Promiscuity

[Godmode]

I don't know about everyone else here but I am personally not promiscuous at all. It has nothing to do with libido or erectile function but mainly a problem with getting close to others. I wish I had a girlfriend so I wouldn't be frustrated all the time but shit happens. I would probably be promiscuous in some other circumstance I guess but I don't know maybe I wouldn't.

So I'm wondering what all your opinions on promiscuity are & also why some people are shy and why some people aren't. I personally think people are promiscuous because they are insecure about their value and don't want to feel replaceable or unlovable. Plus, it's just the mainstream thing so people do it because it feels good and its OK to do. It's easier to say that someone you love doesn't want you to date you because they're scared of how sexual you are, than to admit that maybe the person you really want just doesn't like your personality, trust you, or want you back.

I know that sounds harsh but in my experience it's true in at least some cases. I know a guy who told me that he's able to sleep around a lot because he specifically lowers his standards to groom sexually naive girls. I also know three women like this, who prey on male virgins and rack up large numbers of sexual partners. Its kind of like, "well I only have sex with beta-males so I'm not a REAL slut... per say..." lol
Well anyways the man told me he does this because he's never been able to handle rejection from women he actually really wanted. To me it seems like he's just cheating at the game and damning himself in his own mind in a sense. There's also STDs and nobody who sleeps around actually wears protection. Thoughts?

 

[Tala]

One way we are lucky as Zevism is we have a chance to get to know our true selves and desires through meditation and spiritual growth.

When I was a teen I fell into a trap that it was cool to be promiscuous because my friends were. This was damaging to me for years after because by nature I'm monagomous I just didn't have time and ability to figure it out.

If anyone wonders if they should be promiscuous or not then probably they are not.

 

[darkmonkey666]

I know sleeping with anyone is not good and you should keep it in your race and sleeping around a lot isn't good either but what about those myself included who are not the Jeslous types with their partners and are not necessarily monogamous. My current partner is like that I dont feel as I want to be monogamous either. I do feel love and respect for the person more than just using them but dont feel I can commit myself to one partner only nor do I feel like my partner has to either.

Is this bad and what should i do to work on this if it is.

 

[Braun666]

Ones chart can factor in the levels of if there's Venus in Gemini for men or Mars in gemini for women. Other supporting factors can amplify this position and make one totally okay with this.

Some of our Gods have several wives. Satan has 5 wives.

While some gods are monogamous. This is individual and there's no right or wrong.

 

[High Priestess Lydia Coventina]

Try to see how life would be without xianity or hangups. A lot of people are simply playful when it comes to sex, and don't have hangups. And a lot of people take their time getting to know someone before having sex. It really depends on one's soul nature, and people should just do what's best for them, but of course safely.

But a lot of people unfortunately sleep around for the wrong reasons. Most people are so out of tune with nature :/

 

[Ài Gōng]

On top of that, I am admittedly a horndog that likes to look at all the men, but I never attempt to pursue any of them.

I see you're a man of culture as well.

 

[Powstanie Pogańskie]

On top of that, I am admittedly a horndog that likes to look at all the men, but I never attempt to pursue any of them.

I see you're a man of culture as well.

Damn right.~

I suppose though that it's not accurate to say I never pursue any of them; sometimes I do. There's just often such a personality clash with so many of them that I've taken a look-but-don't-touch approach. I've figured that the time for relationships will come when I've fixed problems in my own life, and focusing on those things will ultimately yield more success and happiness in the long run.