#75540 Help! Sex drive

[AskSatanOperator]

I'm feeling frustrated, worthless, unhappy that since the childbirth my sex drive became so low. This goes on for several years. Despite how much I love my husband most of the time sex it's just to satisfy, make him happy, cause I'm really tired of his anger, disappointment, etc. Sometimes I just cry after it, despite the fact that it was quite good, don't know why this is happening... I feel pressure, I want to solve this problem somehow. What can I do? Despite that I'm cleaning aura, karma, doing protection. What else I can do to fix myself?
P.S. My hormones are ok as I checked.

 

[AFODO]

Freeing yourself from malefic sexual karma, and cleaning will help. And strengthen your sacral chakra because if it's weak, than that's probably the cause.

 

[sinbad]

Are you exercising? How's your diet?

The issue can stem from a few different thing's but doing a Mars square for physical vitality and sex drive will help tremendously, as well empowering your sacral chakra and removing any underlying negative karma related to sex and/or romance, depending on your circumstances.

Mars is currently retrograde, so it'll be a while before you can do a Mars square, but check out: SS Calender 2025

In the meantime I'd recommend doing what AFODO said coupled with a daily workout routine, even if it's just 5-10mins per day, as it'll boost your physical vitality and willpower, which by extention will aid your libido. Also, you may want to look into TCM remedies.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

The Spiritual healing, as said, lies in the 2nd chakra mostly and in Mars energies. You may have a weak Mars in your Natal Chart causing you to feel a low sex drive, this may be simply you - you may have a natural low sex drive. I would first of all check my Natal Chart to determine if this natural for you, or is due to external influences, so you know where to work. If you have a strong Mars and Aries in your Natal Chart, the problem is somewhere else.

There are several reasons why 2nd Chakra is weak, that are : chakra damage/blockage (from past lives, hangups, childhood trauma, abuse), Natal Chart weak Mars energies, excess clash with other people energies (to obtain power, domain in the material world), other people's Planets weakening your Mars (such as their Neptune or Saturn in hard aspect), damage in other areas of the Soul leading to loss of male energies (Mars is male energies).
I'd also say, many women have this problem, at least in xian countries. I wonder in islamic countries even worst. It often happens women have few interest in sex because they are PROGRAMMED by their parents, mainstream information, etc. to believe sex is bad and all men are evil because they want to have sex with women like pigs. This is the mainstream teaching many daughters receive, to "be aware and pay attention to the evil men" so - at the end - the mind is programmed to avoid sex or loose interest in this. Whatever happened to your mind in childhood (mother depicting men/father as evil, subliminal stuff, abuse, instilled fear, etc) may drive your unconscious for the whole life, if not corrected.
The enemy has a hiuge interest in repressing sexuality, xian program is built on this. They even teach to have sex only to procreate and never before marriage! Those teachings are very outdated but may be installed in your subconscious, preventing a healthy sex life.

I say all of this because finding the root problem will help to put down the correct affirmations for your Mars workings, or even Munka freeing meditation to free from blockages preventing sex drive to manifest. Don't blame yourself, it is not your fault; I would just dig to find the causes.

 

[Epiphany]

I'm feeling frustrated, worthless, unhappy that since the childbirth my sex drive became so low. This goes on for several years. Despite how much I love my husband most of the time sex it's just to satisfy, make him happy, cause I'm really tired of his anger, disappointment, etc. Sometimes I just cry after it, despite the fact that it was quite good, don't know why this is happening... I feel pressure, I want to solve this problem somehow. What can I do? Despite that I'm cleaning aura, karma, doing protection. What else I can do to fix myself?
P.S. My hormones are ok as I checked.

It sounds like emotional issues are getting in the way. Do you feel bad about your body since giving birth? Do you feel less attractive than you used to? What about your husband, what is the anger and disappointment about?

You say the sex is good despite you having a poor sex drive, which sounds like you enjoy it when it happens but you don't feel an urge to initiate, so it doesn't seem like the issue is material/biological, especially since you say your labs are fine.

Maybe counseling would be beneficial to help you figure out what is going on.

 

[HPS Lydia]

This sometimes happens after childbirth (some of the above replies ignored that part of your post).

Do you do kundalini yoga? Go on youtube, search Kimilla, and find her videos for sexual health. There are movements that will realign things correctly and increase your libido again.

Venus enters Pisces soon, it's square can be done for enjoyable lovemaking with your husband. You can work on your Sacral chakra, Bjarkan is good for women, or Dagr.

Most men don't understand what all happens to our bodies during pregnancy and childbirth. The body is extremely complex, things get out of order easily. You could also talk to a holistic healthcare practitioner, such as Ayurveda or TCM, to see if any herbal treatments will help you.

 

[Henu the Great]

Women could benefit from using crystals such as Carnelian, or any other that helps to work with lower chakras as a meditation and working aid.

 

[Shadowcat]

Postpartum depression can cause low sex drive, mood swings and general feeling down and easily overstimulated. It's very common after childbirth. The things HPS suggested should help this, also working with crystals and of course cleaning

 

[AskSatanOperator]

It's a reply to "#75540 Help! Sex drive" thread.

@AFODO thank you very much.
@sinbad thank you very much, for now I'm not excercising, but I hope I'll start soon. Sweets are my problem but it was whole life... despite that my drive was ok till childbirth.
@Engineered Trasformation thank you very much, I was raised by a xian family and was ashamed when I was masturbating, etc. cause according xianity it's a sin, I think it left a huge impact for me.
@Epiphany thank you very much. Yes, I'm not very excited that my body changed. But it's not that bad, I think so. Well.. during sex I start to think what he's thinking about my body..
He's angry because there is no more passion, before childbirth it was almost everyday, after childbirth it just 1-2 times, sometimes none. It become like a duty and it's been several years.
@HPS Lydia thank you very much. I even don't know if my sex drive is high or low. How can I find out? Cause I was raised by xian family and was ashamed when masturbating... I still can't tell my husband how exactly I'd like to be aroused during sex, but it was like that in the beginning of our relationship and it's like that now. I'm just feeling shy, ashamed and it's been several years, can't get over myself.
I'll definitely try yoga. I'll think about Venus square and will try some herbals.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

@Engineered Trasformation thank you very much, I was raised by a xian family and was ashamed when I was masturbating, etc. cause according xianity it's a sin, I think it left a huge impact for me.

I am glad you found help on here by me and many others!
According to this, you are most likely repressing sexuality at the unconscious level because of xian programming.
If you haven't already done that, studying in deep and reading/listening even more than once Exposing Christianity part of the JoS, is of great help. Because, it attacks the root programming of xianity by explaining it is all fake. So sexual repression programming, should slowly vanish as the root is being crumbled in your mind, by sound facts and explanation.,

 

[HPS Lydia]

I just remembered. Do Bastet's ritual! Her ritual will help you find fun and playfulness in sexuality again

For men reading this, I don't know how Her ritual is for you, but for women, it is very effective for increasing sexuality.

 

[Henu the Great]

I just remembered. Do Bastet's ritual! Her ritual will help you find fun and playfulness in sexuality again

For men reading this, I don't know how Her ritual is for you, but for women, it is very effective for increasing sexuality.

As you know, sexuality and sensuality are very multi-faceted topics. Both men and women can benefit from masculine energies along with feminine energies. Best to see what works for each one individually, I think.

 

[HPS Lydia]

As you know, sexuality and sensuality are very multi-faceted topics. Both men and women can benefit from masculine energies along with feminine energies. Best to see what works for each one individually, I think.

It isn't about masculine versus feminine energies. I wrote what I did because I have not heard from any men about the effects of Bastet's ritual. Perhaps a male God's ritual would be better for sexuality for men, because the sexuality of men and women are different.

 

[Henu the Great]

It isn't about masculine versus feminine energies. I wrote what I did because I have not heard from any men about the effects of Bastet's ritual. Perhaps a male God's ritual would be better for sexuality for men, because the sexuality of men and women are different.

And I am not saying it is versus this or that, but that we are individuals and each one can benefit from different types of approaches regardless of gender.

 

[AskSatanOperator]

This sometimes happens after childbirth (some of the above replies ignored that part of your post).

Do you do kundalini yoga? Go on youtube, search Kimilla, and find her videos for sexual health. There are movements that will realign things correctly and increase your libido again.

Venus enters Pisces soon, it's square can be done for enjoyable lovemaking with your husband. You can work on your Sacral chakra, Bjarkan is good for women, or Dagr.

Most men don't understand what all happens to our bodies during pregnancy and childbirth. The body is extremely complex, things get out of order easily. You could also talk to a holistic healthcare practitioner, such as Ayurveda or TCM, to see if any herbal treatments will help you.

@HPS Lydia I'd like to ask about Kimilla's videos, should I chant that mantra in the beginning of her video or just practice without chanting? Thank You.

 

[HPS Lydia]

@HPS Lydia I'd like to ask about Kimilla's videos, should I chant that mantra in the beginning of her video or just practice without chanting? Thank You.

You can if you want, it means "I bow to the divine wisdom within me".

I usually replace it with "Hail Satan Hail Satan" in tune to her chant. I've been doing it that way since I first started KY with Ana Brett's videos.