A Guide On Feeling Offended

[Stormblood]

Some people here need to read this. I would also like to say that emotions are energy and they need to be controlled by you, not them controlling you. And when I say control, I don't mean one has to restrain them. I mean they have to acknowledge them and ponder why this emotions came up. And then direct them to the proper goal, not letting them control you and bitch against anyone just because one "feels so", especially when there are people who are trying to make you more self-aware.

 

[curio]

Some people here need to read this. I would also like to say that emotions are energy and they need to be controlled by you, not them controlling you. And when I say control, I don't mean one has to restrain them. I mean they have to acknowledge them and ponder why this emotions came up. And then direct them to the proper goal, not letting them control you and bitch against anyone just because one "feels so", especially when there are people who are trying to make you more self-aware.

Some people here don't need a guide on getting offended. They could write one of their own. :lol:

 

[EasternFireLion666]

This is just a general thought but I feel like the internet sometimes does more damage than good in regards to any kind of manipulation...

 

[TheFlea]

Some people here need to read this. I would also like to say that emotions are energy and they need to be controlled by you, not them controlling you. And when I say control, I don't mean one has to restrain them. I mean they have to acknowledge them and ponder why this emotions came up. And then direct them to the proper goal, not letting them control you and bitch against anyone just because one "feels so", especially when there are people who are trying to make you more self-aware.

That's pretty in-depth, I can see you've been working hard at this. Thanks for the reminder

 

[Taol]

Thank you for the post HP Hoodedcobra

There is something I was very offended over in the past that was to the point that it made me unable to do anything and I had no way of expressing it. It was horrible.

At the time I was not even able to say what was wrong clearly, but now looking back on it.. I was aware of everyone. At any moment.
And those same people said things to me, felt like they were picking on me, and then I felt like I was met with a wall, no warmth, just 'youre the newbie you cant do anything'.
In the end I think there may have been some outside influence that had a hand in this, but that is aside the point that, if one is family, one should not be afraid to express himself or feel like he or she has to hide what is truly going on in fear of being attacked.

Later on I heard that they never wanted me back.
I've felt like utter shit for an entire year and I was so so sooo mad that I had a VERY VERY hard time to focus on anything else than being mad.


I do not wish to be underestimated anymore, nor to be given the other cheek and not hear anything positive towards me.
I have worked very hard in the past just to get a little bit of approval that others seemed to get so easily.

But I have to take into consideration my own capabilities and need to be more confident in taking my own decisions in regards to what I make and do, rather than let others step in front of me and tell me what to do all the time.

This is just what I wanted to say at this point in time and honestly I don't give a crap about what anyone else thinks about what I just said. You can tell me all kinds of stuff but to me you can just stick it up your ass and get the fuck out of my life.

 

[Dypet Rod]

Thank you for this sermon, HP Hooded Cobra.

I think we all can find ourselves in this situation every now and then, to a greater or lesser extent.

 

[Godmode]

Hail Satan, guilty of it myself at times but needs to be said!

 

[Luna Black]

HP Hooded Cobra be like :

:lol:

 

[Aquarius]

This is just a general thought but I feel like the internet sometimes does more damage than good in regards to any kind of manipulation...

Because you gotta stop binge clicking anything that is useless for you to click on, just do what is necessary to do on the web, jos, the forums, advices, some anime when you’ve done your rtrs and whatever you need that isnt bad for you

 

[EasternFireLion666]

This is just a general thought but I feel like the internet sometimes does more damage than good in regards to any kind of manipulation...

Because you gotta stop binge clicking anything that is useless for you to click on, just do what is necessary to do on the web, jos, the forums, advices, some anime when you’ve done your rtrs and whatever you need that isnt bad for you

Very true. Wish more people had discernment

 

[Aquarius]

HP Hooded Cobra be like :

:lol:

lol ahahah

 

[TheFlea]

Because you gotta stop binge clicking anything that is useless for you to click on, just do what is necessary to do on the web, jos, the forums, advices, some anime when you’ve done your rtrs and whatever you need that isnt bad for you

I've actually started doing this lately, and you are right. I can't believe how much extra time I have now :mrgreen:

 

[Kitsunebi]

HP Hooded Cobra be like :

:lol:

lol ahahah

Somebody help him :<...

 

[luis]

On the topic of offensiveness: Recently I've started to notice now that almost 10% of the people I see on a regular basis are Yehuborim, and I find this quite offensive. Especially when they try and talk about spirituality, or popular culture.

Another thing I find quite offensive in my daily life is how people around me treat the environment. Leaving garbage wherever they please, throwing cigarette butts all over the place, and throwing empty cans to the wind.

I hate how people leave their shits on the street too! And i'm noticing this more now. It's disgusting!