#406 A virgin; a strange man; problems in relationships with girls

[Ask Satya Operator]

I am considered very strange sometimes even a crazy person when I try to get close to girls.

My questions and my behavior are considered strange, although I behave within the bounds of decency.

It was the same at school, at the institute, about 10 years ago.

I do not have any psychological or mental problems, because in my country the education system immediately identifies and separates such people from everyone else (they are placed in special institutions), but I have always been considered strange and treated as abnormal, while doctors did not identify any psychological or mental problems.

I am a virgin and I confidently communicate with people, but people do not want to communicate with me, especially girls avoid me, I have changed my circle of environment many times, but this attack overtook me.

I try my best to be successful with girls, but I always remain a black sheep.

Will clearing the basic and sacral chakras fix this problem?

Will fully open and purified basic and sacred chakras solve my problems with attractiveness to the opposite sex and attracting girls?

I try to behave correctly, but no matter how correctly and correctly I behave, I am considered a strange and eccentric.

I am a very calm and polite person, but I don't like calm people, I am attracted to bright and sexy girls.

Despite my calm nature and temperament, I dream of being a different person who hangs out in clubs, although everyone tells me that it doesn't suit me, that I'm supposedly a different person, but I disagree with that.

In terms of girls, my parents tell me that the beauty will never date me, because she needs a strong and brutal man, not a nerd.

Despite the fact that I go to the gym, they tell me that I will never become a brutal man because I missed my time (it was necessary to start swinging at 16, not at 29).

At the same time, I really noticed that the girls I like, these girls like brutal and bad guys, the truth is that I want to be this guy, but only because I want to fuck all these girls.

I am ready to become anyone, as long as these girls like me and fuck them all, I want to solve my problems with attractiveness and sexuality, I am ready to become any person, just to get the result I need.

The people around me tell me 1000 reasons why the girls I like won't live with me, I want to get rid of both internal and external constraints, I want to break the matrix in which I'm stuck. I want to get a result - sexually attract girls, like girls, fuck them. How do I do this?

My problem is also that I had unrequited love many times (more than three), I really fell in love with girls and I ran after them for years.

Now I have changed my worldview and try not to fall in love with them, not to feel love for them and pink snot to which I am inclined according to my temperament (I am already afraid to fall in love, girls see this and consider me weak, and when I confessed my feelings, it did not help me), because all alpha males (brutal guys) as I found out, they never fell in love with them (they told me so themselves), but at the same time all these girls flowed from them and fell in love with them.

When I tried to behave like an alpha male, to copy behavior, girls began to consider me a woman-hater, although this is not the case, because before I cried at night and suffered from unrequited love and was ready to do anything to make the girl I was in love with happy.

When I try to be myself according to my calm temperament, I am called a nerd, spineless, crybaby and just a weak person.

When I try to copy the behavior of an alpha male, I am called a woman-hater, a psychopath, an evil, bad person, a maniac.

And in all cases, I am called an egoist and a narcissist, but at the same time I am considered a good guy who I don't want to be because beautiful and sexy girls don't sleep with them (according to my observations).

What am I missing and not understanding?

How can I become sexually attractive and make girls fall in love with me, or at least just attract them for sex and callously fuck them if I am such a bad person and unworthy of love?

 

[Acolyte Of Pan 666]

Stop being fake.
Tough guys are tough because this the personality they genuinely developed, they didn’t do it to get girls.
Girls are good at sniffing out fakes.
Also stop being negative.

Online pick up gurus are for the most part liars. Don’t be mean, “nice guys” try to 180 and start becoming douchebags. Girls don’t like douchebags, they like guys who make them feel right and guys who aren’t pushovers, especially pushovers who fake niceness for sex.

Just be honest about it. Become physically attractive and make it clear you just want to fuck around. Be genuine and direct. You’ll attract those kind of girls into your life(for better or worse).

 

[Tethys333]

A volte vengo considerato una persona molto strana, persino pazza, quando cerco di avvicinarmi alle ragazze.

Le mie domande e il mio comportamento vengono considerati strani, nonostante io mi comporti nei limiti della decenza.

La stessa cosa accadeva a scuola, all'istituto, circa 10 anni fa.

Non ho problemi psicologici o mentali, perché nel mio Paese il sistema educativo identifica e separa immediatamente queste persone da tutti gli altri (vengono collocate in istituti speciali), ma sono sempre stato considerato strano e trattato come anormale, mentre i medici non hanno riscontrato alcun problema psicologico o mentale.

Sono vergine e comunico con sicurezza con le persone, ma le persone non vogliono comunicare con me, soprattutto le ragazze mi evitano. Ho cambiato il mio ambiente molte volte, ma questo attacco mi ha sopraffatto.

Faccio del mio meglio per avere successo con le ragazze, ma resto sempre una pecora nera.

La purificazione dei chakra basilari e sacrali risolverà questo problema?

I chakra basilari e sacri completamente aperti e purificati risolveranno i miei problemi di attrazione per il sesso opposto e di attrazione per le ragazze?

Cerco di comportarmi correttamente, ma non importa quanto correttamente e correttamente mi comporti, vengo considerato strano ed eccentrico.

Sono una persona molto calma ed educata, ma non mi piacciono le persone calme, mi attraggono le ragazze intelligenti e sexy.

Nonostante la mia natura e il mio temperamento calmi, sogno di essere una persona diversa che frequenta i locali, anche se tutti mi dicono che non mi si addice, che presumibilmente sono una persona diversa, ma non sono d'accordo.

Per quanto riguarda le ragazze, i miei genitori mi dicono che la bella non uscirà mai con me, perché ha bisogno di un uomo forte e brutale, non di un nerd.

Nonostante io vada in palestra, mi dicono che non diventerò mai un uomo brutale perché ho perso il mio tempo (era necessario iniziare a fare swing a 16 anni, non a 29).

Allo stesso tempo, ho notato che le ragazze che mi piacciono, a queste ragazze piacciono i ragazzi brutali e cattivi, la verità è che io voglio essere questo ragazzo, ma solo perché voglio scopare con tutte queste ragazze.

Sono pronto a diventare chiunque, purché piaccia a queste ragazze e me le scopi tutte, voglio risolvere i miei problemi con l'attrattiva e la sessualità, sono pronto a diventare chiunque, solo per ottenere il risultato di cui ho bisogno.

Le persone che mi circondano mi raccontano 1000 motivi per cui le ragazze che mi piacciono non vogliono vivere con me, voglio liberarmi sia dei vincoli interni che esterni, voglio rompere la matrice in cui sono incastrato. Voglio ottenere un risultato: attrarre sessualmente le ragazze, piacere alle ragazze, scoparle. Come faccio?

Il mio problema è anche che ho avuto amori non corrisposti molte volte (più di tre), mi sono innamorato davvero delle ragazze e le ho rincorse per anni.

Ora ho cambiato la mia visione del mondo e cerco di non innamorarmi di loro, di non provare amore per loro e il moccio rosa a cui sono incline in base al mio temperamento (ho già paura di innamorarmi, le ragazze lo vedono e mi considerano debole, e quando ho confessato i miei sentimenti, non mi è servito a niente), perché tutti i maschi alfa (ragazzi brutali) come ho scoperto, non si sono mai innamorati di loro (me lo hanno detto loro stessi), ma allo stesso tempo tutte queste ragazze uscivano da loro e si innamoravano di loro.

Quando ho cercato di comportarmi come un maschio alfa, di copiare il loro comportamento, le ragazze hanno iniziato a considerarmi un odiatore di donne, anche se non è così, perché prima piangevo di notte, soffrivo per un amore non corrisposto ed ero pronto a fare qualsiasi cosa per rendere felice la ragazza di cui ero innamorato.

Quando cerco di essere me stessa, rispettando il mio temperamento calmo, vengo definita una nerd, una persona senza spina dorsale, una piagnona e semplicemente una persona debole.

Quando provo a imitare il comportamento di un maschio alfa, vengo definito un odiatore di donne, uno psicopatico, una persona cattiva e malvagia, un maniaco.

E in tutti i casi, vengo definito egoista e narcisista, ma allo stesso tempo sono considerato un bravo ragazzo che non voglio essere perché le ragazze belle e sexy non vanno a letto con loro (secondo le mie osservazioni).

Cosa mi sfugge e non capisco?

Come posso diventare sessualmente attraente e far innamorare di me le ragazze, o almeno semplicemente attrarle per fare sesso e scoparle senza pietà se sono una persona così cattiva e indegna di amore?

ciao fratello, prima di tutto vorrei iniziare col dirti che non sei strano o niente del genere. È giusto essere calmi ed educati. Inoltre se stai cambiando solo per gli altri e solo perché vuoi finire a letto con una ragazza, sappi che non è una cosa intelligente da fare, anzi, ti stai abbassando al livello di tutte quelle persone che non ti amano veramente per quello che sei.
A livello spirituale posso innanzitutto consigliarti di fare il programma HoodedoCobra di 40 giorni (se non lo hai già fatto) e poi ti consiglio di respirare energia verde se vuoi un amore sincero e anche sessuale. Ovviamente devi creare un'affermazione basata sui tuoi desideri e bisogni.
Se vuoi cambiare, fallo, ma fallo per te stesso e non per gli altri. Inoltre, fallo usando il tuo cervello e la tua consapevolezza.
Ti consiglio anche di smettere di ascoltare le voci degli altri, la vita è tua e devi decidere tu, non i tuoi genitori o le persone che dicono di essere tuoi amici ma poi ti dicono come devi essere.
Ci sono un sacco di ragazze là fuori che ti accetterebbero per quello che sei veramente, ne sono sicuro. Non ti renderà più sexy se passi il tempo nei locali a bere tutto il giorno e cambi ragazza ogni sera. Inoltre, concentrati di più su te stesso e amati di più perché non è giusto "copiare" altri ragazzi solo perché vuoi scopare con una ragazza. Ti consiglio di crescere di più in questo senso perché, ti svelo un segreto, ma non a tutte le ragazze piacciono i ragazzi alfa. Io per prima adoro i ragazzi che apprezzano la cultura e la letteratura. Questo era solo un piccolo esempio per darti un'idea di dove voglio arrivare. Essere un nerd non è sbagliato.
Padre Satana, gli Dei e noi della famiglia JoyofSatan ti ascolteremo e ti aiuteremo a risolvere questo problema. Nel frattempo, ti auguro buona fortuna fratello.

 

[Ayssid]

You haven't told us how good-looking you are. Confidence is only confidence when practiced by a handsome man. Ugly men with confidence is considered arrogance. Being playful as a good-looking man is considered flirty, being playful when you're ugly is creepy. Looks is the only thing others see at a first glance in you, and if all you want is casual sex, that is arguably the only thing you should ever work on. While it is also the primary factor for general attractiveness in women, it's not the only thing they'll consider if they're looking for a long term thing. Also, it doesn't matter when you swing, males usually peak in looks in their 30s, so if you go all out on it I think you can make it. You don't have to be ultra big or deadlift 150kg, aesthetics are more sought after. Propotions, nice sculpted body. If your face is weak genetically, mewing is considered great, but is only supported by anecdotal evidence (a lot of it). If you're short, do what you can to make yourself a bit taller, but I advise against surgeries cause you might not walk properly again if you do something to your legs. Get a nice haircut that compliments your face, keep nice hygiene, wear clothes that are suited to you and your style and if you look good enough, you're pretty much done. GG, well played. You can be confident now.

 

[Henu the Great]

Confidence is only confidence when practiced by a handsome man.

Can you stop with this black pill shit? Confidence is confidence regardless of outlook because it radiates from within...

 

[Ayssid]

Can you stop with this black pill shit? Confidence is confidence regardless of outlook because it radiates from within...

What I say is what I've seen happen. No one sees the within and no one cares about it. That is all.

 

[hailourtruegod]

You haven't told us how good-looking you are. Confidence is only confidence when practiced by a handsome man. Ugly men with confidence is considered arrogance. Being playful as a good-looking man is considered flirty, being playful when you're ugly is creepy. Looks is the only thing others see at a first glance in you, and if all you want is casual sex, that is arguably the only thing you should ever work on. While it is also the primary factor for general attractiveness in women, it's not the only thing they'll consider if they're looking for a long term thing. Also, it doesn't matter when you swing, males usually peak in looks in their 30s, so if you go all out on it I think you can make it. You don't have to be ultra big or deadlift 150kg, aesthetics are more sought after. Propotions, nice sculpted body. If your face is weak genetically, mewing is considered great, but is only supported by anecdotal evidence (a lot of it). If you're short, do what you can to make yourself a bit taller, but I advise against surgeries cause you might not walk properly again if you do something to your legs. Get a nice haircut that compliments your face, keep nice hygiene, wear clothes that are suited to you and your style and if you look good enough, you're pretty much done. GG, well played. You can be confident now.

This is completely false. Fake confidence is always noticeable even in handsome normie men. As Henu said, it comes from within. An ugly soul will always have a strange vibe to them picked up by many even if ignored.

You're new and obviously lack real world experience. Your comment makes me believe this in an objective manner so this isn't to be rude.

See things from a Zevism point of view from now on. We don't care for false logic made up by weirdo influencers.

 

[Ayssid]

An ugly soul will always have a strange vibe to them picked up by many even if ignored.

Development of the soul is reflected in the person's beauty, so it's not likely that a beautiful soul will be in an ugly body, if that is what you mean by "strange vibe". And I never said anything about fake confidence. I said that it is considered fake by others depending on looks. You can be perfectly comfortable in your own skin no matter how you look, but others will only see the exterior, which doesn't change no matter how confident you are. Ergo, when you behave confidently when you're ugly, it causes a dissonance in others. Besides, even if we ignore the confidence thing, what I replied to OP holds true. Maybe I overstepped on the confidence thing, but my point was that 90% of it is looks. I wanted to say that when you look good, confidence follows suit, not the other way around.

 

[Henu the Great]

Development of the soul is reflected in the person's beauty, so it's not likely that a beautiful soul will be in an ugly body, if that is what you mean by "strange vibe". And I never said anything about fake confidence. I said that it is considered fake by others depending on looks. You can be perfectly comfortable in your own skin no matter how you look, but others will only see the exterior, which doesn't change no matter how confident you are. Ergo, when you behave confidently when you're ugly, it causes a dissonance in others. Besides, even if we ignore the confidence thing, what I replied to OP holds true. Maybe I overstepped on the confidence thing, but my point was that 90% of it is looks. I wanted to say that when you look good, confidence follows suit, not the other way around.

You have many misconceptions in your mind based on this post of yours. Maybe when you advance yourself you'll begin to see below the surface. The solar plexus radiates irrespective of how you look and will influence how people perceive you because people do pick up on vibes. You know, we have six senses, even those who have dysfunctional higher functions.

 

[hailourtruegod]

Development of the soul is reflected in the person's beauty, so it's not likely that a beautiful soul will be in an ugly body, if that is what you mean by "strange vibe

We are getting into the realm of opinionated points on what we both might consider "beautiful"

One doesn't have to be beautiful by the truest definition of it to catch a mate.

I highly doubt someone who not only works on their soul but also their body (inlcuding hygiene ) will have a an objectively difficult time finding a partner. The problem here is self-confidence (or lack thereof), being sorrounded by low quality people or at worst, being waaaaay too picky.

I would need more objective info on the OP's case to give a better direct response to them.

As for us, I think we both agree for the most part but to not to the extent I feel you believe someone needs to be in looks.

 

[Henu the Great]

What I say is what I've seen happen. No one sees the within and no one cares about it. That is all.

That's fine, but you must realize that your view is limited and does not present what happens in the world as a whole.

 

[Onbael_]

Take in consideration the escorts, basically they are the same of the club hoes.

But I'll do a re-check of my desideres and priorities.

 

[Ayssid]

You have many misconceptions in your mind based on this post of yours. Maybe when you advance yourself you'll begin to see below the surface. The solar plexus radiates irrespective of how you look and will influence how people perceive you because people do pick up on vibes. You know, we have six senses, even those who have dysfunctional higher functions.

That's fine, but you must realize that your view is limited and does not present what happens in the world as a whole.

I'll take into account what you say since you tend to know what you're talking about, but I have not seen what you say reflected in reality, or at least in my immediate surroundings.

We are getting into the realm of opinionated points on what we both might consider "beautiful"

One doesn't have to be beautiful by the truest definition of it to catch a mate.

I highly doubt someone who not only works on their soul but also their body (inlcuding hygiene ) will have a an objectively difficult time finding a partner. The problem here is self-confidence (or lack thereof), being sorrounded by low quality people or at worst, being waaaaay too picky.

I would need more objective info on the OP's case to give a better direct response to them.

As for us, I think we both agree for the most part but to not to the extent I feel you believe someone needs to be in looks.

There is no catch-all definition but both men and women tend to look for certain things even if we don't realize it. Things like face symmetry, height, frame, we pick up on those things and we can tell when they're off. And I do think your opinion is more balanced, but I still stand by my "overestimation" of looks. I have not found evidence that suggests the contrary to what I think is true. Maybe I live surrounded by shitty people, as you say, but what are the odds. My reality might be vastly different than yours guys.

 

[Ĥl·lĥæ]

Development of the soul is reflected in the person's beauty, .

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