jrvan said:
Dahaarkan said:
Then one should start writing responses based on what is actually being said rather than what one "thinks" was said. Because this is why things get derailed and off topic.
Even if I've biased views on how one should manage anger specifically, I did not at any point encourage death spells against minor offenses, and neither did I suggest lethal solutions to every problem.
It's the context which is important to consider. The OP was specifically asking about death spells. Then there are also others to consider who will read this post and your replies, and may assume you are encouraging them to do what the OP was asking about (death spell for being disrespected) and telling them there is something wrong with them if they don't. That could lead to new impressionable SS getting hurt if they try something like this, and that's the minimal of the risk which is really bad and just the beginning. Death spells are advanced, it takes a lot of energy to kill someone, and you need to know exactly what you are doing with a lot of experience. And then there's the justice aspect of it which was also asked for discussion, which we have been discussing.
Like I said, it's important to consider the context in which your words are being applied. If you meant it in an isolated way from the main post then it might have been good to clarify that, or otherwise to make a new topic that isn't a reply.
Intense curses require intense and focused intent and desire. This desire comes from the level of abuse received.
This is what I mean by "if you're angry, they did something to warrant it". The level of damage done to the abuser is heavily influenced and to some extent proportional to how intense your anger and hatred is. Anger and hatred which is based on the level/amount of abuse received.
If you do a "death spell" on someone who was only a minor annoyance to you, it will fail and have very minor manifestations (damage) or none at all. You are all acting as if this person could do a death spell and instantly kill anybody. They already exhibit doubts which would have dismantled the working anyway. But venting and directing that negativity at their abusers would have been good for them anyway. The emotion is what helps you to focus and direct the pestilent energy, and if the emotion/intent isn't strong enough it will not work.
For someone to develop such intense anger and hatred, their abusers must have done some truly horrible things to warrant this. One has to be severely mentally ill to develop such intense hatred over minor offenses. So in a vast majority of cases I do believe this is something that naturally sorts itself out and people should just do what they feel is the right way to answer abuse with spiritual means.
You guys over complicate things that are quite simple. After reaching certain levels of power one has to be more delicate with one's emotion and the way this can direct energy subconsciously but this is the exception, and if you're making posts asking for advice about these things you are not a part of that exception yet. So I don't even think the OP could pull it off anyway.
The point is the OP must fling back the negativity built up from the abuse to clear up this hangup. If they think a death spell is the way to go, let them do it in my opinion. If it turns out that it was an excessive punishment, this is naturally cancelled out by their lack of commitment, insufficient hatred and intent, and will manifest less severe effects, but enough to where one may become satisfied and feels the debt is paid, clearing the hangup and moving on.
You see, many times things work themselves out naturally if one goes with the natural flow of things and listens to one's instincts. When you over complicate and overthink, you may end up getting even more lost.
I remember several years ago when I was starting out spiritually there was a guy who harassed me on an almost daily basis, and while it wasn't extremely severe, it did cause me a lot of stress and frustration, and I ended up trying to pull a death spell on this person which was an excessive measure. He ended up having a work-related accident a few months later and getting a severe lifelong injury to one of his hands, to which I was satisfied and was a fair penalty.
If I had done nothing instead, I may still have carried this hangup to this day. So yes, in my opinion and experience, one should act upon abuse and go with what one feels is the fair punishment. Even if one is attempting to do more than is necessary, one's level of hatred is proportional to the level of abuse received. And the intensity of that hatred will influence the outcome of one's curse, and will end up manifesting in something that is fair and just.