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[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Hasani" <hasani_baron@... wrote:
Hello.
I hope this is not a stupid question. How does satan view corporal punishment on children? In the Christian view, they promote spanking children. What are the views?
Personally,i never got spanked.
People that tell you that children become bad/spoiled when you don't spank/abuse them, are either Xians,or are just mentally insane,or they are just not good parents.They are Surely unbalanced.
My parents never ever ever slapped me.They were good enough (even if they were xians) to explain everything,answer my questions and give me some things that i have imprinted in myself.They were good enough to make me respect them verbally.
No to mention that they couldn't plant a fucking hand on me,because after 12 i was about 6'0 and could smash them up ! Hahahaha just kidding.
Spanking children is very bad for the confidence of the child,because when you spank/abuse children , it does hurt their confidence,self esteem,and their relationship with you.Abusing a child=A fearful child.
But the worst thing is,that when you spank a child,is that the little fella is going to blame his/her self,and feel guilty or even hate themselves,because they think that they are the reason of your anger towards them.
So,at a very sensitive age,you imprint self-hate.
Children often do "Bad" (for our statuses) things because of curiosity.They want to learn.They strive to learn!They want to experiance.
So,when you spank/abuse a kid because of His Curiosity and need to exeriance and explore,you destroy this need and replace it with hate,fear and other negativities.
When you spank a child,its gets bad,disrespectfull,and overally,NEGATIVE towards itself,and you.Me,as a child didn't do bad things,not because i feared punishment,but because i have been taught that its not going to get me anywhere.
Be sure to let your child be FREE.Let Him explore,find and advance,and be His guide,not His TYRANT.
This is where the good parent differs from the bad one.
The abusive parent,because he ain't got Patience to explain things,will just spank his kid when he does "unacceptable" things
(Thats jehova,he likes us to be his pets).
That creates an equation in the mind of the child like
I do this = Spank = Pain .
So,i won't do this because it ends up painful.
You make the child think like a dog.
The good parent,has good patience and love for his child.And he does CARE for him to LEARN! No to be trained no to do this,and do that,like a fucking pet!
(Like Satan teaches us,His children)
So,The good parent,eplains why its bad,for instance,
getting your finger on the naked cable = electroshok = pain.
Its all about intentions.Children KNOW YOU INTENTIONS.
So,one parent does not want his kid to fall of a ladder,just because he will have to take it to the hospital,and that would make him lose Oprah,a child knows and acts acoordingly.
On an unconsious level,it wants to fall of the ladder,just to get revenge to its parent.
But the other parent,does not want his kid to fall of a ladder,because it might get injured.And the parent is doing what it takes to prevent it,just because he wants his child to be healthy and good overall.The child knows that and acts accordingly,respecting and loving His Father.
Children understand this difference.
So,the conclusion :
Act as Satan.He loves us,and guides us.He's always there to answer and Help,but He does not act like a tyrant and he is not in any way controlling.He lets us explore and know anything.He's the best figure for you to mimic when it comes to parenting!Just look at your relationship with Satan/Demons.Thats how it should be for you and your child.
Hope this clears it up.
Note: I am not a parent.Not even close to it.But thats my take on the subject.
HAIL SATAN!
HAIL TO ANY DEMON AND SOUL UNDER THE WING OF SATAN!