hailourtruegod said:
Dude.... no.... I really hope you never actually do that or you'll get in trouble if not by the woman herself or your supervisor/boss. This isn't a bad romantic cringey movie but real life. Thibgs like that most of the time don't work at all and end up being in a bad situation or the very least the woman being put off by you.
SS AmonRa, why not ask her out to eat? Or something else outside of work. See how she acts with you when it's just you two hanging out instead with your co-workers around. Even being outside doing something together is a one on one experience.
Best of luck to you.
I do. And it does work. Im not telling him to do it on his work time lol. Thats basic social intelligence not to do something like that. Its supposed to be done on a date or outside of the workplace at least.I honestly don't think a kiss is some sort of big deal. I mean if you're close with someone and she's close with you, I mean why not ? Or is some kind of 7 dates before I get to touch you thing people have. Its probably just me. I should try acting more like a pussy right, "Ummm....Do you want to kiss me,madame ?".
This actually happened to me on my first date. Which doesn't end up like chick flick romantic story. Its ends like in real life.There was this girl I liked back in early high school. Three months of talking and hanging out,I finally had the courage to ask her out on a date. So on our annual function, after school I took her to a park and then to a restaurant to get something to eat. The whole time we were just hitting it off. She was laughing and giggling and clinging to me all the way. We hanged out for three months and yet I just didn't know what to do next. And while we we're walking along I asked this girl out of the blue, " Do you like me ?". And she said "Yeah". And she said that while smiling and looking at my eyes expecting something. I couldn't read the situation then and I just hadn't been in similar situations before so I didn't know what to do. I thought it was too soon and I'd blown it by being too forward. At the restaurant she pouted all the time and was acting aloof while replying to me. I counted two more instances where she clinged to me and just looked at me like she wanted something. I was just scared shitless and didn't know what to do when she did that, and then after the date one day when I asked her while we were hanging out," Do you really like me. ?". And she said ,"Ummm yeah.... I like you as a friend though. " And that's it. Real life chick flick redux gone wrong. Tons of money wasted while hanging out, taking her places,buying her things and conveying my gentleman personality only to hear the "Let's just be friends speech" . I didn't blame her though, I knew it was me who'd blown it. I had countless opportunities to do something, yet I'd been a pussy. After two months , I found another girl. Who actually chatted me up on Facebook first. Also from my school. She mentioned she'd seen me with the other girl and wanted to just "hang out". And i started associating with her group too which had some girls and no guys.This was while I was doing a Venus square for love. Then after two weeks I asked her out and again I took her to the same park and the same restaurant. This girl was attractive but not as much as the earlier one. But I loved her personality. She was fun and intelligent.She wasn't as demanding as the earlier girl that had me buying her things. While we were walking ,approaching her house where I was supposed to drop her and return to my lovless existence.She clinged to my arm for the first time opposed to the first girl who did it all the time. I don't know why girls do that. Probably because I'm tall. I looked at her and she looked at me and a very weird thing happened. It was sort of those moments where you just went by the flow. I leaned in and kissed her. She didn't hesitate and push me off or anything. It was she who tongued me (which I'd never done before). As I realized what I'd done, I was scared I'd gone too far and probably was about to get slapped. It would be extra embarrassing as we were standing on the side of the road right near her house. It would have been a public embarrassment. And then just that. Nothing. She just said "Bye" ,smiling and went inside. She didn't avoid me or "Let's just be friends" me. She continued to be my girlfriend. Which was nice and i had a crazy many stories with her. It was here where I realized things just happened. If you think about what to do next and all those things, it won't always go as you planned. You have to go With the flow.
