Second chances?lol

[high_on_coffee]

I am in the current situation of boyfriend says my ex bff christina
wants to be friends again, after constantly ignoring me. He wants me to
be friends with her again since he thinks she is going to try after he
talked to her after church. I do not wish to be friends with her, i
feel like she does not deserve my kindness for being a bitch for 5
months thinking what she tells me is right and that I should do it. My
tarot card strength tells me to think all posible answers. Help me.
Should we pretend to be friends and harm her with a popit, or just flat
out deny her, because going back would be a sign of weaknes.

 

[high_on_coffee]

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<high_on_coffee@... wrote:

I am in the current situation of boyfriend says my ex bff christina
wants to be friends again, after constantly ignoring me. He wants me

to

be friends with her again since he thinks she is going to try after

he

talked to her after church. I do not wish to be friends with her, i
feel like she does not deserve my kindness for being a bitch for 5
months thinking what she tells me is right and that I should do it.

My

tarot card strength tells me to think all posible answers. Help me.
Should we pretend to be friends and harm her with a popit, or just

flat

out deny her, because going back would be a sign of weaknes.

i finaly figured out why, my bf's sermon was about true friendship,and
being true to friends, and telling the truth.

 

[Jess]

No one ever said you couldn't be cordial towards her. Granted, I have
two ex-friends that wanted to get in contact with me again, but
instead, I ignored it considering it was about 5 months (as well)
after the entire ordeal that stopped the friendship to begin with.

Years later, I regret that decision to some degree, mainly due to
curiosity. I have no way of getting in contact with them again without
asking people I'd rather not talk to. That process would cause many
questions and even a slight blow to my pride. However, depending on
how good a friend she was and the type of friend (unforgettable in a
good way) then you may perhaps want to consider talking to her again.

If her desire is to be friends again, I'm not advising to do it to
back-stab her later, but more for informational gathering purposes.
Find out why she wants to be friends again and through time, figure
out if it was a good idea to fall back into step with that
relationship. Mind you, if it brings the same old trouble, then screw
it. Tell her it's not going to work because obviously some things just
don't change.

(Assuming something happened from her bahavior/ways or a situation
that stopped the friendship to begin with was the main hindrance.)

 

[roxy_falloutgirl]

flat out ignore if your just gonna end up harming her!!

it makes no sense to pretend then end up hurting her anyway

dont worry about the hurt part, she'll end up dying eventually anyway
and you wont

just forget about her


--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "high_on_coffee"
<high_on_coffee@... wrote:

I am in the current situation of boyfriend says my ex bff christina
wants to be friends again, after constantly ignoring me. He wants

me to

be friends with her again since he thinks she is going to try after

he

talked to her after church. I do not wish to be friends with her, i
feel like she does not deserve my kindness for being a bitch for 5
months thinking what she tells me is right and that I should do it.

My

tarot card strength tells me to think all posible answers. Help me.
Should we pretend to be friends and harm her with a popit, or just

flat

out deny her, because going back would be a sign of weaknes.