The way they usually solved the problem of such their attitude being abused, is being more selective in whom they dealt with. This is how nature ensure that only right genes pass through.
By this I only wish to say that nature gave us this or that force for a reason. It is natural to tend to worship the desired sex, especially when we have for example exalted Pluto with all feminine planets in hard aspects. This is just a raw natural force inside us. We have to use it in good conscience.
The same goes for the choice of profession and everything else. Just to give yourself to nothing and to realize in nothing is not a solution. It will bring you to no heights.