My reasoning for why love spells on specific people can be a bad idea is that the practitioner often DOES NOT KNOW the person or themselves well enough or the nature of their relationship to understand what is going to happen. In some cases, this relates to ignorance of unfinished business, othertimes, it's just basic lack of awareness of anything.
Even if they understand Tarot or Astrology [rare], they can still be delusional and ignore what those are saying.
These spells can bind people to you quite a lot, depending on how much you do them. So you don't want to do these spells for some person you have a vague crush on and then feel disgusted by or neutral to or 'what the hell was I thinking'... which is a very normal process with wishy-washy or socially conditioned crushes (certain teenage girls have crushes on celebrity males or boys who can buy them alcohol, then they grow up and think 'what the hell was that?, to use an example...). You want them for very serious love matters. There's a pop song called love takes time or something, that's actually true.
On the other hand, if you take no risks in life and just dither about what 'could happen' like a fretting toddler, you will end up a static lump of nothing, who does nothing. 7th House cannot be invested into with 'nothing'. People do need to experiment WITHIN REASON. There are a lot of dimensions to love and sex and things like this. HPS Pythia put these on the site because they are a very ancient and constantly used type of Magick, particularly by women. HP Cobra said this because people 'can' do them, yes, because that's how it is.
It would be ludicrous if you 'can't' do this whatsoever yet the spell to curse someone to death is there on the site, the latter person is certainly not consenting.
The other issue is that methods to theoretically harm someone else are often done by people without 'unconsciously' with varying levels of power (like Mars in Scorpio people whose hatred can unconsciously ruin others) . LIkewise, this idea that Love Magick is always a thoroughly unnatural intrusion onto consent wielded by a neckbearded freak in a raincoat and not present already in the 'goyim world' is not really true. It is there in varying forms. Even when someone fantasizes about someone else and does whatever as a result, it's present.
Someone with prominent Mars or Venus in the 8th or 5th (if they don't have tons of contradictions to these tendencies) is typically going to have spiritual advantages on average that means they trash or divert their romantic or sexual competition, function like a magnet, think about sex or romance a lot compared to the 'frigid' who don't desire it, make their partner subconsciously give in (natural hypnotic suggestive quality), and so on.
YET, I can't go into this too much, but this kind of person often has advantages they and their family have refined in this area that require perpetual MATERIAL ACTIVE EFFORT (i.e. successfully achieving romance or sex), sustained in REALITY. So the sometimes Magickal adeptness present in the fiber of their nativity is a 'reward' here, it isn't 'by accident'.
The downside is that this can have really adverse consequences when someone invests so much into romance, sex and power compared to... anything else. This position can also be involved occasionally in dark sided and very nonconsensual things like stalking someone or abusing a partner. The reward can be somewhat poisonous. Just like using a love spell stupidly, even these natural things have consequences. One example is the 8th House person becoming insanely obsessed with a person and this makes their life take a huge turn for the worse like murder. Others are STIs, for instance. These can bring serious destabilization.
This applies even racially, for those who are aware. Blacks have it easier with overt flirting and sensuality [this can have adverse consequences when too much sex is 'achieved' for obvious reasons] because they invest much into it, they always did. Other races are more moderate in their expressions of sensuality or had traditions of arranged marriages where the connection was not so much sexual but meant to be companionate, cerebral and status-oriented. These approaches all have pluses and minuses.
As people have observed here due to the popularity of blackpill theories etc, yes, looks alone can do this as well. The halo of certain beautiful people can make others become completely irrational to the point of overriding their 'default setting' and to be honest, this is not really 'ethical' at all either, Socrates warns about this. Beautiful people can get away with a lot of bad things (NOT always, occasionally beautiful people are screwed because of their beauty). Power can also do this. Ugly toads in government can and do fuck whoever they want.
Likewise yes, you are correct, the 'I am attracting the best partner' is still broadly 'unethical', yet it's wiser in a sense because it does avoid the pitfalls of attracting the wrong person.
Whether you decide to use a targeted or general spell for love, sex and romance should be considered with ethical understanding and foresight as possible, just as much as death spells are, because using them like a deranged moron has consequences. The more you go into Satanism, the more you need to exhibit self-control and knowledge rather than leaving a bunch of broken people. We are not a bunch of retarded sluts or sadists like certain European figureheads I won't name., our powers are meant to be for good. Obviously, these spells should be used ethically and with a mature mind. I personally think they are best suited for grounded adults, not kids.
People in basements have tried these spells on celebrities they have zero chance of meeting and this is just silliness coming from a childish mind, not to mention weird. It would be one thing if you were like a PR manager who works with these people or someone who goes to a club where they are and knows them as friends, but not as some pimply fan who idealizes such people.
I think JG Blitzkreig's affirmation for improving the love life in general is the best course of action for younger members. This gives ground to evolve and experiment - which is a NECESSITY for a good love life. People have resistance to this because they think it means whoredom, but courtship and dating doesn't have to mean that at all.
