My life is coming together

[Akhkharu Usemi]

 

[chalchiuhnenetzin]

Excellent advice! Teaching by example is probably the most powerful and lasting method of all. Everyone benefits.

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Rezaal" <rezaal@... wrote:

My advice would be to simply set an example to your sister which will set
you apart as a role model of strength and inspiration in her mind.

Develop your personal abilities as per the JoS site and always allow her to
feel she can talk to you about any topic.



When the time is right for her, she will ask questions about what you
believe in, and when the time is right FOR YOU BOTH then you will be able to
be open with her.

Although she already sounds very intelligent and mature, at twelve, she is
probably still a risk of "blabbing" and you are right to be cautious just
now.



Approximately 12 months ago I had the situation where one of my nieces, who
is now 18, started asking quite probing questions about my beliefs while we
were conversing at the edge of a family event.

I have been a Satanist at heart for nearly 15 years and dedicated 11 years
ago.



I came quite close to opening up to her, excited by the opportunity to show
her the Universal Truth of Satan, but with a moment's careful consideration
decided against it in that forum.

This was because:

- of her relative immaturity for her age

- the proximity of her even-less-mature and younger siblings in the
room

- the proximity of some of the rest of my family, half of whom are
drama queens and the other half of whom are always out to better their
family standing at the expense of others.



I chose instead to respond to her with open comments and questions designed
to make her think even harder about her mish-mash of new age beliefs,
without coming across as judgemental.

I also promised her that we would talk at some other point "when we had lots
more time to have a full discussion" on the matter.

I will choose that time carefully.



I have also since then actively sought to influence her path in life by
doing small practical things like giving her travel vouchers as gifts,
instead of the usual clothing and jewellery one gives to that age bracket.

Travel will, and has now begun to open her mind and her eyes to the world,
and has thus advanced her maturity, bringing that discussion time closer.



I will continue to mentor her until I feel that my chances of having a
meaningful influence on her life by revealing to her the wonder of Father
Satan ... outweighs the likelihood of such revelations by me being wasted as
they become the next big attention-seeking announcement on her facebook
page.



It really doesn't bother me what the rest of my family do or think if they
learn of my beliefs.

They aren't particularly religious in any sincere sense of the word.

Those of them who do matter to me, matter to me because they would simply
accept the news and move on.

But if I'm going to spend the collateral of "outing myself" then I want to
have a good likelihood of a return on that investment.



Ask Satan for guidance on the conversation that you will eventually have
with your sister, and for help in planning it and choosing its timing.

He will answer, and because of that and your integrity, you will not fail.



Ave Satanas



Rezaal



From: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url] [mailto:[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]] On
Behalf Of Akhkharu Usemi
Sent: Friday, 06 August 2010 4:24 AM
To: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]
Subject: [JoS4adults] My life is coming together






I reaffirmed my vows to Satan the other night, in secret of course.



The next day my sister, who is 12 years old, opened up to me without me
saying that she really isn't Xian, but always has to say she is around mom,
dad and other people. I was shocked.



She already knew that Jesus was a lie, made up from stolen things. This
suprised me a bit as she never read the JOS site. I am hopeful, but still a
little cautious. I told her Father Satan protects people, but didn't say
anything else yet.



Is there any real concrete thing I can look out for to make sure she isn't
trying to lure me in a position where she can blab on me to what friends I
do have, as well as mom and dad? It feels a little weird to be on guard
around my little sis, but then again blind trust was never for me.

 

[starmithril]

Please be careful of what you tell younger siblings. It is very easy for them to tell your secrets to the family, when they want to get "even" with you in the future for some small thing that they believe you have 'wronged' them for. Also, family members are different around each other then they are around their friends. A trusting and loving relationship with younger or older siblings takes quite a while to build, and TRUST is hard to recover, once it is lost.

Myself, I am 28, and my older brother is 35. It is only in the past 10 years that we started to have a loving, healthy and trusting friendship. For the longest time, we just HATED each other.

There is something else to consider: even if your sister and you started to have a close relationship, there may come a time she may turn against your beliefs strongly. We cannot predict the future, and how people change in them. Only you can decide what you want to tell her.

I agree with a lot of Rezaal said.

Hail Satan!

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Rezaal" <rezaal@... wrote:

My advice would be to simply set an example to your sister which will set
you apart as a role model of strength and inspiration in her mind.

Develop your personal abilities as per the JoS site and always allow her to
feel she can talk to you about any topic.



When the time is right for her, she will ask questions about what you
believe in, and when the time is right FOR YOU BOTH then you will be able to
be open with her.

Although she already sounds very intelligent and mature, at twelve, she is
probably still a risk of "blabbing" and you are right to be cautious just
now.



Approximately 12 months ago I had the situation where one of my nieces, who
is now 18, started asking quite probing questions about my beliefs while we
were conversing at the edge of a family event.

I have been a Satanist at heart for nearly 15 years and dedicated 11 years
ago.



I came quite close to opening up to her, excited by the opportunity to show
her the Universal Truth of Satan, but with a moment's careful consideration
decided against it in that forum.

This was because:

- of her relative immaturity for her age

- the proximity of her even-less-mature and younger siblings in the
room

- the proximity of some of the rest of my family, half of whom are
drama queens and the other half of whom are always out to better their
family standing at the expense of others.



I chose instead to respond to her with open comments and questions designed
to make her think even harder about her mish-mash of new age beliefs,
without coming across as judgemental.

I also promised her that we would talk at some other point "when we had lots
more time to have a full discussion" on the matter.

I will choose that time carefully.



I have also since then actively sought to influence her path in life by
doing small practical things like giving her travel vouchers as gifts,
instead of the usual clothing and jewellery one gives to that age bracket.

Travel will, and has now begun to open her mind and her eyes to the world,
and has thus advanced her maturity, bringing that discussion time closer.



I will continue to mentor her until I feel that my chances of having a
meaningful influence on her life by revealing to her the wonder of Father
Satan ... outweighs the likelihood of such revelations by me being wasted as
they become the next big attention-seeking announcement on her facebook
page.



It really doesn't bother me what the rest of my family do or think if they
learn of my beliefs.

They aren't particularly religious in any sincere sense of the word.

Those of them who do matter to me, matter to me because they would simply
accept the news and move on.

But if I'm going to spend the collateral of "outing myself" then I want to
have a good likelihood of a return on that investment.



Ask Satan for guidance on the conversation that you will eventually have
with your sister, and for help in planning it and choosing its timing.

He will answer, and because of that and your integrity, you will not fail.



Ave Satanas



Rezaal



From: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url] [mailto:[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]] On
Behalf Of Akhkharu Usemi
Sent: Friday, 06 August 2010 4:24 AM
To: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]
Subject: [JoS4adults] My life is coming together






I reaffirmed my vows to Satan the other night, in secret of course.



The next day my sister, who is 12 years old, opened up to me without me
saying that she really isn't Xian, but always has to say she is around mom,
dad and other people. I was shocked.



She already knew that Jesus was a lie, made up from stolen things. This
suprised me a bit as she never read the JOS site. I am hopeful, but still a
little cautious. I told her Father Satan protects people, but didn't say
anything else yet.



Is there any real concrete thing I can look out for to make sure she isn't
trying to lure me in a position where she can blab on me to what friends I
do have, as well as mom and dad? It feels a little weird to be on guard
around my little sis, but then again blind trust was never for me.

 

[Allison P]

Exactly! Very well said.

On 8/5/10, chalchiuhnenetzin <jaguarcat2002@... wrote:
Excellent advice! Teaching by example is probably the most powerful and
lasting method of all. Everyone benefits.

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Rezaal" <rezaal@... wrote:

My advice would be to simply set an example to your sister which will set
you apart as a role model of strength and inspiration in her mind.

Develop your personal abilities as per the JoS site and always allow her
to
feel she can talk to you about any topic.



When the time is right for her, she will ask questions about what you
believe in, and when the time is right FOR YOU BOTH then you will be able
to
be open with her.

Although she already sounds very intelligent and mature, at twelve, she is
probably still a risk of "blabbing" and you are right to be cautious just
now.



Approximately 12 months ago I had the situation where one of my nieces,
who
is now 18, started asking quite probing questions about my beliefs while
we
were conversing at the edge of a family event.

I have been a Satanist at heart for nearly 15 years and dedicated 11 years
ago.



I came quite close to opening up to her, excited by the opportunity to
show
her the Universal Truth of Satan, but with a moment's careful
consideration
decided against it in that forum.

This was because:

- of her relative immaturity for her age

- the proximity of her even-less-mature and younger siblings in
the
room

- the proximity of some of the rest of my family, half of whom
are
drama queens and the other half of whom are always out to better their
family standing at the expense of others.



I chose instead to respond to her with open comments and questions
designed
to make her think even harder about her mish-mash of new age beliefs,
without coming across as judgemental.

I also promised her that we would talk at some other point "when we had
lots
more time to have a full discussion" on the matter.

I will choose that time carefully.



I have also since then actively sought to influence her path in life by
doing small practical things like giving her travel vouchers as gifts,
instead of the usual clothing and jewellery one gives to that age bracket.

Travel will, and has now begun to open her mind and her eyes to the world,
and has thus advanced her maturity, bringing that discussion time closer.



I will continue to mentor her until I feel that my chances of having a
meaningful influence on her life by revealing to her the wonder of Father
Satan ... outweighs the likelihood of such revelations by me being wasted
as
they become the next big attention-seeking announcement on her facebook
page.



It really doesn't bother me what the rest of my family do or think if they
learn of my beliefs.

They aren't particularly religious in any sincere sense of the word.

Those of them who do matter to me, matter to me because they would simply
accept the news and move on.

But if I'm going to spend the collateral of "outing myself" then I want to
have a good likelihood of a return on that investment.



Ask Satan for guidance on the conversation that you will eventually have
with your sister, and for help in planning it and choosing its timing.

He will answer, and because of that and your integrity, you will not fail.



Ave Satanas



Rezaal



From: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url] [mailto:[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]] On
Behalf Of Akhkharu Usemi
Sent: Friday, 06 August 2010 4:24 AM
To: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]
Subject: [JoS4adults] My life is coming together






I reaffirmed my vows to Satan the other night, in secret of course.



The next day my sister, who is 12 years old, opened up to me without me
saying that she really isn't Xian, but always has to say she is around
mom,
dad and other people. I was shocked.



She already knew that Jesus was a lie, made up from stolen things. This
suprised me a bit as she never read the JOS site. I am hopeful, but still
a
little cautious. I told her Father Satan protects people, but didn't say
anything else yet.



Is there any real concrete thing I can look out for to make sure she isn't
trying to lure me in a position where she can blab on me to what friends I
do have, as well as mom and dad? It feels a little weird to be on guard
around my little sis, but then again blind trust was never for me.

 

[maiandria]

I agree with starmithril's advice. In my family, the politics of betrayal is common and it's hard to trust family members with secrets and personal stuff. Stay guarded!

Hail Satan!
Maia

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "starmithril" <starmithril@... wrote:

Please be careful of what you tell younger siblings. It is very easy for them to tell your secrets to the family, when they want to get "even" with you in the future for some small thing that they believe you have 'wronged' them for. Also, family members are different around each other then they are around their friends. A trusting and loving relationship with younger or older siblings takes quite a while to build, and TRUST is hard to recover, once it is lost.

Myself, I am 28, and my older brother is 35. It is only in the past 10 years that we started to have a loving, healthy and trusting friendship. For the longest time, we just HATED each other.

There is something else to consider: even if your sister and you started to have a close relationship, there may come a time she may turn against your beliefs strongly. We cannot predict the future, and how people change in them. Only you can decide what you want to tell her.

I agree with a lot of Rezaal said.

Hail Satan!
--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Rezaal" <rezaal@ wrote:

My advice would be to simply set an example to your sister which will set
you apart as a role model of strength and inspiration in her mind.

Develop your personal abilities as per the JoS site and always allow her to
feel she can talk to you about any topic.



When the time is right for her, she will ask questions about what you
believe in, and when the time is right FOR YOU BOTH then you will be able to
be open with her.

Although she already sounds very intelligent and mature, at twelve, she is
probably still a risk of "blabbing" and you are right to be cautious just
now.



Approximately 12 months ago I had the situation where one of my nieces, who
is now 18, started asking quite probing questions about my beliefs while we
were conversing at the edge of a family event.

I have been a Satanist at heart for nearly 15 years and dedicated 11 years
ago.



I came quite close to opening up to her, excited by the opportunity to show
her the Universal Truth of Satan, but with a moment's careful consideration
decided against it in that forum.

This was because:

- of her relative immaturity for her age

- the proximity of her even-less-mature and younger siblings in the
room

- the proximity of some of the rest of my family, half of whom are
drama queens and the other half of whom are always out to better their
family standing at the expense of others.



I chose instead to respond to her with open comments and questions designed
to make her think even harder about her mish-mash of new age beliefs,
without coming across as judgemental.

I also promised her that we would talk at some other point "when we had lots
more time to have a full discussion" on the matter.

I will choose that time carefully.



I have also since then actively sought to influence her path in life by
doing small practical things like giving her travel vouchers as gifts,
instead of the usual clothing and jewellery one gives to that age bracket.

Travel will, and has now begun to open her mind and her eyes to the world,
and has thus advanced her maturity, bringing that discussion time closer.



I will continue to mentor her until I feel that my chances of having a
meaningful influence on her life by revealing to her the wonder of Father
Satan ... outweighs the likelihood of such revelations by me being wasted as
they become the next big attention-seeking announcement on her facebook
page.



It really doesn't bother me what the rest of my family do or think if they
learn of my beliefs.

They aren't particularly religious in any sincere sense of the word.

Those of them who do matter to me, matter to me because they would simply
accept the news and move on.

But if I'm going to spend the collateral of "outing myself" then I want to
have a good likelihood of a return on that investment.



Ask Satan for guidance on the conversation that you will eventually have
with your sister, and for help in planning it and choosing its timing.

He will answer, and because of that and your integrity, you will not fail.



Ave Satanas



Rezaal



From: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url] [mailto:[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]] On
Behalf Of Akhkharu Usemi
Sent: Friday, 06 August 2010 4:24 AM
To: [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]
Subject: [JoS4adults] My life is coming together






I reaffirmed my vows to Satan the other night, in secret of course.



The next day my sister, who is 12 years old, opened up to me without me
saying that she really isn't Xian, but always has to say she is around mom,
dad and other people. I was shocked.



She already knew that Jesus was a lie, made up from stolen things. This
suprised me a bit as she never read the JOS site. I am hopeful, but still a
little cautious. I told her Father Satan protects people, but didn't say
anything else yet.



Is there any real concrete thing I can look out for to make sure she isn't
trying to lure me in a position where she can blab on me to what friends I
do have, as well as mom and dad? It feels a little weird to be on guard
around my little sis, but then again blind trust was never for me.