An approach to healing addiction

[Circe]

Thank you so much for this! The website has similar information but it can really help to hear it explained in a different way.

I do have a question about my boyfriend. He has considerable Scorpio influence in his chart and had been molested when he was young, all this has affected him into adulthood. He is addicted to porn, having grew up with it and still using it even while we've been together. We've talked about it quite a bit but he still struggles with it. Also, he has never slept with another woman while we've been together, or had any romantic feelings it's just the porn.

I've tried to be understanding and I know why he resorts to it, but it still hurts. I've introduced him to basic meditation, but nothing chakra or aura related. He's Pagan, but not a Zevist. I wonder, is there a way I can present him with this information without revealing too much about Zevism? I'm not sure if he's ready to accept it just yet.

I love him and I want us to work out. He's really a great guy with good values. Any advice would be very appreciated. Thank you!

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Thank you so much for this! The website has similar information but it can really help to hear it explained in a different way.

I do have a question about my boyfriend. He has considerable Scorpio influence in his chart and had been molested when he was young, all this has affected him into adulthood. He is addicted to porn, having grew up with it and still using it even while we've been together. We've talked about it quite a bit but he still struggles with it. Also, he has never slept with another woman while we've been together, or had any romantic feelings it's just the porn.

I've tried to be understanding and I know why he resorts to it, but it still hurts. I've introduced him to basic meditation, but nothing chakra or aura related. He's Pagan, but not a Zevist. I wonder, is there a way I can present him with this information without revealing too much about Zevism? I'm not sure if he's ready to accept it just yet.

I love him and I want us to work out. He's really a great guy with good values. Any advice would be very appreciated. Thank you!

Hello, Circe, you’re welcome.

The thing with modern day porn it’s basically brain crack. It’s super addictive and is a real addiction comparable to drugs.

Trying to quit can even cause real withdrawal symptoms.

With being non-dedicated I wouldn’t at all recommend or introduce chakra work mantras as they are advanced and spiritually there’s real work involved.

He’ll have to do it the old school way of quitting an addiction like quitting smoking.

A lot of people on the forums and outside it swear by this book, I’m still reading it myself and apparently to be able to make use of this book you have to read it completely and in order.

It’s called the EasyPeasy method to quitting porn, it’s free. Get him to read it.

EasyPeasy

Painlessly quit pornography immediately, without willpower or any sense of deprivation or sacrifice.

easypeasymethod.org

It’s honorable that you’re patient and loving towards this but know that this can be something that can really drain you and porn addiction can really ruin lives and marriages, a porn addict is no different than any type of addict and that can have consequences. Unfortunately, it’s super common too nowadays.

Also, porn addiction like any type of substance abuse can have escalation factors meaning the person goes into more and more extreme forms of porn and fantasies just to get the same hit and it can turn into a really degenerate cycle. Not even because the person likes or wants or desires these fantasies but because he NEEDS the shock factor. It has to be shocking, taboo, extreme, etc. I hope this didn’t happen or doesn’t happen to your bf but be wary.

Try to help him go to therapy as well, to uncover and heal the sexual trauma and help with addiction recovery, as that can be problematic as well.

There are these two channels that helped me personally as well a lot.

Breaking The Cycle Of Porn Addiction

How to quit watching porn.

youtube.com

https://youtube.com/@drtrishleigh?si=yQbbI8ErFwaSP3-B

 

[destroyer]

Addiction is truly a dark and gnawing part of human nature. It’s both a battlefield and a cry for spiritual hygiene and holes in the aura can cause you to feel and think like a subhuman.

It’s painful, compulsive, and disgusting to be addicted. There’s no logic to an addict, it’s a compulsion.

I’ll explain how to get relief from addiction and end up healed, whole and blissful. Drug and substance-free.

There are multiple types of addictions, substance addictions like drugs and nicotine or psychological addictions like gambling, and sexual addictions like porn, or a compulsive sex disorder.

First of all, spiritually when you are heavily addicted two things might happen. Your upper chakras especially become dirty, weak, and even turn black. I was once badly addicted and a Zevist friend of mine who was psychic told me your third eye is pitch black.

Secondly, your aura becomes so weak and damaged that you might have holes in your aura, opening yourself wide open to attacks, spiritual filth, and maybe invite insanity and negative entities. Holes in the aura happen with substance addiction like with drugs, weed, and in some cases smoking can also cause holes in the aura. Holes in the aura take time and work to heal properly.

Healing and empowering your upper chakras, and cleaning them and deep purification for your upper chakras will give you serious addiction-relief. Suddenly, you won’t feel the life-shattering impulse to engage in the addiction. Depending on the level of addiction it might take time but it will be well worth it.

Before trying to empower and open your upper chakras make sure to clean them very well.

In the process of healing, empowering and opening your upper chakras you can have painful headaches or migraines that last a day or two. This might be because your chakras are not clean. Or this might happen naturally as a side effect of upper chakra work.

The continuous work on your upper chakras will in of itself induce natural highs and bliss that’s natural, healthy, and beautiful beyond compare to any drug high. It will also progress you spiritually. Making you independent of any drug or nicotine high.

If the addiction is a sexual addiction (porn or sex addiction) clean and heal your Sacral and Solar plexus chakras beside work on your upper chakras. Be careful with empowering your Sacral as it can empower dross when you’re healing a sexual addiction so make sure to clean thoroughly.

Holes in the aura will take more workings and maybe someone can chime in to give advice about healing holes in the aura.

All this might seem simple but don’t underestimate it. Follow it through in a balanced way. You have the tools to heal and clean and be liberated from addiction. To heal from the inside out.

Don’t forget to also be consistent with hatha yoga and daily cleaning, etc. as these are healing daily practices as well.

My opinion is that the habits you make are addictive.

In fact, addiction doesn't even exist.

Now, brother, imagine that you eat 2 donuts every day for a month and then you stop eating them.

Your body will ask you to eat those 2 donuts every day.

I hope you understand me.

If I smoke a joint for a month and then I stop, automatically, my body will ask me to keep smoking.

If you play slots every day for a month and then I stop, automatically, my brain will want to play those games because that's how it was taught.

The idea that I support and nothing else is that there is a good side and a bad side to this world.

If you eat 1 donut every day, it probably wouldn't hurt you.

But if you eat 10 donuts every day, it's clear that it will hurt you even if the donuts are good and don't make a hole in your aura

 

[MercuryWisdom]

If you smoke 1 joint every day or eat 1 donut everyday that will hurt you of course. I don’t see your point. This is just cope.

Your logic is super flawed as well, because you say if you play slots for a month you’ll want to play slots.

Slots is gambling, and gambling addiction is real, and is medically recognized and weed as well.

You can use porn if you want, if you’re addicted then there’s a problem, and this problem has side effects.

To know if you’re addicted or not, try masturbating without porn, if you can’t even get your dick up or your imagination isn’t enough to stimulate you then you’re kinda cooked my guy. If you can, then you can quit porn altogether and just use your imagination.

Excuse me it seems you were replying in general to my post not about porn.

Anyway, yes addiction exists, saying it just doesn’t exist is weird.

Then people who overdose and people who keep chasing the high and have compulsive destructive behavior do they just do it “out of habit”, habit is part of addiction sure, but saying addiction doesn’t exist at all just sounds like cope so you can “eat your donut everyday” or smth.

 

[destroyer]

If you smoke 1 joint every day or eat 1 donut everyday that will hurt you of course. I don’t see your point. This is just cope.

Your logic is super flawed as well, because you say if you play slots for a month you’ll want to play slots.

Slots is gambling, and gambling addiction is real, and is medically recognized and weed as well.

You can use porn if you want, if you’re addicted then there’s a problem, and this problem has side effects.

To know if you’re addicted or not, try masturbating without porn, if you can’t even get your dick up or your imagination isn’t enough to stimulate you then you’re kinda cooked my guy. If you can, then you can quit porn altogether and just use your imagination.

Sex would be the last thing I’d need.
Meaning, I don’t have to masturbate when I have an ecstatic, 'addicted' girl who wants sex .
Porn videos disgust me sometimes, and this topic is embarrassing .
My idea is that things are good to a certain extent, and that anything can be both good and bad for you."

 

[destroyer]

Excuse me it seems you were replying in general to my post not about porn.

Anyway, yes addiction exists, saying it just doesn’t exist is weird.

Then people who overdose and people who keep chasing the high and have compulsive destructive behavior do they just do it “out of habit”, habit is part of addiction sure, but saying addiction doesn’t exist at all just sounds like cope so you can “eat your donut everyday” or smth.

In general, your post was about addictions.

It seems a bit pointless to me to be addicted to pornography.

But maybe you are right and I am wrong.

I would like to ask you how illegal substances can darken your "chakras", physically freeing you from negative energy through a state of euphoria.

And how would these substances create holes in the aura?

(let's assume the substance is THC)

life has always led me down the paths of drug addicts.

I have seen drug addicts with a strong aura that practically does not let you enter them.

I have seen rich drug addicts with a bright and happy atmosphere.

I have seen drug addicts (the homeless kind).

But the point is that every person when they think of a drug addict they think of someone with a syringe in their hand in an abandoned house or something like that.

The kind of genocide I can't stand and it's everywhere and if I continue I think I'm getting off topic.

So please answer my question above if possible.
Thank you.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

In general, your post was about addictions.

It seems a bit pointless to me to be addicted to pornography.

But maybe you are right and I am wrong.

I would like to ask you how illegal substances can darken your "chakras", physically freeing you from negative energy through a state of euphoria.

And how would these substances create holes in the aura?

(let's assume the substance is THC)

life has always led me down the paths of drug addicts.

I have seen drug addicts with a strong aura that practically does not let you enter them.

I have seen rich drug addicts with a bright and happy atmosphere.

I have seen drug addicts (the homeless kind).

But the point is that every person when they think of a drug addict they think of someone with a syringe in their hand in an abandoned house or something like that.

The kind of genocide I can't stand and it's everywhere and if I continue I think I'm getting off topic.

So please answer my question above if possible.
Thank you.

Life Ethics - Drugs XI

“Abuse and consistent overindulgence of recreational drugs, alcohol, and such will obviously cause one problems, not to mention addiction, which DOES put holes in the aura. Use common sense.”
- HPS Maxine
Thread 'Addictions, etc....'
https://ancient-forums.com/threads/addictions-etc.270141/

 

[destroyer]

Life Ethics - Drugs XI

“Abuse and consistent overindulgence of recreational drugs, alcohol, and such will obviously cause one problems, not to mention addiction, which DOES put holes in the aura. Use common sense.”
- HPS Maxine
Thread 'Addictions, etc....'
https://ancient-forums.com/threads/addictions-etc.270141/

ok, I understand
Thank you for your patience and understanding