Trouble having an orgasm. (Female)

Apr 13, 2020#20

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Ol argedco luciftiassaid:
So sit on his face.

Not what I asked.
I already know how to have a clitoral orgasm.... I'm trying to figure out why I can't have vaginal orgasms like some other women can.

Apr 13, 2020#21

GG Allinsaid:
Egonsaid:
Yep.
Shaelsaid:
it's like missionary position but the woman closes the legs after penetration?
There is something better:
Your left leg bound (like v letter inverted) above her left outside hibs the other leg long in the middle between her legs. Your body is 22,5 degree to the right sight of her face. Cock -> vagina. While intercourse you will also stimulate her clit with your body. (of course vise versa is also possible)
Like this but the men is on top and the long leg is not on the outside but inside of the two female legs and v leg on outside:

I've tried different positions like the ones here but I don't think it's a positioning issue I've tried all kinds of positions but it still does nothing. Even spending lots of time in them. With variations of angles etcetera also this includes my female partners they can't get me off either in a vaginal way I mean. Hell I can't even get myself off in that way believe me I've tried.....

GG Allinsaid:
Egonsaid:
Yep.
Shaelsaid:
it's like missionary position but the woman closes the legs after penetration?
There is something better:
Your left leg bound (like v letter inverted) above her left outside hibs the other leg long in the middle between her legs. Your body is 22,5 degree to the right sight of her face. Cock -> vagina. While intercourse you will also stimulate her clit with your body. (of course vise versa is also possible)
Like this but the men is on top and the long leg is not on the outside but inside of the two female legs and v leg on outside:

I've tried different positions like the ones here but I don't think it's a positioning issue I've tried all kinds of positions but it still does nothing. Even spending lots of time in them. With variations of angles etcetera also this includes my female partners they can't get me off either in a vaginal way I mean. Hell I can't even get myself off in that way believe me I've tried.....

Apr 13, 2020#22

Hps.mlimlal666said:
This is not normal, it has to do with your lower charkras, probably a block or needs to be cleaned. Lydia wrote exactly I was thinking before I even scroll down the page. Do workings on your lower chakras

Thank you I believe you are correct and this would make sense as nothing I physically do changes the outcome.

Apr 13, 2020#23

MissMeowsaid:
GG Allinsaid:
Egonsaid:
Yep.
There is something better:
Your left leg bound (like v letter inverted) above her left outside hibs the other leg long in the middle between her legs. Your body is 22,5 degree to the right sight of her face. Cock -> vagina. While intercourse you will also stimulate her clit with your body. (of course vise versa is also possible)
Like this but the men is on top and the long leg is not on the outside but inside of the two female legs and v leg on outside:
I've tried different positions like the ones here but I don't think it's a positioning issue I've tried all kinds of positions but it still does nothing. Even spending lots of time in them. With variations of angles etcetera also this includes my female partners they can't get me off either in a vaginal way I mean. Hell I can't even get myself off in that way believe me I've tried.....

Do you think during sex about other stuff, like what to do next day or something similar? One of my exgirlfriends had this problem. Had to endure 1-2h before she could climax. Also she wouldn´t tell if something wouldn´t feal right. Always tell if something isn´t good. Do you know the book "The Multi-Orgasmic Woman" from Mantak Chia. Should be worth a read. I only did read the male counterpart.

MissMeowsaid:
GG Allinsaid:
Egonsaid:
Yep.
There is something better:
Your left leg bound (like v letter inverted) above her left outside hibs the other leg long in the middle between her legs. Your body is 22,5 degree to the right sight of her face. Cock -> vagina. While intercourse you will also stimulate her clit with your body. (of course vise versa is also possible)
Like this but the men is on top and the long leg is not on the outside but inside of the two female legs and v leg on outside:
I've tried different positions like the ones here but I don't think it's a positioning issue I've tried all kinds of positions but it still does nothing. Even spending lots of time in them. With variations of angles etcetera also this includes my female partners they can't get me off either in a vaginal way I mean. Hell I can't even get myself off in that way believe me I've tried.....

Do you think during sex about other stuff, like what to do next day or something similar? One of my exgirlfriends had this problem. Had to endure 1-2h before she could climax. Also she wouldn´t tell if something wouldn´t feal right. Always tell if something isn´t good. Do you know the book "The Multi-Orgasmic Woman" from Mantak Chia. Should be worth a read. I only did read the male counterpart.

May 9, 2020#24

So work on cleaning up your sacral and base chakras. Get rid of the blockage.

https://templeofzeus.org/

May 9, 2020#25

Jacksaid:
Tell him to choke you while sex and slap you. Just light BDSM.
Take MACA and Horny goat weed and see if it helps.

It's a pity that comments like these of yours seem to always conveniently stay under the radar of most people. This kind of shit should be put on display on the front page so people see how fucked up you actually are.

These kinds of garbage comments are what drive most people like MissMeow away from even asking questions like this on here at all. You should have enough decency to realize on your own to keep your mouth shut on these topics, if you are going to give "advice" like this.

Using your brain and reading through the thread properly should make it very clear that "domination" isn't a factor here. But Jack's brain doesn't like reading and waiting, of course. It likes projecting itself onto situations, so when a female asks for advice on orgasms Jack gets horny and writes about his domination and BDSM fetish regardless of the situation.

MissMeowsaid:
...

Also @MissMeow you are probably aware already anyways, but stay away from those herbs he mentioned. Only a select few specific conditions actually are treated by those, and in all other cases they can be really harmful. I tried Maca many years ago and it was absolutely awful. Goatweed is said to be even stronger.
I recommend consulting with Shannon or Centralforce if you actually want to try them.

Jacksaid:
Tell him to choke you while sex and slap you. Just light BDSM.
Take MACA and Horny goat weed and see if it helps.

It's a pity that comments like these of yours seem to always conveniently stay under the radar of most people. This kind of shit should be put on display on the front page so people see how fucked up you actually are.

These kinds of garbage comments are what drive most people like MissMeow away from even asking questions like this on here at all. You should have enough decency to realize on your own to keep your mouth shut on these topics, if you are going to give "advice" like this.

Using your brain and reading through the thread properly should make it very clear that "domination" isn't a factor here. But Jack's brain doesn't like reading and waiting, of course. It likes projecting itself onto situations, so when a female asks for advice on orgasms Jack gets horny and writes about his domination and BDSM fetish regardless of the situation.

MissMeowsaid:
...

Also @MissMeow you are probably aware already anyways, but stay away from those herbs he mentioned. Only a select few specific conditions actually are treated by those, and in all other cases they can be really harmful. I tried Maca many years ago and it was absolutely awful. Goatweed is said to be even stronger.
I recommend consulting with Shannon or Centralforce if you actually want to try them.

May 9, 2020#26

Shaelsaid:
It's a pity that comments like these of yours seem to always conveniently stay under the radar of most people. This kind of shit should be put on display on the front page so people see how fucked up you actually are.
These kinds of garbage comments are what drive most people like MissMeow away from even asking questions like this on here at all. You should have enough decency to realize on your own to keep your mouth shut on these topics, if you are going to give "advice" like this.

This makes me wonder actually because I wasn't expecting anyone to jump in as moral police on a sexual topic where I recommended someone to try light BDSM on a literally SATANIC forum. It's like I'm advising someone to spice up their sex life and a bible thumping Christian comes along claiming BDSM is Of Satan. Oh LORD !!FEAR THE DEVIL. If you spank that girls ass, you will literally be possessed by the Devil.

What exactly is it that I said that was so disturbing and fucked up ? What exactly is indecent ? Are you implying that those who practice BDSM are sick in the head ? Its there is something dirty or unnatural in this all ?

Its just a natural situation of masculine and feminine polarity during sex acts. Domination and submission is simply a single case on a spectrum of lot of sexual situations that COULD happen. If this is related to sex and she didn't say that she had tried this. Obviously she clarified that she did try this and it didn't help so I now know that it couldn't be that. Maybe it's somsthing different and I wouldn't know it if I hadn't asked. So what's the harm in recommending this ? It could help or it couldn't. The only person who would know this is the woman herself. So definitely this is related. Infact all of these things are related starting from hormonal problems to psychological issues to partner compatibility etc.

Using your brain and reading through the thread properly should make it very clear that "domination" isn't a factor here. But Jack's brain doesn't like reading and waiting, of course. It likes projecting itself onto situations, so when a female asks for advice on orgasms Jack gets horny and writes about his domination and BDSM fetish regardless of the situation.

This is the exact opposite of what happened. Infact due to the inner conflict with the things you consider dirty and fetishes your emotions erupted and you couldn't control yourself and you HAD TO accuse me of being all of this whereas all of this is simply you projecting your inner reality outside.

Also @MissMeow you are probably aware already anyways, but stay away from those herbs he mentioned. Only a select few specific conditions actually are treated by those, and in all other cases they can be really harmful. I tried Maca many years ago and it was absolutely awful. Goatweed is said to be even stronger.

Yes it might have been for you because it might be incompatible with your body but it's not harmful in a general sense. I take this and it feels awesome, personally. And no it isn't limited to specific situations. It gives you overall strength, stamina ,vitality and increased sexual libido. It helps in all sex related issues and has many other benefits as well. Maybe you had thyroid problems which interfered with the function or you took the root directly or from a bad supplier ?

Safety and Side Effects

Maca is generally considered safe (38Trusted Source, 39Trusted Source, 40Trusted Source).
However, Peruvian natives believe that consuming fresh maca root may have adverse health effects and recommend boiling it first.
Additionally, if you have thyroid problems, you may want to be careful with maca.
That's because it contains goitrogens, substances that may interfere with the normal function of the thyroid gland. These compounds are more likely to affect you if you already have impaired thyroid function.
Lastly, pregnant or breastfeeding women should consult with their doctors before taking maca.
BOTTOM LINE:
Maca is considered safe for most people, although those with thyroid issues need to be careful.

https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/benefits-of-maca-root#section12

I recommend consulting with Shannon or Centralforce if you actually want to try them.

Yeah you should consult these people. I don't deny their knowledge. I would also like to see what they would say.

And understand this, this is a mature adult woman who can take care of herself. If she finds anything offensive or has something to say to me, she has her own mouth and can say it directly to me. I will clarify and apologize if I think I did something wrong or went over the top. But she doesn't need you as her white night mediator. So don't butt in other people's business , especially if you have any moral policing judgment. I don't give a fuck what you believe to be dirty or sick. I believe choking and slapping a woman during sex (with enthusiastic consent ofcourse) is completely fine.

Shaelsaid:
It's a pity that comments like these of yours seem to always conveniently stay under the radar of most people. This kind of shit should be put on display on the front page so people see how fucked up you actually are.
These kinds of garbage comments are what drive most people like MissMeow away from even asking questions like this on here at all. You should have enough decency to realize on your own to keep your mouth shut on these topics, if you are going to give "advice" like this.

This makes me wonder actually because I wasn't expecting anyone to jump in as moral police on a sexual topic where I recommended someone to try light BDSM on a literally SATANIC forum. It's like I'm advising someone to spice up their sex life and a bible thumping Christian comes along claiming BDSM is Of Satan. Oh LORD !!FEAR THE DEVIL. If you spank that girls ass, you will literally be possessed by the Devil.

What exactly is it that I said that was so disturbing and fucked up ? What exactly is indecent ? Are you implying that those who practice BDSM are sick in the head ? Its there is something dirty or unnatural in this all ?

Its just a natural situation of masculine and feminine polarity during sex acts. Domination and submission is simply a single case on a spectrum of lot of sexual situations that COULD happen. If this is related to sex and she didn't say that she had tried this. Obviously she clarified that she did try this and it didn't help so I now know that it couldn't be that. Maybe it's somsthing different and I wouldn't know it if I hadn't asked. So what's the harm in recommending this ? It could help or it couldn't. The only person who would know this is the woman herself. So definitely this is related. Infact all of these things are related starting from hormonal problems to psychological issues to partner compatibility etc.

Using your brain and reading through the thread properly should make it very clear that "domination" isn't a factor here. But Jack's brain doesn't like reading and waiting, of course. It likes projecting itself onto situations, so when a female asks for advice on orgasms Jack gets horny and writes about his domination and BDSM fetish regardless of the situation.

This is the exact opposite of what happened. Infact due to the inner conflict with the things you consider dirty and fetishes your emotions erupted and you couldn't control yourself and you HAD TO accuse me of being all of this whereas all of this is simply you projecting your inner reality outside.

Also @MissMeow you are probably aware already anyways, but stay away from those herbs he mentioned. Only a select few specific conditions actually are treated by those, and in all other cases they can be really harmful. I tried Maca many years ago and it was absolutely awful. Goatweed is said to be even stronger.

Yes it might have been for you because it might be incompatible with your body but it's not harmful in a general sense. I take this and it feels awesome, personally. And no it isn't limited to specific situations. It gives you overall strength, stamina ,vitality and increased sexual libido. It helps in all sex related issues and has many other benefits as well. Maybe you had thyroid problems which interfered with the function or you took the root directly or from a bad supplier ?

Safety and Side Effects

Maca is generally considered safe (38Trusted Source, 39Trusted Source, 40Trusted Source).
However, Peruvian natives believe that consuming fresh maca root may have adverse health effects and recommend boiling it first.
Additionally, if you have thyroid problems, you may want to be careful with maca.
That's because it contains goitrogens, substances that may interfere with the normal function of the thyroid gland. These compounds are more likely to affect you if you already have impaired thyroid function.
Lastly, pregnant or breastfeeding women should consult with their doctors before taking maca.
BOTTOM LINE:
Maca is considered safe for most people, although those with thyroid issues need to be careful.

https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/benefits-of-maca-root#section12

I recommend consulting with Shannon or Centralforce if you actually want to try them.

Yeah you should consult these people. I don't deny their knowledge. I would also like to see what they would say.

And understand this, this is a mature adult woman who can take care of herself. If she finds anything offensive or has something to say to me, she has her own mouth and can say it directly to me. I will clarify and apologize if I think I did something wrong or went over the top. But she doesn't need you as her white night mediator. So don't butt in other people's business , especially if you have any moral policing judgment. I don't give a fuck what you believe to be dirty or sick. I believe choking and slapping a woman during sex (with enthusiastic consent ofcourse) is completely fine.

Jul 19, 2020#27

To put this thread back on track for the Ladies who have suffered like me... I found this blog that might be helpful here are some important links:

(Don't let the advertisements fool you she gives tons of free information just be sure to scroll to the bottom of the pages so you don't miss anything.)

https://kimanami.com/5-steps-to-cervical-orgasms/

https://kimanami.com/how-to-have-vaginal-orgasms-g-spot-cervical-and-more/

https://kimanami.com/how-to-have-vaginal-orgasms/

https://kimanami.com/g-spot-orgasms-tips-techniques-stimulate/

https://kimanami.com/g-marks-the-spot/

And if you aquire an interest for yoni eggs you can get high quality ones for a decent price from this site and additional tips for unleashing your female sexuality instead of feeling like a prisoner to your body and normalizing your lack of sexual satisfaction..

https://www.jadeeggsglobal.com

Happy fucking! xoxo

To put this thread back on track for the Ladies who have suffered like me... I found this blog that might be helpful here are some important links:

(Don't let the advertisements fool you she gives tons of free information just be sure to scroll to the bottom of the pages so you don't miss anything.)

https://kimanami.com/5-steps-to-cervical-orgasms/

https://kimanami.com/how-to-have-vaginal-orgasms-g-spot-cervical-and-more/

https://kimanami.com/how-to-have-vaginal-orgasms/

https://kimanami.com/g-spot-orgasms-tips-techniques-stimulate/

https://kimanami.com/g-marks-the-spot/

And if you aquire an interest for yoni eggs you can get high quality ones for a decent price from this site and additional tips for unleashing your female sexuality instead of feeling like a prisoner to your body and normalizing your lack of sexual satisfaction..

https://www.jadeeggsglobal.com

Happy fucking! xoxo

Jun 21, 2021#28

@O.P.

By any chance do you happen to Syntribate(Cross-legged masturbation)?

Many women report unable to experience vaginal orgasms and only clitoral or spot specific. But because they syntribate multiple, many times per day. They rewire their sexual orgasms to only experience through syntribating.

Next time you have sex consider spreading your legs, letting the guy penetrate, then cross your legs and syntribate while he is having sex with you.

There's hardly much information on this on the internet but a good site to check this stuff out and understand other women who experience the same thing.

https://www.syntribate.com/syntribate.com

There are some women who just don't orgasm from regular sex it might be a mental issue or some deeper sign. Usually it might even be requiring of professional assistance i.e. sexologist maybe even traumas from early in life.

@O.P.

By any chance do you happen to Syntribate(Cross-legged masturbation)?

Many women report unable to experience vaginal orgasms and only clitoral or spot specific. But because they syntribate multiple, many times per day. They rewire their sexual orgasms to only experience through syntribating.

Next time you have sex consider spreading your legs, letting the guy penetrate, then cross your legs and syntribate while he is having sex with you.

There's hardly much information on this on the internet but a good site to check this stuff out and understand other women who experience the same thing.

https://www.syntribate.com/syntribate.com

There are some women who just don't orgasm from regular sex it might be a mental issue or some deeper sign. Usually it might even be requiring of professional assistance i.e. sexologist maybe even traumas from early in life.

Jun 22, 2021#29

Some very useful points stated on this thread...in my experience empowering your chakras is great. Communication is key. Alot of the time partners wont communicate with you. Out of fear of hurting the others feelings. It's important to understand what each other likes. You sound like you just like clittoral stimulation. That's what gives you ultimate pleasure. Everybody is different. My partner loves that as well. In actual fact she enjoys that part more than intercourse. For men the most important part is foreplay. If she enjoys clittoral stimulation this is where it takes a bit of practice. Learning to use your tongue in different motions and speed and rhythm is important. But the most important part is listening with your ears. Take it slow then gradually increase your speed. And try different tongue motions and listen to her voice as she moans. If she enjoys what your doing she will let you know through her moans and her heavy breathing. If the communication is good she will tell you which motions she likes. And honestly most of the oral sex performed by men on porn sites are bullshit. My advice is watch lesbians perform oral sex. You will learn how to do it properly. Because a woman knows exactly where and how to lick. You will notice in those videos the moaning and the woman's breathing is different. In comparison to watching a Male perform oral sex on a woman. Honestly to make a woman orgasm multiple times takes alot longer than 5 minutes. And when you understand this and you understand how to give her multiple orgasms. Your sex life and sexual chemistry will improve significantly. Penis size does not matter. Most woman just want to enjoy the pleasures of orgasms and not how big you are in the sack. I've had partners complain that they had partners who were large in size. But there was no clittoral stimulation, so no orgasm. Then the guy ejaculated in 60 seconds. And it was touted as a horrible experience where the female ended up playing with herself afterwards while he slept because she was not satisfied..intercourse is always enjoyable for men but it doesn't necessarily mean that she enjoyed it too. Because once you ejaculate that's it, that doesn't mean she had an orgasm with you at the same time. Always keep that in mind. Make her orgasm first. Then finish it off with you having an orgasm afterwards. Trust me it is way better when you both get to enjoy orgasms together. You will become better and better at it to the point where she wants to jump right into your soul afterwards.