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Sexuality #79000 Bdsm/control kink

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Is it unhealthy to want to be controlled and punished? I enjoy this type of behavior and wish my partner would engage with it more. Or should I try to lessen this? I think a part of it stems from trauma. But I also just enjoy the safety of someone else telling me what to do (if I trust them fully). And I enjoy feeling pain. Should I indulge this a little bit (not to an extreme where I actually get really injured or something) or is it bad altogether? It makes me feel safe and I don't know if I can change being wired like that
 
That may be related to masochism, the m in bdsm, the desire to feel pain.

The important thing is to avoid the pleasure of feel pain, the rest should be decided unanimously in the couple.
 
I often come across questions here about these topics and sexuality in general.Personally, I would draw an analogy between sex and food - you can add some spice or make the dish unusual, but it is unlikely to be useful to eat broken glass mixed with nails. If you do not eat at all/eat little - it is bad, if you gorge yourself to the point of madness - it is bad, the same with sex and all the practices that are in it. In JoS/ToZ, forbidden topics are clearly defined - logically and sensibly justified and not based on the personal preferences of any of the founders. I also saw information on the site that Ida and Pingala, depending on their activity, can encourage desires to dominate or submit in sex. Just maintain adequacy and balance and find the right partner and everything will be fine!
 
We always emphasize that Zeus is the Father who gave us the freedom to follow our True Nature, and this comes straight from the Commandments of Al-Jilwah:
«I ALLOW EVERYONE TO FOLLOW THE DICTATES OF HIS OWN NATURE, BUT HE THAT OPPOSES ME WILL REGRET IT SORELY».

Zeus wants us all to be happy individuals. We are all free to indulge our fetishes, personal tastes, preferences, and so forth. This is one of the many reasons we are happier than most.
— «The Commandments of Zeus»

Each of us is free to live according to our own Essence, without the chains imposed by others. Satan/Zeus teaches us to grow through Power, Knowledge, and Joy, not through suppression. So, if you enjoy that sense of control from a partner you fully trust, and it brings you a feeling of security and pleasure, then it could well be part of your Nature. There's no need to run from it right away or try to «tone it down» if it's not truly harming you. Satan teaches that suppressing your Essence only weakens the Soul and leaves us vulnerable.

But I'd add some important caveats here — let me explain. Yes, the way this shows up for you might point to Trauma. And Trauma isn't just some psychological scar — it's damage to the Aura, the Etheric Body, and even the Karmic Ties of the Soul. On top of that, it's a Disharmony of Energies that get released in this way when we're talking about Trauma. Trauma often stems from Enemy Programs imposed over centuries of Abrahamic terrorism, designed to suppress our natural Power. These Programs get embedded through the Collective Unconscious, through Astral Parasites, or even through past Incarnations where the Soul was broken by the Inquisition or something similar. If you went through chaos, lack of control, or violence in childhood or earlier in life, then your Consciousness and Soul seek balance through hypercompensation — they want to rewrite it via «controlled» pain from back then, where you get to set the rules yourself. It's like a primitive ritual: pain becomes a catalyst for releasing Energy, but if it's rooted in Trauma, the core issue lies in Blocked areas of the Soul, malfunctioning Chakras, disruptions in the Energetic Connections between Male and Female Elements, suppressed Sexuality tied to the Kundalini — and that's just a fraction of the factors at play. It's healable through Power Meditations, through practicing Runic Kabbalah and the Freeing the Soul Workings, Invoking the Elements. To Cleanse the Aura of foreign Influences, because they could be present if it's linked to Trauma.

Traumas get compacted in certain Chakras — it's like an Energetic hematoma, roughly speaking. For that, I'd recommend Work on Healing the Emotional Body. So I suggest you practice these Workings:

And please, keep an eye on the Purity of your Sacral and Throat Chakras (the Female counterpart to the Sacral Chakra). You can Breathe powerful Colors into the Chakras — like a bright white-gold or electric blue, or the natural Colors of those Chakras — so Color Magick might help you out, or you could Meditate on the Sigils of Zeus/Satan and Astarte, drawing the Energies of their Sigils into your Chakras. Make it your 40-day or 180-day Working. The Spiritual Venus Square and the Astarte's Ritual could help too. All of this will support you in Healing and working through your Trauma (if it is Trauma; either way, it'll have a Beneficial Effect). And don't forget the other Meditations, or the drive to restore the Balance of your Soul's Powers.

Advice like «go talk to a psychologist» — it's superficial at best, and at worst, it's just fighting the symptoms instead of the root cause, which boils down to the usual money-grab. Real Healing comes through the Alchemy of the Soul, where Transmutation takes place. Sure, it's a labor-intensive process, doesn't happen overnight.

Now, about BDSM in itself. This is where you really need to tread carefully, because I see how this subculture is evolving and being pushed by certain Evil Forces — Jewish circles in particular — who use it to radicalize people's values, drive them to extremes where pain turns into straight-up destruction and nothing else. It's part of their scheme to degrade Humanity, injecting chaos under the guise of «freedom», so that Souls lose their Connection to our Gods, make zero Spiritual Progress, and keep harming themselves, ramping up existing Traumas over and over, even though they pitch it as some kind of alternative psychotherapy. Take a look at the more outrageous trends in this movement, the «fetishes» being promoted and by whom, and you'll spot Jewish faces behind them with clear psychopathological issues. The Marquis de Sade, who basically influenced the development of BDSM, was an obvious Jew, describing tortures and all sorts of abuses, that's just typical of a sick Jewish Mindset. Radical BDSM, with its public scenes, exploitation, and health risks — that's not from Zeus. It's a vile parody that disguises true Spiritual Freedom as perversion, rooting unhealthy addictions deep in the Soul.

But what about healthy role-playing games? When two consenting adults, of age, explore this privately without any harm to the body — that's totally fine and actually Strengthens their bond. Satan doesn't condemn pleasure. He teaches that the Body is a Temple, and if it brings Joy and safety, without going overboard, then give in to it a bit, but always keep it under control. Don't push it to serious Physical injuries, no need to maim yourself — watch your boundaries, communicate openly, and let it be part of your Growth.

In the end, if this gives you a sense of security and you can't shift the mindset easily, don't force a fight against it — work with it Spiritually, including through Meditations, to figure out if it's Trauma or part of your Nature. Zeus is always about Freedom, and if you trust your partner, go ahead, but feel out and Cleanse the Soul so you don't fall into an Enemy trap.

I also suggest you read this response on the topic if you haven't already: CLICK.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Shaitan

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