AskSatanOperator said:
I want to have a sexually active life but I don't know if I want to date, I want to one day, but I don't think I'm ready for that right now, but I want to have sex, I could try a casual relationship but I'm a little ashamed of my body (I'm a very thin girl) and I always thought that losing my virginity could be something traumatic and it would have to be with someone special (in this case a boyfriend).
i would feel used if i went with anyone but i want to have sex for pleasure only. i am confused.
I want you to relax, and feel better about yourself. Men are very understanding, loving, and easy to please. If you want casual sex, there's an enormous amount of single men out there who would be very accommodating.
As to your body image, there's lots of men out there who like very thin women. To be honest, I myself like thicc women, but men's preferences are widely varied and reasonable. If you want, you could try eating lots of Red Meat, eggs, bacon, and raw milk. You could even get the kind of protein powder that men get to bulk up at the gym. Eat lots of animal fats and protein from animal sources. Saturated Fat and Cholesterol are very good for you.
If you've never interacted much with men, don't feel afraid to get out there and talk to some men. Men are very approachable, kind, loving, and understanding. You would be greatly surprised at how caring, gentle, affectionate, and sympathetic men can be. It will be very easy, almost laughably easy for you to find a very good man who will be very understanding of your needs and feelings.
Men are filled with love. Men just want to pour love into women. I want you to absorb that, as that is a very important thing to understand about men. Men have a enormous need for women to accept and appreciate their love. Find a man that you find to be very nice and try talking to him, and steer the conversation to what you've shared here. I know that may seem embarrassing, but I want you to know that men are very conscious about this and want to make women feel comfortable, and are very worried about making women feel uncomfortable. We worry all the time that women think that we are creepy, and try to emulate whatever we think makes women feel safe, comfortable, and attracted to us.
I cannot stress this enough. If you want your first time to be special, there are lots of very wonderful, caring, and loving men who would be very happy to make your first time a special, gentle, and enjoyable experience. Be very transparent about what you want. Think about your fantasies, and literally tell him what you want. Men LOVE being told what to do sexually by women. I am dead serious. There are few things most men love more than being told what to in bed. Do not hesitate to give him instructions about exactly what you want.
Whatever you want in casual or serious relationships with men, know that men are very reasonable and flexible regarding these things, and have a very strong urge to be very respectful and considerate of a woman's desires and needs. All you have to do is be very open, honest and forward with him. Men appreciate that from women.
I really want you to feel relief and encouragement. Men want you, and they want to make you happy. I hope you have luck in your relationships with men.
