Question #899: Am I wrong for thinking this way?

[HailTheSerpent]

Worried about the kids, I get that. Worried about his family, I get that too. Rape is absolutely unacceptable however and deserves justice. Even when the kids move out though, what about the wife? My suggestion, put a thoughtform of guilt around him. Make him hold himself accountable. It may not seem like much, but I've found just showing people, and letting them know exactly what they did to me, is enough to move on. If he was single I'd say curse him to death, he deserves to suffer in an extreme and lasting way for what he did, but people will suffer from the fallout unfortunately. I'm sorry you went through that. This is a difficult and complex situation however, and you're dealing with extreme and lasting trauma and emotions. I'm just a dude on the internet. This is what I would do though. On your own end, you can do a lot. Heal yourself, Lydia has made a wonderful emotional healing working, and from experience, I can tell you it works extremely well (https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=54768&p=242350&hilit=Psychological+health+working#p242350). Work with water and Venus, this can get your emotions flowing better than ever, and help to reteach yourself to be affectionate with others again. There's an opportunity for a Venus square tomorrow, and the night after that. Cut any astral ties lingering from him. I wish you the best of luck.

 

[Head Guardian Blitzkreig]

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You can curse him in such a manner that his family is only indirectly offended, as per your programming of the energy. Unfortunately, this is how these matters go, as criminals go to jail and have to leave their family behind. Even someone who goes to rehab may have a bit of a strained relationship with their loved ones because of this.

At the same time, justice needs to be had for everyone to move forward, including his family. They deserve a father/husband who has paid for his past mistakes and is not a criminal at large. Him not learning his lesson may even have allowed such karma to transmit from him to his kids.

What about you? Did this man have any concern with your future partner/children, and how his sexual acts might have destroyed that? Is it ok for this to be a one-sided affair, where he can have a healthy family, and you are left traumatized?

You can mitigate the damage to them, but I personally believe that some indirect damage is unavoidable. Try to be creative here: Maybe you can make him also experience similar trauma, as well as feeling horrible guilt for what happened.