Hello Honey,
I remember you made another post about this but I guess it was lost along with the reply I made while the forums were down so I'm writing this again.
Answers here do not mean that you should forget about Mother Lilith. This question was in your other, lost post. What you need to do is to understand that appearing or not appearing to you is in her discretion. When she wishes to do so, she does. Not when you wish it.
You can pray, always. As long as you are not behaving as if you are entitled to their presence and help.
My
opinions on what can be done to be in Goddess Lilith's good graces: In the explanation of
ToZ Animal Care, it is stated that Lilith is the Patron Goddess for this group. She asked that this group be opened. Lilith loves animals and is very strong in support for ethical treatment of animals and for animal rights. You can be active and present in this group. Mother Lilith stands for the liberation of women, so if you are in a situation to do this, you can promote her cause, for example women who are forced to wear hijab in Iran. It really depends on whether you have an emphasis on humanitarian agendas and collective organizations in your natal chart. Finally, traditionally Mother Lilith helped during childbirth. Be extra kind to pregnant women, more so if you are a doctor of medicine, nurse, or health practitioner. Just a few opinions.