Do you use magik for everything in your life? Why would you use magik to have a good relation with someone? There are things in life where you don't have to use magik, only living it. Speak with that person, have something in common.
The best way to have friends, is to go outside, do an activity with other people and speak to them.
I am not trying to be harsh with you, but most of the time you post on the forum, it is about bindings. Why would your life resolve around binding other people around you? You did it for revenge, and now you are doing it to have friends.
I hope you will change your state of mind brother.