Relationships attached to me, but stuck with her - please help

[Deshasya Shasakah]

How can I make a person finally open up about their feelings for me instead of hiding behind ‘attachment’?

He needs calm, safety, and no pressure from me… and he also has a partner he doesn’t feel anything for - that’s what he told me himself - but he’s afraid to break up because he thinks he’ll ‘miss’ her. It seems to me that she’s convenient for him because he’s afraid of society’s judgment - that’s how I feel.

 

[Kaemythra]

First, he won't break up with her.
Second, if someone says, "I won't break up with my girlfriend because I'll miss her," that's not someone that "don't feel anything" and is definitely not someone who is in a position of convenience.
I've seen many people living in pure convenience, and I can tell you, it's not like that, even if it seems that way.
" He needs calm, safety and NO PRESSURE from me" you're simply being used and you're making excuses for it.
Look for someone who chooses you, who wants you by their side, and who commits to you. Good luck to you!

 

[CharlesBenetton]

How can I make a person finally open up about their feelings for me instead of hiding behind ‘attachment’?

He needs calm, safety, and no pressure from me… and he also has a partner he doesn’t feel anything for - that’s what he told me himself - but he’s afraid to break up because he thinks he’ll ‘miss’ her. It seems to me that she’s convenient for him because he’s afraid of society’s judgment - that’s how I feel.

Let it happen. No one is going to die from missing someone. Emotions are not scary things.

 

[High Priestess Lydia]

A lot of men who cheat say that, it's usually a lie. Saying they feel nothing for her, but they really do. Saying they need calm, safety, and no pressure from you, means they want no drama while they carry on with 2 women.

I would have a hard time taking him seriously, because it's what so many men who cheat say. It's the exact same lines. It's like they all have a handbook of what to say to their mistress and they repeat it word-for-word. I've known people who watched tv and overheard the exact same lines being repeated by the cheating husband to his mistress. There's not even any originality.

But if you are certain he is the one for you, and his other relationship isn't making him fulfilled, then you can do magick for this.