Is it okay to feel so drawn to female Deity?

[Goldenwings]

In real life i avoid my friends wifes, i avoid being in contact with them or having their number or looking at them while we are together or entering in long discussion with them,this is part of the ethics i stand on, but this infiltrated my relationships to the Gods when i radiate love toward a female Deity that is married i feel like if i am being disrespectful

Is it okay to spam a Female Deity with love feelings ? Or it shouldnt be in excess out of respect? Since i feel very drawn to her and feel pure love thinking of her, but it makes me think i should instead focus on a male Deity instead out of respect , since i feel like doing opposite of what i stand on, in real life the opposite of what i said above i consider it disrespect..

Same for God rituals, i feel i should go for male Gods rituals more out of respect, does this have truth in it ? Or its irrelevant when we talk to Gods.

I am confused about the ethics between Gods and humans. What i end up doing is projecting the way i deal with humans on the Gods

 

[MercuryWisdom]

In real life i avoid my friends wifes, i avoid being in contact with them or having their number or looking at them while we are together or entering in long discussion with them,this is part of the ethics i stand on, but this infiltrated my relationships to the Gods when i radiate love toward a female Deity that is married i feel like if i am being disrespectful

Is it okay to spam a Female Deity with love feelings ? Or it shouldnt be in excess out of respect? Since i feel very drawn to her and feel pure love thinking of her, but it makes me think i should instead focus on a male Deity instead out of respect , since i feel like doing opposite of what i stand on, in real life the opposite of what i said above i consider it disrespect..

Same for God rituals, i feel i should go for male Gods rituals more out of respect, does this have truth in it ? Or its irrelevant when we talk to Gods.

I am confused about the ethics between Gods and humans. What i end up doing is projecting the way i deal with humans on the Gods

This is a hangup because of North african communities and traditions/sexual repression mainly caused also by islam. This is not how it should be and not necessarily out of ethics but out of tradition and hangups.

If you deal with someone’s wife that should be okay as it’s not supposed to be sexual or romantic. Trying so much to avoid something implies that it’s there.

Trying to avoid married women like the plague implies that if you do deal with them it would be sexual or romantic.

Dare I say you can deal with married women or even befriend them, as they are just people like any other person as long they are dealt with respect and obvious boundaries. There should be no trace of romantic or sexual relationship between you.

This hangup, disguised as an ethic has leaked over to your relationship with all females including the Goddesses! Who are our mothers, guides, and teachers, what does it matter if they are married? Does them being married affect your relationship to them? Being our spiritual mothers?

Let’s say a Goddess isn’t married does it mean that you are now allowed to send them love? Yes, becase originally the love was not sexual or romantic. The relationship type is different.

The same as having married women friends for example, if they were not married does it mean they are “free game” for you? If you were friends then the relationship ends there you can love her as a friend.

 

[nema]

That's like saying that you can't love your Mother because She's married to your Father. It's called platonic love...

 

[Goldenwings]

That's like saying that you can't love your Mother because She's married to your Father. It's called platonic love...

 

[Goldenwings]

This is a hangup because of North african communities and traditions/sexual repression mainly caused also by islam. This is not how it should be and not necessarily out of ethics but out of tradition and hangups.

If you deal with someone’s wife that should be okay as it’s not supposed to be sexual or romantic. Trying so much to avoid something implies that it’s there.

Trying to avoid married women like the plague implies that if you do deal with them it would be sexual or romantic.

Dare I say you can deal with married women or even befriend them, as they are just people like any other person as long they are dealt with respect and obvious boundaries. There should be no trace of romantic or sexual relationship between you.

This hangup, disguised as an ethic has leaked over to your relationship with all females including the Goddesses! Who are our mothers, guides, and teachers, what does it matter if they are married? Does them being married affect your relationship to them? Being our spiritual mothers?

Let’s say a Goddess isn’t married does it mean that you are now allowed to send them love? Yes, becase originally the love was not sexual or romantic. The relationship type is different.

The same as having married women friends for example, if they were not married does it mean they are “free game” for you? If you were friends then the relationship ends there you can love her as a friend.

Thanks a lot for your answer