Proshat
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- Dec 16, 2024
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Greetings, brothers and sisters 
I’ve been reflecting on this topic based on how often it’s mentioned here. Lately, I’ve noticed many people discussing it and expressing a strong desire for it.
Honestly, I struggle to understand why it matters so much or why so many are deeply invested. (This isn’t criticism—I’m genuinely trying to grasp what I might be missing before it’s too late.)
Isn’t marriage difficult? I also wrestle with the ethics of bringing children into this world, fearing they might suffer. It doesn't matter how powerful one is, we can't make sure children won't suffer.
Wouldn’t it be better to focus on pursuing spirituality (even if it takes 2000 years…
)?
About relationship outside of marriage I seriously feel terrified to love someone because I will get hurt if it doesn't go well. I'm mentally drained and can't take drama or pain. I've never been in any relationships before.
I somehow love the peace and quiet in my life and think if I bring someone into my life my peace will be disturbed and my time wasted.

I’ve been reflecting on this topic based on how often it’s mentioned here. Lately, I’ve noticed many people discussing it and expressing a strong desire for it.
Honestly, I struggle to understand why it matters so much or why so many are deeply invested. (This isn’t criticism—I’m genuinely trying to grasp what I might be missing before it’s too late.)
Isn’t marriage difficult? I also wrestle with the ethics of bringing children into this world, fearing they might suffer. It doesn't matter how powerful one is, we can't make sure children won't suffer.
Wouldn’t it be better to focus on pursuing spirituality (even if it takes 2000 years…

About relationship outside of marriage I seriously feel terrified to love someone because I will get hurt if it doesn't go well. I'm mentally drained and can't take drama or pain. I've never been in any relationships before.
I somehow love the peace and quiet in my life and think if I bring someone into my life my peace will be disturbed and my time wasted.