% sahasrarabliss I realize that physical proximity is completely unrelated to pretty much any spell. Perhaps I was preoccupied with physical proximity at the time, due to thinking about the individual while they were sleeping. LOL. Or maybe I was definitely preoccupied and had my head completely up my ass thinking about sex. Yup… That was it. I don’t feel confident enough or powerful enough to just pick someone I find sexy and convince them to have sex with me, without at least talking to them once or twice. I still need to find that person. It will be awhile before that happens. I’m new to this and can see that there are a few components that are helpful when making it successful, such as engaging them in initial conversation, having a general idea of where they are from i.e. to talk to them for at least two minutes in order to develop an astrological profile of the person. I find out a lot about somebody in 2-minutes just using a simple psychological profiling method. Usually more than they know about themselves, so I’m sure the spell will work exceedingly well as long as I concentrate on the spell and not on putting myself under their spell. That’s the problem. Can you describe a time when you used such a spell, and what you did, (without putting out identity information)?