Don't judge someone unless they've got a gun in your face. Don't forgive someone unless you know them deep in the soul, and CHOOSE to love them in spite of what you may see.
Basically it's a case of soul bonding. You should forgive flippant offenses from your race and people, but the closer it gets the more you can tolerate, but even the flippant things can hurt you so bad if you are that in love and caring for your family/closer ones. When another race/group/organisation is poised against you or you just don't know their intentions and are removed from knowing them, it is very weak to just forgive even flippant offenses from those groups. The nature of that is that they will most likely take advantage and if they gain power in that, will screw you over for their own gains as a separate collective different interests and commonalities from you. It's better to judge earlier than beyond if a person is more unrelated to you. You forgive your brother for costing you some money, because he loves you. But in the case of outer less-related groups you don't do it even to a co-worker, because other groups and in a larger sense the other races or species will take advantage of this forgiveness. The whole office may catch wind of this and also screw with you financially or otherwise mocking you for example. With the external and non-relative groups(and individuals from them) the threshold of forgiveness in this day and age should be very low. Your understanding and awareness of the group and its intentions to you are what raise this a bit higher but there is always a natural maximum with people who are not related to you via race/family. There is no love or established platform of trust(shared genes) for cardinal and genuine love, only an illusive abomination if such a thing is attempted, this relationship has to be detached like the description of Aquarius/Uranus. This planet also rules foreign things especially things distant from you with less direct relation to you, you can use it to help you understand this principle and how to expect to be treated from varying types of individuals from members of your family, then race, to other races and beyond Earth itself. "Alienation" and "Detachment" is what it's about, you don't forgive someone too easily who is detached and alienated from you and doesn't give a shit but only about their own gains, or should I say GENES. The majority of less/non-related beings will take advantage of this and put the gun in your face at the end of the ordeal.
With people of other races I'm not advocating violence only distance and respect as we are common under Satan's creation. The natural law of don't race mix and don't do this "integration" garbage to eachother's groups will never go. It doesn't really require a discussion and anyone can measure for themselves the required distance of this for something like other races. We don't treat an off planet species who could look and think anything bizarre like Cthulu with squid faces and spikes for limbs like we treat someone of the same species as us lol. No debating that it's just clear. That is the highest we know this necessary "alienation" of different beings can go. It makes me wonder what the most "alien" beings to us in this universe might feel like to acknowledge...
But yeah anyway, for human terms if you are removed and alienated from what someone's everyday actions and thoughts are totally, if this person has offended you seriously then there is no mode for you to deal with this through peaceful means either because of them or just because of how it is. Whether you hold that grudge is then a personal deal. This has to be something like bullying or threatening your life, like we would hold a grudge and never forgive the tyrannical Yehuborim governments and never give in to their coldness towards us. If someone bullied you a bit or quite a bit in school or something it's totally up to the person but in varying levels it can be very cathartic and even necessary as a Zevist to do that. As you develop power you choose to burn out the dross and "forgive" or you take revenge and fully clear that debt with the person. I'm more on the revenge and justice side but I'm also easily distracted and don't really give a shit about when I was a kid too much anymore, lol. I just made it a goal to punish those who fucked with me later and it currently doesn't dominate who I am that much to warrant deliberated action.
Everyone is different in that regard. Generally the line is don't take the xian crap about it AT ALL as it is hypocritical to everyday life and even what xians experience every day, just because some lunatic xian women can allow bullshit to occur to them on a daily basis or some crap doesn't equate with reality at all. The xian men when hard times come and are pressured, will forgive little because it's a total joke. When it comes to forgiving big daddy Yehubor though, then they will take it right up the ass and direct all of their "Deus vult" crap towards eachother and kill eachother instead of what we know as the real enemy, as per the spiritual programming they tie into. Forgiveness in xian terms is death and why xianity is a death cult. Everything of the outer forces and organisations against the individual is accepted by them, and "bestowed" ((not imposed non-spiritualists, get it right)). It's so contrived and insane in regards to real life and how things flow and move. It even denies the inherent charge and force of life never mind all the supernal stuff like reincarnation and higher planet energies; this is literally why it is a death cult in the purest form. Xians live to forgive, in a world of pressure and changing demands because life is vibrant and has many intriguing and substantial things in it that challenge us to grow. Xianity is a denial of those things and expects some random fart dream("heaven") to take the xian away from the issues they're having that ONLY come from denying their own fulfillment in life BECAUSE of xianity. They live to forgive and trust the outer forces that remove them from life and their existence, total self-undoing. Then they are also cursed in the bible to hate their actual family and race who are the closest to them that they can actually trust. This is why we say xianity is upside down and inversion of normal and realistic values, it literally is. We strive for our own life in it's fullest even non-Zevist Potential people of the Gods do because it's literally NORMAL it doesn't need discussing or "theologizing". Xianity in it's absolute depth when discussed by Potential people of the Gods, has to debate literally this instinct.
Xianity is a joke, the entire world and how we are permeates from us a different energy and different spiritual requirements. Forgiving those who want to kill us is not even present at all nevermind a ((((((((((((requirement)))))))))))), because naturally as beings we want to live and grow, it's that simple. I grew up in my own family feeling like that and pretty much everyone does because it's the truth, I'm only writing this to put it into words so we can reflect on this.
Anyway, hope that's helpful
