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Healing the Emotional Body (for men too, don’t disregard this)

AvatarHigh Priestess Lydia Coventina5 min to read

You have your physical body, soul, astral body, mental body, and more. The Emotional Body is the part of the soul that can be damaged when you experience emotional trauma, grief, bereavement, abandonment, and so on.

Many people have emotional outbursts, immature reactions, trigger episodes, frustration, and juvenile attention-seeking behavior. Much of this comes from various deprivation of basic emotional needs. Being emotionally weak, as sadly many people in the world are today, can cause overall weakness of character, but can also cause mayhem to one’s personal life.

If you disregard your emotional well-being, you will suffer. And to men, I don’t mean suffering in a “manly what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” sort of way. A lot of weakness in certain types of men come from emotional problems.

To both genders, if you are not emotionally strong and healthy, you will have a difficult time maintaining a stable relationship and friendships, and raising children. You will also have a difficult time achieving goals in life and career, and finding happiness and contentment in general.

Heal and strengthen yourself emotionally, and you will be taking a large step forward in becoming a more actualized human on the way to Godhood.

Important, especially for men: this working is quite Lunar. You might want to compensate by ensuring you do physical activity or something else Solar or Martial in your day for the duration of this working.

When doing this working, there may be a period of time when you feel like your heart is breaking like a loved one has died, or perhaps feelings of abandonment will crop up. If this happens, you can:
-vibrate the mantra Sananda (Sanskrit for “Joy”)
-do extra cleaning
-meditate on the feeling to try to determine what caused it
-tough it out

Begin: Any day when the Moon is Waxing or Full, and in Cancer or Pisces; preferable a Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday. Download our Zevist Calendar of your location to find these dates. Monday September 16 is the soonest date, or October 14, or any following month that works better for you.

If possible, try to direct it to your Emotional Body; if you can’t, then just will it (use your intention) and know that the energy is going where it needs to. Before you begin, tune in to yourself, and tell yourself that the energy is healing your emotional body; and then begin.

Color: To use when breathing in energy and/or while stating the affirmation. Blue, light blue or sky blue. Gold is fine, or white-gold if you’re not yet competent with colors.

Mantra: Shrim, pronounced SH-RR-EE-MM. If you can’t roll the R’s that’s fine, just make the sound normally, but you can find videos on youtube to learn how to roll them, it won’t take long to learn. The SH is like the word "shush".

Repetitions: If you’re less experienced, 18. Otherwise 50, or 80, or 100.

Duration: You can try a small cycle to see how that works for you, such as 7 days. Otherwise go for 40 or 50 days, and then determine if you feel like you’d benefit from doing 100 or more days. You can do multiple cycles over the course of however long you need.

Affirmation: Keep it too the point, not too complicated. Something like “My emotional body is healing in every way. I am emotionally healthy in every way, now and forever.” State this 5x while imagining yourself engulfed in blue light (or gold, or white-gold).

Optional: Crystals help to attune energy, and attune you to the working you are doing. There are other crystals than the ones listed below, but these ones are very effective and fairly easy to obtain.
-Celestite is perfect for this working, but can be quite expensive
-Moonstone is another great option, but for those who have a prominent Neptune or Moon, it can be aggravated after a period of time (increased lack of focus and daydreaming)
-Amethyst is good if you have a lot of anger
-Opal (common opal is fine, not the expensive iridescent gems unless you happen to have one)
-Selenite
-Rose Quartz is a great choice if you’ve been abandoned or experienced grief, weren’t loved by your parents, or experienced problems from love; this crystal is very affordable and abundant

For men, you can get Sunstone and just hold that crystal at other times in your day for balance. Sunstone increases masculinity in men (it does not have this effect in women). For both genders, you can use this crystals at other times in your day through this working, as it will impart cheerfulness and a positive attitude, and offset gloominess and depression.

Additional things to keep in mind: Don’t bottle things inside or repress your feelings. If you have a problem, find someone you can talk about it with, like a parent or good friend. Some people benefit massively from a therapist. If you have none of these options, then start a journal and work through everything yourself.

There are toxic people in the world. Don’t let them affect you, you deserve better. You can use magick to prevent these people from being around you, and you can use magick to get better people into your life.

Find a hobby that makes you happy. Exercise, let off steam. Remember to keep strong boundaries. Build self-discipline so you don’t go in the opposite direction: from stifling emotions, to blubbering in front of everyone you meet (lol).

Become the best version of yourself, in every way :)

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#101

You have your physical body, soul, astral body, mental body, and more. The Emotional Body is the part of the soul that can be damaged when you experience emotional trauma, grief, bereavement, abandonment, and so on.

Many people have emotional outbursts, immature reactions, trigger episodes, frustration, and juvenile attention-seeking behavior. Much of this comes from various deprivation of basic emotional needs. Being emotionally weak, as sadly many people in the world are today, can cause overall weakness of character, but can also cause mayhem to one’s personal life.

If you disregard your emotional well-being, you will suffer. And to men, I don’t mean suffering in a “manly what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” sort of way. A lot of weakness in certain types of men come from emotional problems.

Thank you for this sermon HP Lydia !

#102

can I do aop with celestite?

Clear quartz is the best crystal for AoP. It also strengthens and expands your aura as you hold it, and fills in holes, making the AoP even stronger.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#103

Clear quartz is the best crystal for AoP. It also strengthens and expands your aura as you hold it, and fills in holes, making the AoP even stronger.

thanks for your reply. where can i learn more about the properties of crystals/stones?

#104

thanks for your reply. where can i learn more about the properties of crystals/stones?

There will be information in the ToZ in the near future. In the meantime, you can get a copy of Judy Hall's Crystal Bible online. It has a lot of new age in it, read it critically.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#105

can i use affirmations like "i am completely healthy in every way" without reference to the emotional body?

#106

You have your physical body, soul, astral body, mental body, and more. The Emotional Body is the part of the soul that can be damaged when you experience emotional trauma, grief, bereavement, abandonment, and so on.

Many people have emotional outbursts, immature reactions, trigger episodes, frustration, and juvenile attention-seeking behavior. Much of this comes from various deprivation of basic emotional needs. Being emotionally weak, as sadly many people in the world are today, can cause overall weakness of character, but can also cause mayhem to one’s personal life.

If you disregard your emotional well-being, you will suffer. And to men, I don’t mean suffering in a “manly what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” sort of way. A lot of weakness in certain types of men come from emotional problems.

This is something that almost everyone has a problem with, thank you from the bottom of my heart, it helped me a lot. May the gods bless you.

#107

can i use affirmations like "i am completely healthy in every way" without reference to the emotional body?

Yes you can, for other mantras too. If you use it with Shrim mantra, it can help with the digestive system and other areas ruled by the Moon. It's a good idea to do generalized health workings, especially if you feel the inclination to do so :)

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#108

can i start this work when there is a waxing crescent moon and the moon is in cancer?

#109

can i start this work when there is a waxing crescent moon and the moon is in cancer?

ok i'm confused can anyone suggest the nearest good start time for this workings in est time

#110

ok i'm confused can anyone suggest the nearest good start time for this workings in est time

Yes, you can begin it now that Moon is in Cancer, thank you for mentioning this. Check the planetary hours, you can find these on our Astrology website or on AstroChronos, fill in the form and aim to begin the working when it is hour of Moon, Venus, or Jupiter; Sun or Mercury is also fine.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#111

Today is my first day doing this workings and I'm already experiencing a lot of traumatic flashbacks throughout the day. Is this how it should be? I also use celestite.

#112

Today is my first day doing this workings and I'm already experiencing a lot of traumatic flashbacks throughout the day. Is this how it should be? I also use celestite.

Seems normal to me.
Don't forget to start building positivity daily using Sananda.

#113
This is the targeted message.

Today is my first day doing this workings and I'm already experiencing a lot of traumatic flashbacks throughout the day. Is this how it should be? I also use celestite.

Keep it up, this will pass. I was feeling heartbroken like a loved one just died, for a few days after I began. I was re-experiencing the grief I had suffered years ago, and then I felt healed after.

Very nice that you have celestite :)

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#114

It's been now 11 days since I finished the 100 day working. There is something more I considered worthy of mentioning.
This working in it's final stages brought up emotions I had repressed and buried a long time ago. These deep emotions were caused by getting emotionally hurt as an adult by people very close to me. Later, attempts to express these were blocked. The real cause of such repeated patterns was in the childhood.
During the last days of the working I finally found myself in a situation where I had to share these with the person(s) involved. This may sound frightening at first but the outcome was a very positive one.

It seems to me, that this working has succesfully removed all of it, enabling me to be free. I feel substantially more relaxed plus my mood is stable and positive. I used to experience anxiety for no apparent reason. This is now history.

I also want to recommend to all Zevists considering the working to be religious about Cleaning and Protection. Supporting your mood with Sananda is of equal importance. Also, do not forget to do Yoga.

Thank you so much dear HPS!

#115

Today is my first day doing this workings and I'm already experiencing a lot of traumatic flashbacks throughout the day. Is this how it should be? I also use celestite.

Hello,
I think it’s normal that you see and feel certain things.
I am currently doing a 40-day job (about half way). From the beginning, I felt a lot of "negative" emotions and especially anger.
I tried to understand and know where all these emotions come from. Many go back to my childhood experience but also to the injustice experienced as an adult. These were emotions that I had repressed and that emerge. But I already feel a great release and I feel much better even if there is still much work to be done.

Continue your work, and courage to you!

#116

hello. i am on day 32 and i felt really bad 2 days ago and still do. i cried a lot. is this a positive reaction overall or a problem? thanks

#117

hello. i am on day 32 and i felt really bad 2 days ago and still do. i cried a lot. is this a positive reaction overall or a problem? thanks

Make sure you're keeping up with your cleaning and AoP. It might be unrelated.

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#118

Make sure you're keeping up with your cleaning and AoP. It I do. By the way, what would you advise in my situation? I have deeply traumatized my soul and I especially suffer because of relationships. I can’t overcome myself and make the first move for a girl, but when a girl makes the first move, I become obsessed with her. Despite the fact that girls often hinted to me, I am still alone and a virgin. I am convinced that the problem is not in my appearance but in my mental health. What could you advise?

I do. By the way, what would you advise in my situation? I have deeply traumatized my soul and I especially suffer because of relationships. I can’t overcome myself and make the first move for a girl, but when a girl makes the first move, I become obsessed with her. Despite the fact that girls often hinted to me, I am still alone and a virgin. I am convinced that the problem is not in my appearance but in my mental health or karma. What could you advise?

#119

I do. By the way, what would you advise in my situation? I have deeply traumatized my soul and I especially suffer because of relationships. I can’t overcome myself and make the first move for a girl, but when a girl makes the first move, I become obsessed with her. Despite the fact that girls often hinted to me, I am still alone and a virgin. I am convinced that the problem is not in my appearance but in my mental health or karma. What could you advise?

It sounds like a mental block. If a woman shows she is interested in you, then you need to act on the opportunity.

You can do a freeing the soul working if this is karmic, but you also need to understand that mental blocks can EASILY and quickly be overcome by firmly putting it aside and changing from being stagnant and self-restraining, to on a trajectory forwards towards your goal. Many massive changes happen in people's lives when they overcome mental blocks, which is far easier than they think. A lot of people suffer from "paralysis by over-analysis".

Liturgical Terms of Zevism (everyone please read and familiarize yourself with these)

#120

It sounds like a mental block. If a woman shows she is interested in you, then you need to act on the opportunity.

You can do a freeing the soul working if this is karmic, but you also need to understand that mental blocks can EASILY and quickly be overcome by firmly putting it aside and changing from being stagnant and self-restraining, to on a trajectory forwards towards your goal. Many massive changes happen in people's lives when they overcome mental blocks, which is far easier than they think. A lot of people suffer from "paralysis by over-analysis".

What kind of work would you recommend to overcome mental blocks?