working to set yourself free from this person, or a thurisaz working to sever any connection you have with them.
Sort out your own emotions as well like I explained above. When you do void, take extra time and care to void any attachment or emotions you have towards that person from your mind completely. In cases that are deep, there is often mutual attachment, and just detaching from the other person may not be enough, as you yourself may still cling to them and subconsciously re-establish or maintain the connection you are trying to sever.
Consciously settling any regrets and emotions regarding the other person is an integral part of detaching. This includes hate you may feel towards them. The person you detach from should be of completely no concern to you, like a stranger you’ve never met, someone you don’t care about at all in any way.
Whether they live or die, what they do with their life, what they think or feel, all irrelevant, no longer of any concern to you.
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