NetemPtah
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This is all quite true.
However this approach is not constructive in any way, when the times are hard for whatever reason, one should stop looking always at the external causes, and deal with the oneself.
It is more difficult? Yes. But do you have any other option? No. You can complain, but this won't change the situation.
If one REALLY wants a pleasant life, will achieve it. Without question. But you must really want it, and stop feeding the victim mindset being around people who always complain as if is always someone else's fault.
Consider building your own life, decide what you want and act accordingly ignoring difficulties. You have to work harder, yes. You will have to make sacrifices, like moving to another country. Sometimes yes. But you can be happier and enjoy life.
People are afraid of the word "sacrifice", and live this concept as just pure pointless suffering.
Sacrifice is simply to give up something today, to have an even bigger pleasure after. Which is simply becoming adults. A person who aspires to complete the desire of becoming a doctor has to sacrifice time and some parties to do it.
When we are young, we are told that we should't worry about these topics as we have "all the time in the world". Not true. After 14 one already has an identity and should be taking life seriously. If you are young, it is very good you are thinking about these topics now. Simply decide how you want your life to be and work toward your goals. Ignore people who complain all the time.
"Economy is harsh". But still some people manage to move millions in periods of crisis.
Life is not supposed to be always easy.
However this approach is not constructive in any way, when the times are hard for whatever reason, one should stop looking always at the external causes, and deal with the oneself.
It is more difficult? Yes. But do you have any other option? No. You can complain, but this won't change the situation.
If one REALLY wants a pleasant life, will achieve it. Without question. But you must really want it, and stop feeding the victim mindset being around people who always complain as if is always someone else's fault.
Consider building your own life, decide what you want and act accordingly ignoring difficulties. You have to work harder, yes. You will have to make sacrifices, like moving to another country. Sometimes yes. But you can be happier and enjoy life.
People are afraid of the word "sacrifice", and live this concept as just pure pointless suffering.
Sacrifice is simply to give up something today, to have an even bigger pleasure after. Which is simply becoming adults. A person who aspires to complete the desire of becoming a doctor has to sacrifice time and some parties to do it.
When we are young, we are told that we should't worry about these topics as we have "all the time in the world". Not true. After 14 one already has an identity and should be taking life seriously. If you are young, it is very good you are thinking about these topics now. Simply decide how you want your life to be and work toward your goals. Ignore people who complain all the time.
"Economy is harsh". But still some people manage to move millions in periods of crisis.
Life is not supposed to be always easy.