Family #79597 Please, someone help me, this is awful.

[Ask Satya Operator]

I realized and accepted that I don’t think I’m ugly because someone once told me that or because of the social medias. It’s because of my father. I hate my father, and I look like him. Out of all his children, I’m the only one who really resembles him, as my mom always said, “you’re his image.” Since I despise him, I see him in the mirror every day, and that makes me hate my face. I want to change my hair, my eyes, my nose, my lips, my smile, anything that could distance me from him.

I remember the time when I loved myself and genuinely thought I was beautiful. That was when I was his little princess, when I adored him. The moment we started drifting apart, I started disliking my face, and as things got worse between us, my self-hate grew stronger and stronger.

Now I can’t stand him. I feel disgusted by him, and because of that, I feel disgusted by my own face. I want plastic surgery so badly because I can’t take seeing him in the mirror anymore.

I'm desperate, I feel trapped inside my own body, in my own face. And i don't have money for a bunch of plastic surgery.

 

[Goldenwings]

I realized and accepted that I don’t think I’m ugly because someone once told me that or because of the social medias. It’s because of my father. I hate my father, and I look like him. Out of all his children, I’m the only one who really resembles him, as my mom always said, “you’re his image.” Since I despise him, I see him in the mirror every day, and that makes me hate my face. I want to change my hair, my eyes, my nose, my lips, my smile, anything that could distance me from him.

I remember the time when I loved myself and genuinely thought I was beautiful. That was when I was his little princess, when I adored him. The moment we started drifting apart, I started disliking my face, and as things got worse between us, my self-hate grew stronger and stronger.

Now I can’t stand him. I feel disgusted by him, and because of that, I feel disgusted by my own face. I want plastic surgery so badly because I can’t take seeing him in the mirror anymore.

I'm desperate, I feel trapped inside my own body, in my own face. And i don't have money for a bunch of plastic surgery.

Can you tell me if you are man or women ( if its not personal) since that will make a big difference in the way i will answer

 

[ilovesatanandmarbas3]

You are not your father

 

[Aquarius]

I had a moment like this, you can't really change this, you have his genetics and at the end of the day, he made you. So it is what it is. You gotta look yourself at the mirror and love yourself.

 

[Epiphany]

I realized and accepted that I don’t think I’m ugly because someone once told me that or because of the social medias. It’s because of my father. I hate my father, and I look like him. Out of all his children, I’m the only one who really resembles him, as my mom always said, “you’re his image.” Since I despise him, I see him in the mirror every day, and that makes me hate my face. I want to change my hair, my eyes, my nose, my lips, my smile, anything that could distance me from him.

I remember the time when I loved myself and genuinely thought I was beautiful. That was when I was his little princess, when I adored him. The moment we started drifting apart, I started disliking my face, and as things got worse between us, my self-hate grew stronger and stronger.

Now I can’t stand him. I feel disgusted by him, and because of that, I feel disgusted by my own face. I want plastic surgery so badly because I can’t take seeing him in the mirror anymore.

I'm desperate, I feel trapped inside my own body, in my own face. And i don't have money for a bunch of plastic surgery.

Can you tell me what happened between you and your father? Things started off good by the sounds of it. How come things went south and you started drifting apart? Can there be any reconciliation? Do you think he may also experience self hate?

Your relationship with your father seems to be the root of this, so your efforts need to be focused here, whether that's repairing the relationship or forgiving and letting go, or some other thing. Going under the knife will not fix the heart of the issue and it will not do any favors for your natural beauty.

When was the last time you were involved with somebody who made you feel beautiful? Do you think that love could help you feel better about yourself?