Flamma Bellum
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I think to manage those emotions which resurfaces as more painful than first time as you said, is to see it with new eyes, with different understanding, in order to take it other way, and make something good and new out of it. Clarity should be key here, to be able to see for what it is, as it is not same emotions like was first time, if it resurfaced, maybe it is the assumption which makes one to think that it is the same emotion from first time and this assumption makes one to feel pain but not the emotion.