Relationships #79543 Is "cuddling" still race-mixing?

[Ask Satya Operator]

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

 

[Ironskull]

I was like you but I free my life from desire of girls just by meditating to reach Nirvana and block every desire of love from another person…

 

[AFODO]

I was like you but I free my life from desire of girls just by meditating to reach Nirvana and block every desire of love from another person…

That's not good except if you are 70+ years old and have already completed these parts of life.

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

I don't think it's bad to have friends from other races but have some more moderation towards them. If you get more open spiritually you'll feel what's good and what's not, but a lot of negative karma in the given area can blind you as well.

 

[Yurei]

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

No, it doesn't count as race mixing.
But think about it; if you are in such close proximity to someone of the opposite sex, in such an intimate and compromising position, who's to say there won't be kissing next? And then that can escalate to full blown making out. And before you know it you are engaging in race mixing.

 

[Khem Nefermed]

The material issue of race mixing is not even the sex itself, it is having children that will no longer be either of the participating races, will struggle to reincarnate due to their genetics, and you yourself might struggle to reincarnate if enough people make that decision and your race happens to dwindle.
So, if we would only look at material issues, even sex itself would be okay, as long as the normal precautions against STIs/STDs etc. are taken.

THAT BEING SAID, there are spiritual consequences to having sex with someone you're not "supposed to", like another race or a very close relative. Effects on the Sacral Chakra, which will then take work to fix, work you wouldn't have had to do in the first place had you not made the mistake.

Those consequences still exist, spiritually, even with something as mundane as cuddling, kissing, whatever. Less so, I assume, but still there.

Not to mention the mental effects, which might involve guilt and so on.

Unless you are yourself an immigrant, I don't see why you'd struggle to find cuddle buddies of your own race. As for variety, there's plenty enough variety to go around within your own race, especially if you're white.

 

[Acolyte Of Pan 666]

I think you’re severely sexually repressed.

This may offend some people but I don’t think there any humans out there who are genuinely “asexual” or who be okay their whole life if thet never had sex. It’s like people who say they don’t enjoy food or music because they’re “above” others or something. No you just justified your repression as a “good” thing somehow as a coping mechanism.

The only exceptions imo are those with severe genital and/or mental issues.

So you’re not interested in sex at all but are begging to be cuddled? Right… I don’t buy it.

It also seems you have a mentality where you think you don’t deserve sex or a relationship. This is nonsense. You can do magickal workings and hypnosis to remove all these negative, repressice states instead of justifying them.

You don’t need to “work” on anything to get into a relationship. There are murderers, rapists, and all kinds of filth in relationships right now, but somehow fate has decided you specifically don’t deserve a relationship? This perfectionism is poisonous to the psyche and should be removed.

 

[Vicky<3]

LMAO, this was a good laugh. Thanks.

 

[Khem Nefermed]

LMAO, this was a good laugh. Thanks.

What exactly was funny? I'd love a good laugh too.

 

[Vicky<3]

What exactly was funny? I'd love a good laugh too.

What was funny?

The mental gymnastics this guy did here, obviously. And the intellectual fumble it resulted in. Sort of like someone trying to do an advanced maneuver only to preform it clumsily and result in immediate disqualification.

His perception of this, and likely reality is very distorted. How can race mixing = cuddling even be conceptualized by a sane person?

Additionally, the "I'll perfect myself before entering a relationship" thing is also delusional, he'll never be perfect enough and therefore will never break out of this self inflicted sexual repression unless he relives the complex . It's cliche even for an incel.

So yes, it's funny. He'll come up with every excuse imaginable not to have intimate relations, to the point he'll even question whether cuddling is ethically agreeable.

 

[Khem Nefermed]

How can race mixing = cuddling even be conceptualized by a sane person?

I conceptualized it above, and I'm fairly sane last I checked.

Additionally, the "I'll perfect myself before entering a relationship" thing is also delusional, he'll never be perfect enough and therefore will never break out of this self inflicted sexual repression unless he relives the complex .

I agree with this, putting aside the unnecessary insults towards a guy that is clearly struggling with something many people out there struggle with.


That aside. Race mixing = only making babies is the material aspect of it. We also believe in spirituality.
The spiritual consequences of race mixing aren't determined by whether the dick goes in the pussy. They are based on the emotional investment into the relationship. You shouldn't invest sexual energies or romantic feelings into someone of another race.

Is any past race-mixed cuddling one did that damaging? Probably not gravely so.
Should they stop? Yes. Invest energies into something more productive that can actually go somewhere.
Was he likely just using the race-mixing thing as an excuse not to move towards a romantic goal, and is it a manifestation of his "sexual repression" as you put it? Perhaps. But the point about race mixing has to still be made, for others who read this thread.

 

[Vicky<3]

I conceptualized it above, and I'm fairly sane last I checked.



I agree with this, putting aside the unnecessary insults towards a guy that is clearly struggling with something many people out there struggle with.


That aside. Race mixing = only making babies is the material aspect of it. We also believe in spirituality.
The spiritual consequences of race mixing aren't determined by whether the dick goes in the pussy. They are based on the emotional investment into the relationship. You shouldn't invest sexual energies or romantic feelings into someone of another race.

Is any past race-mixed cuddling one did that damaging? Probably not gravely so.
Should they stop? Yes. Invest energies into something more productive that can actually go somewhere.
Was he likely just using the race-mixing thing as an excuse not to move towards a romantic goal, and is it a manifestation of his "sexual repression" as you put it? Perhaps. But the point about race mixing has to still be made, for others who read this thread.

I didn't intend to say all of this out loud, I just wanted to let you in on the joke.

I'm blunt with people in the hope that others are blunt with me in return. This guy can spend a decade solving a problem that doesn't exist, and end up achieving nothing of substance while holding the burdened assumption of being "broken" and unworthy of self fulfillment. I've personally wasted enough time doing this myself.

Are these insults unnecessary? That's debatable. I would argue that insults are only insulting if they're true. If you framed me in a way that wasn't true, I'd just laugh it off most likely. If he ever reads what I wrote here, he won't be laughing because he'll be too busy crying that their feelings hurt. If someone stabbed you with a fake knife, it probably wouldn't hurt much the same way. It hurts because some hit a nerve, corresponding to an actual internal problem.

I truly wish people would treat me in the same way, but we're all too busy being "polite" and indirect about things.

 

[The Alchemist7 [SG]]

People need to completely stop normalizing race-mixing as something acceptable or common. We only consider it common because we see it around us but it does not mean that it is healthy or normal. All of the existing evidence clearly shows race-mixing destroys civilizations, degenerates societies and totally lowers and removes any sort of progress and advancement. There was never a single country or nation or empire in this world with "multiracial" populations that ever progressed in anyway or stood the test of time. This is not how nature works, but this is the opposite of nature, I have written extensively about this in the Race Truth website.

There are talks above about spiritual implications of race-mixing but if you get to the point of marrying someone from another race or having children with them, you are already way past the point where any spiritual implications actually mattered.

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

Hello. I would propose starting workings to attract a partner of your own race. If may be rare but certainly not impossible. If you mean "very rare" up to the point of nearly impossible to find a partner, I would likely disagree irrespective of where you live. I don't think there is any place in this world where a minority is so small that you cannot even find a partner.