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Bullying, Physical Abuse (for students etc)

AvatarHigh Priestess Lydia Coventina10 min to read

This isn’t about a bit of hazing or light banter, which often happens among young people: testing each other out, testing limits.

This post is for those who experience a lot of stress and anxiety caused by consistent abuse, even threats to your life. There are other people out there who are cruel and take it out on anyone they see as being their target.

For anyone experiencing real abuse, you need to know what you are up against, and how to deal with it in the best way for you. (More on this later in this post.)

There are children and teenagers who had to be removed from school, either home-schooled or transferred to another school, because they were being bullied and couldn’t cope. But there are more young people don’t have this option, and don’t know how to deal with this problem.

First off, don’t believe the threat that you will get into more trouble if you tell your parents, teachers, or the police. And do not buy into the “gangster rule” of “not being a grass/snitch”. There is no “honor” in keeping things like this to yourself. This is entirely an enemy agenda of keeping people quiet to accept more abuse to cause further psychological damage. The only judgement you should care about is that of the Gods, and they want you to get the best outcome for you.

Related to this, if you ever lose friends because you brought attention to the problem, then those people were not actually your friends. It’s as simple as that. With all the people in the world, you can easily find new friends. Friends should have your back, not ditch you for “not being cool”. Potential friends are a dime a dozen. Find people of value to be friends with. Don’t ever stop yourself from doing the right thing, out of fear of what your friends will think. Your real friends will stick by you.

Now, about fighting back against bullies. Unfortunately, in this day and age you never know who has a knife or even a gun. So this makes it complicated when it comes to standing up for yourself, because standing up for yourself might actually make you a target of something much worse than a few punches. In cases like this, avoid the person, and tell your parents or teachers or even the police if you feel threatened.

Fortunately, in this day and age everyone has camera phones. Learn to discretely film any potential threats for evidence. Practice in a mirror at home or with a trusted friend so you can learn to be very subtle and quick. Pretend you are texting or something. But if you’re caught, your phone might get smashed up, so be aware of this. You also probably don’t want to have to give your phone to the police or school for evidence, so a more discrete option is to have voice recorder device on and have it in your pocket. And about cameras, if someone comes up to you to fight you, tell them there are security cameras around. This should at least make the person hesitate long enough for you to get away.

Another thing you need to learn is to be mentally tough. A few punches should not cause psychological damage. The people who do become psychologically damaged from light one-time violence are generally people who do not have a father, or do have a father but he is also physically abusive. Kids fight, don’t let a few fights get to you. For dealing with verbal abuse, you can insult them back if you can (only if you know it won’t lead to them physically attacking you) or just ignore it (more on this later in this post) if this is the safer option for you. Let it go, do not dwell on it, and don’t let it become bigger than it is.

Some things can be fought against, and you might even earn the respect of others. Standing strong, being quick-witted, bantering back, and so on. Many friendships have formed from this. Even physical fighting has resulted in some of the best friendships forming, but these days, fighting can get you expelled from school so it is definitely best to avoid this. There are many cases all through history of people becoming best friends after having a good fight against each other.

But the above paragraphs are about something minor. For those experiencing constant bullying, this is different. This is something that needs to be dealt with, and healed from.

For those who try telling parents or teachers, and nothing results from it: Keep telling them. Make them listen. Yell if you have to. A lot of problems are caused by people keeping silent, it is not natural to keep silent regarding such matters. This alone can cause damage to the soul. You need to make yourself heard. Many parents downplay problems because they don’t know how to deal with it, or don’t want to believe that their child is in danger.

For those who are certain they cannot tell your parents for whatever reason: Make it anonymous. Write/print it out on paper and discretely deliver it to the school guidance counselor or principal, include the name of the person abusing you. Or call a hotline (you can find the one in your area online or it might even be listed on your school website). But for further action to be taken, you will need to come forward and testify; they will walk you through the steps.

Now for the good part: You can strengthen yourself, and you can heal yourself from any trauma. A lot of bullies narrow in on potential victims, they can see who is weaker. It isn’t about physical weakness, because some of the worst bullies are themselves physically weak, but they are manipulative and get the results they want. There are different types of strength, and different types of weakness.

In the Temple of Zeus, there are methods to strengthen yourself. Work on your solar chakra and aura especially, but also clean your chakras and soul. Doing an aura of protection will go a long way. There is also a binding spell which can be done on those who are abusing you, but be realistic about this. If someone insults you a bit, let it go. That is not abuse, it is just life. Bindings should only be done on actual abusers, not based on a whim.

Another important thing is to strengthen your mind. A lot of people are weak-minded because we are not taught in schools or from parents how to have a stronger mind and character. This is why I mentioned in this post about letting some things go and not dwelling on minor abuse. Strengthen your mind, know what is to be simply ignored and moved past. This is imperative for many things in life, so this can be seen as practice, in order to do even better in your life. Having a strong mind and character will be shown to others, and they will know you are not someone to easily mess with. Light occasional abuse is a part of life, so either fight back in an appropriate way (don’t go overboard, simply match what they did on the same level if you feel this is safe to do so) or ignore it. Ignoring them is usually the best answer, because most bullies are looking for a response from you. Void meditation will help you ignore anything that is not worth putting your attention towards.

Ignoring is powerful, because it shows the other person that they are completely irrelevant to you and not worth your time. But, realistically, it can potentially lead to them taking things a step further in order to get the attention they want, so you might need to talk to them and tell them you won’t put up with anything. Start politely, because things might actually turn out much better than you were expecting. Politeness often goes a long way, because a lot of bullies act out because their parents neglect them or are constantly rude to them. Being polite to them can sometimes (but not always) result in them becoming a better person.

Regarding cyberbullying, just block and ignore. Never reply to them, they want attention so don’t give it to them. If they send any threats, save it and report it to the police or school authority, but don’t reply personally in any way to the cyberbully. Ignore any bait, your time is valuable so don’t waste it on them.

A good way to deal with problematic situations is by acting them out with your friends or parents, or just visualizing in your mind. Go over potential threatening scenarios and talk your way through them. This will give you the familiarity needed to deal with real-life situations with more confidence.

Getting back to the subject of real abuse:

What you can do to help resolve the situation and heal yourself: Spiritual Venting/Revenge Ritual. Hold a standard ritual to Zeus. At the height of the ritual, vent all your anger, rage, embarrassment, frustration, all those feelings. Feel them strongly. If you feel repressed or beaten down, get the feelings of frustration from this. Release it all, and ask for the energy to be directed properly: either to the bully, or just to “the enemy” in general, whatever you feel is right for you.

If you have access to something you can physically attack as a prop, this can help a lot. Use a pillow if there is nothing you can smash up. Just keep hitting the pillow until you feel better. Get your rage out during the ritual, spend as much time as you need doing this.

When you feel finished, end the ritual, thank any Demon who helped you, and clean your aura. Then, do something to make yourself happy. Watch something that makes you laugh, visit with a good friend, or practice a hobby you enjoy, for example. You will likely feel tired from the ritual, but you will also feel better, like you have accomplished something.

You can repeat this ritual whenever you feel the need to do it. Any Waning Moon in Scorpio or Capricorn will give extra power (download the of your location for dates), but this can in fact be done any time you need it. Don’t let it build up inside of you, waiting for the best time to do it. Do it when you need to. And then you can do it again during the aforementioned Moon timings.

And don’t forget that you can talk with a therapist. Talking about problems can help make things better, and give clarity of mind. On a final note, meditation will grow inner strength and enable you to cope better in all situations.

Zeus leads us to inner peace, and strength.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#1

Internet Warriors, you can pass this around in relevant places online to help bring people to the ToZ, so that those who struggle with this problem can come to the Gods and find help.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#2

The one time a guy started picking on me in high school, I clearly told him that if he continues then it would get bad for the both of us.
From that day he actually started liking me lol

I am reaching towards a green apple.

#3

The one time a guy started picking on me in high school, I clearly told him that if he continues then it would get bad for the both of us.
From that day he actually started liking me lol

Words of Wisdom, Thanks High Priestess!!

#4

Void meditation, thinking on the Eternal in Lotus Pose or any other similar pose. When you wake up. Even just for 10 minutes as a start. Everything ,all movement starts from the Lotus Pose. Yes this will protect you as your karmic pattern unfolds. Void meditation being still thinking on the Eternal, everyday. When you get comfortable in the Lotus Pose,you can even start doing mantras in it,reading JOS articles in it, doing JOS ritual schedules, pràying to the Gods in it and so on. When you feel low,sit in the Lotus Pose and think on the Eternal within,Pure Unchanging Energy. It can't be seen physically but it can be felt. Get into the habit of always feeling the Eternal. This is protection. It's Hatha Yoga,a mystic must live in the spine, activating Sushumna Nadi, this is the soul and is Centering. Centering is protection. Make a habit of being still, spine upright, thinking on the Eternal even just for 10 minutes when you wake up.

#5

This is nice advice and all,

But who cares. At the end of the day they are all a bunch of fucking monkeys anyway. And trust me, they deserve waaaaaaaaaay worse, most of them. Humanity is fucked. I have seen some things, talked to some people and experienced some things that truly left such a lasting mark... that I will probably never get rid of. And no matter how much I try to be optimistic, the more I realize that sometimes, not even your parents are worth shit, let alone other "humans".

Which is why I dont give a fuck if someone gets proportionately OR disproportionately what they deserve coming to them from me. The world isnt fair, and they weren't, so Im gonna reflect back to them their choice.

Im certain most of us have lived long enough in extreme and different types of pain, to even have any sort of peace left inside of us. Like a walking time bomb or some shit.

I dont care anymore if what I do is too much or unfair or whatever. THe gods dont give a damn anyways, like what are the others totheir eyes even? From what I have read on here the gods wouldnt care that much if all other people go and choose death, which isnt a stance I am in disagreement against either.

It sure is fucking fair when you consider all the things little me endured and never could stand up to, and all the shit I still go through without any help. No one cares.

I dont care that my rituals killed that asshole. I really dont. I used to. Cried even.

But the more I lived life the more i realized that maybe even i did this world a favor by getting rid of him.

If it makes you happy, do it. You're gonna die anyway.

#6

If I only I knew of this knowledge 20 years ago.

#7

Another thing you need to learn is to be mentally tough. A few punches should not cause psychological damage. The people who do become psychologically damaged from light one-time violence are generally people who do not have a father, or do have a father but he is also physically abusive. Kids fight, don’t let a few fights get to you. For dealing with verbal abuse, you can insult them back if you can (only if you know it won’t lead to them physically attacking you) or just ignore it (more on this later in this post) if this is the safer option for you. Let it go, do not dwell on it, and don’t let it become bigger than it is

What you said about lacking parents is true. I grew up without a father and noticed one-time light violence having a big impact on me, often lingering on it and feeling my reaction is amiss. What do you recommend to move on from this? I wonder what the effects of an absent mother are. I didn't have a mother either.

#8
This is the targeted message.

In primary school, I had a person in my class who teased and picked on others. One of those people was me.
My mother raised me in a way that didn't allow me to be a victim. She always used to tell me that if someone hit me, I should hit back. So when my tormentor was ready to attack, I struck back. This person never bothered me again after this.
We didn't became friends, but we used to talk normally at school after this incident.

#9

Great article.

Thank you. It means a lot to all of us.

I have had many experiences in this regard.

I don't know what I would have done without the gods on my side.
Once I asked Lord Belial for help in this matter.
I visualized his sigil, and suddenly there was a gust of wind in my room. The leaves of the book in front of me flew.

He helped me from the very beginning. He tried to teach me and help me even though I was not behaving properly as a Zevist. And that was very meaningful.

I'm grateful to him for that.

HAIL ZEUS!
Hail Belial!
Hail Azazel!

[ email redacted ]

#10

What you said about lacking parents is true. I grew up without a father and noticed one-time light violence having a big impact on me, often lingering on it and feeling my reaction is amiss. What do you recommend to move on from this? I wonder what the effects of an absent mother are. I didn't have a mother either.

When you are advanced enough, try past life meditations to feel your parents from past lives. I know one Zevist who benefited from this.

Do the Rituals to the Gods, such as for Zeus (or any of the other Gods who you could see as a father figure) and Astarte, and request to be healed from the loss of not having parents.

We all have our lives and our problems, and the Zevists here are special souls who will accomplish great things despite not having ideal circumstances.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#11

In my case, it was the teachers themselves who made my life impossible, all because as a child I openly and violently rejected Xianity and although it was a public school and not a church school, it was a right-wing school and the Xian teachers did not like my anti-Christian ideology.
It was never physical abuse, what they did was humiliate me in front of the other classmates and try to isolate me, I went from being a good student in the first years to failing everything, until my parents got fed up and denuncie the school and they took me out from that damn school.
But the damage was already done, I developed a deep hatred for going to class and studying and I was never a good student again.

#12

Unfortunately, I have also suffered this kind of abuse. I tell you from the bottom of my heart: don't keep quiet! Most, if not all, of what I went through would have been resolved if I had told someone. As HPS Lydia said, don't be afraid to tell and don't think, like me, that it will make you weak or incapable. Wanting to deal with everything on your own isn't always the best way forward and you're actually being very strong by asking for support. A small annoyance should get your attention, because small problems become big ones if they are not nipped in the bud from the start.

I am grateful to the Gods for being with me in all my healing processes. Keep faith in the Gods and all will be well, their justice is true and relentless.

Zeus created warriors.

Leve-me contigo para as constelações.
— Ao meu Demônio Guardião.

"You will be here as long as i am here and that is forever."
— Zeus.

[URL=' Zeusás!
Salve Astarte!
Salve Lorde Andras!
Salve Lorde Carnivean!
Salve os Deuses de Órion!

#13
TheWhiteGiantsaid:post: 494810

This is nice advice and all,

But who cares. At the end of the day they are all a bunch of fucking monkeys anyway. And trust me, they deserve waaaaaaaaaay worse, most of them. Humanity is fucked. I have seen some things, talked to some people and experienced some things that truly left such a lasting mark... that I will probably never get rid of. And no matter how much I try to be optimistic, the more I realize that sometimes, not even your parents are worth shit, let alone other "humans".

Which is why I dont give a fuck if someone gets proportionately OR disproportionately what they deserve coming to them from me. The world isnt fair, and they weren't, so Im gonna reflect back to them their choice.

Please brother, I advise you to do at least in light trance a deep soul cleansing as described by HPS Pythia on the aura cleansing page, a psychological trauma removal with Wunjo and the Astarte ritual.

#14

I experienced severe pain reading this

#15

I appreciate this post so much. I put up with bullying and abuse in and outside the home and cold treatment as well as alienation has carried well into my adult life as well.

I have actually been thinking of doing cathartic revenge rituals as well as talking with a therapist. It's interesting, just a week or so before seeing this post to day I was trying to reach out to Satan about certain troubles with mental health,that have been huge blocks to certain parts of advancement lately. Perhaps I needed to reach a state to be more aware of some actual problems I thought were long gone years ago in my teen years, and so I asked what I should do and who I should go to.

My question is who could there be who genuinely cares for a humans mental health and healing whose last name isn't berg something.

#16

HPS Lydia 🙂 Thank you! For for sharing this sermon.

💙🖤 Walking the sacred path🖤💙
Spreading the Truth of Zeus🔥Getting rid of the lies 🔥

#18
TheWhiteGiantsaid:post: 494810

This is nice advice and all,

But who cares. At the end of the day they are all a bunch of fucking monkeys anyway. And trust me, they deserve waaaaaaaaaay worse, most of them. Humanity is fucked. I have seen some things, talked to some people and experienced some things that truly left such a lasting mark... that I will probably never get rid of. And no matter how much I try to be optimistic, the more I realize that sometimes, not even your parents are worth shit, let alone other "humans".

Which is why I dont give a fuck if someone gets proportionately OR disproportionately what they deserve coming to them from me. The world isnt fair, and they weren't, so Im gonna reflect back to them their choice.

I like how you think 💀 i generally don't like the "be a nice goy" moral rule especially on a website like this

#19

Thank you HPS for such a great sermon. This will truly save our young people facing such problems

#20

Great and very helpful post, I wish I could hear these advices back when I was a kid, I'm sure it would've been a life changer - Hopefully, it will be for those members who go through it in the present time, and read it.

One thing I like to ask in connection to the topic is how one can heal from the consequences from it as an adult? In my case I grew up in an abusive and completely unstable environment, and as a result my personality and behavior distorted in some ways, and greatly altered the course of my life compared to a normal person's. Altough, despite everything that had happened to me, I don't really feel anger or hate towards the people who abused and bullied me. I do feel it for short periods of time on rare occasion, but for the most part I don't - Even when it would've been the right thing to feel. I do have negative emotions about it, such as sadness, self-pity and such, but there's no emotions directed towards the abusers themselves. Part of the reason is that back then we were kids or young teens, thus I can't really blame them for their behavior (I know I should tho). My memory about those times aren't really intact either, I have some bits here and there but other than that I can't really recall anything. Even if I have some small glimpses I feel disconnected from them, as if it was the memories of someone else and not me. That's the reason I can't really vent or perform a revenge ritual, because I lack the emotions needed for it.

I also can't really cope or react to anger or criticism directed towards me, no matter if the other person doesn't have malicious intents. I'II always react in an overdramatic way to it, and go full on flight or fight mode, even if the only thing the other person said is "I don't like you" or something similar. It feels extremely humiliating that as a grown-ass adult I can't control or regulate my own emotions. I'II start to shake and tremble like crazy, so much so that it's a struggle to stay upright without collapsing, and I'II have the urge to just break out crying, and flee the scene as fast as I can. I had quite a few embarassing and humiliating moments because of this, it's clearly noticeably to others when it happend. My body literally acts like as if a serial killer would be there to hunt me down, when in reality it's just someone saying one mean comment or criticism to me.