Hello brothers and sisters.
I’m sure any of you might’ve seen my previous vents and struggles with patience and consistency.
I’ve worked on this and have improved, I still have some way to go, but I think I figured it out for the most part.
I’ll write this as to help anyone who might’ve been in my place.
Why do we struggle with patience?
Two words, fear and doubt.
It’s not necessarily that you want the thing instantly, it’s that you fear you won’t get it. This fear is born out of self-doubt. Because you fear so much you feel you need it now or you won’t get it.
So you end up with this pattern, doing too much for a short period, then fear and doubt creep in and you sabotage, you quit, you procrastinate.
The real reason you have fear and doubt is because you haven’t worked on your identity.
How do you see yourself?
Are you someone who is spiritually advanced, wise, consistent, and patient?
Are you someone who is wealthy, abundant, and prosperous?
Reality eventually catches up or down to your identity.
Even if you’re dead broke but you identify as a rich person, you’ll end up rich someway or another.
If you are consistent with meditations (for now) but you identify as a procrastinator, as someone who quits, who has bursts of motivation, you’ll eventually give up or sabotage your efforts.
Some ways you can treat this is:
Identity-work, Zevic hypnosis, workings.
But most importantly you have to take the conscious decision that you are the person you want to become, believe it and see it vividly. Doing this alone can even be enough without workings.
Also what I’ve learned from life recently now that I’ve graduated university last month, and that I’m getting older, and thar that the last 6 years has gone by rapidly is:
The time will pass anyway.
We often think, oh wow it might take me 10 years to become a multi-millionaire, hell no might as well just live my life right now.
Or it might take me 3 years to get into perfect shape and stay there.
But the secret of the universe is that the time passes anyway. If you do or don’t do the things you should be doing.
We’ve all seen post-covid the years just breezed by. 6 years have passed since 2020. Me and my Gen Z generation feel like 2021 was yesterday. People who could’ve started something back then would be millionaires by now. You can do a lot in 6 years.
Another secret is:
The Law of Harvest.
Life and nature consists of seasons of sowing and harvest.
Your harvest maybe abundant, full of sweet fruit, flowers, trees and a whole garden.
But would that happen if you stopped watering your plants midway? Would that happen if you kept judging the seeds while it’s still building roots, or worse kept plucking it from the soil asking why it’s not working.
The Law of Exponentiality
Growth is not linear, it’s exponential. If you find yourself have been working on your business or meditating for months with no results, be happy about it. These are the seeds taking root. Suddenly, the seeds burst and growth happens when you least expect it and after some time of “no results”.
When we eat a chicken salad instead of a pizza we expect to get in shape or at least lose weight, but in fact you might see no results on the scale or even more weight! Which is this law at work.
Get no results long enough, and you’ll get what you dream of soon enough.
Hope this helped anyone. Thank you for reading brothers and sisters. ^^