Long Term Relationships

[Heavenraiser]

My girlfriend just broke up with me and we've beening dating for about 4 weeks. I'm pissed about it 'cause she promised me a long term commitment and I really liked her. I'm tired of these stupid childish flings. I might be only 18 but I want every relationship I'm in to at least last a few years. Is there a Satanic way to ensure all the girls I date ( and hopefully marry) for now on will actually try to be committed and put effort into maintaining the relationship?

 

[Gerald Sylva]

I forget the precept's origin, but it is nonetheless true colloquially as well as literally - "Never love something (i.e. a relationship) so much that you cannot bear to see it die". Also remember, love everyone and trust no one. It is quite likely that the thing about her which caused her to turn away from her commitment to you is nothing more than fate. She cannot deliver what she never owned, as it were, and doubtful that she is just trying to "push your buttons", unless there's anything else you've not disclosed. First, start with a genuine Satanic girl. Not evil, but even-keeled. There is only trouble if you as a Satanist attempt joining with anyone who is not, whether they know they are or not. It hurts because it's supposed to. That's how you know you had some real feelings there, whatever you may call them. It means you're alive and have a heart. Draw strength from being wounded by letting it heal, and you will not believe your increased power as a result. Talk with Father. He knows this is happening to you.

From: Heavenraiser <mayeshakpah@...
To: [email protected]
Sent: Mon, April 5, 2010 11:00:04 AM
Subject: [Satanicgaycommunity] Long Term Relationships

  My girlfriend just broke up with me and we've beening dating for about 4 weeks. I'm pissed about it 'cause she promised me a long term commitment and I really liked her. I'm tired of these stupid childish flings. I might be only 18 but I want every relationship I'm in to at least last a few years. Is there a Satanic way to ensure all the girls I date ( and hopefully marry) for now on will actually try to be committed and put effort into maintaining the relationship?

 

[Brolyn H]

<td val[/IMG]     Im 25 and havehad kinda similar situations with the guys I dated. A couple of months ago, when I would pray to Father I asked that it be left in His hands and judgement. I figured who better to know than Father. Every guy I come across since then tends to show little traces or signs; yellow/red flags so to speak. Some guys will talk about relationships but then they will focus the conversation on sex, their eyes will wonder to someone else while we're on a date, etc. In some cases I'll manipulate the conversation just enough to observe verbal or physical reactions. Sadly they all seem to fail but I'm happy knowing I didn't get caught up/get hurt instead. It's not always that simple but when I can't tell for sure take a moment and think about Father and ask myself. I usually get a maybe or no/ "you can but it's not what your looking for.not going to last the way you want it" kind of feeling.
Dunno if that helped any but it's been working for me so far. 
Sude EnkiBlessed are the Gods of old and All that follow Father
Brolyn

--- On Mon, 4/5/10, Heavenraiser <mayeshakpah@... wrote:

From: Heavenraiser <mayeshakpah@...
Subject: [Satanicgaycommunity] Long Term Relationships
To: [email protected]
Date: Monday, April 5, 2010, 12:00 PM

  My girlfriend just broke up with me and we've beening dating for about 4 weeks. I'm pissed about it 'cause she promised me a long term commitment and I really liked her. I'm tired of these stupid childish flings. I might be only 18 but I want every relationship I'm in to at least last a few years. Is there a Satanic way to ensure all the girls I date ( and hopefully marry) for now on will actually try to be committed and put effort into maintaining the relationship?

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