Simple. They are always talking to you. Its not a one man/woman show. You can't hear them until you do the necessary meditations and open yourself up Psychically. When you're open psychically you will be able to talk to them anytime you want. You can talk to them write now by simply sitting down, focusing your mind a little bit and letting them know that you understand that they are present and you want to say something to them. And then say, something to them that you want them to know. They will hear you. You won't be able to sense it yet, but they will hear you plain as day. They may even try to manifest something to let you know they got it. The meditations are the key to it all. They are connected to you helping to support your life activities. It would be a nice gesture on your part if you let them know that your planning to open yourself up to them psychically and that you value everything they have done for you already.