tabby
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Meteor said:...
I'll admit that I did think of him as a child in an adult body, so I may have given him too much leeway due to that; I didn't consider him capable of harming anyone in this context, so his behaviour seemed like a child's tantrum to me. Regardless, I concede my point. People like that should be let known in no uncertain terms that their behaviour isn't really acceptable. I wasn't sure about calling it abuse since I didn't take him seriously enough to ever consider it to be so severe, but if he decides to advance in this path then it's important that he learns to control his mind and recognise his allies. If he had any power to back up his attitude, I would agree with you that it's abuse instead of him just, well, acting like a retard.tabby said:
Fair enough.
That came to my mind as well, regarding learning control and power behind words. I mean, personally I take people maybe a bit too seriously (habit but also a personality thing), you never really know where someone is coming from when they first come here. But either way, I like to be more cautious of who comes around because there was a time I didn’t take a persons online threats seriously enough for what they were and, well... let’s just say I’m still rooting out the psychological trauma of that situation.
If this guy really is serious about advancing (and not here to stir things up) it would do him better to start learning void meditation and control over his emotions rather than being ruled by them. Maybe then he can know himself better because there is less unnecessary fog in the way.