Sexuality #77214 How to deal with issues with sexual intimacy?

[AskSatanOperator]

I have a problem with this and I don't know how to deal with it, so I'd appreciate any advice anyone can give.

For a long time, many years I guess, I was unable to find a sexual partner and I feel like this damaged me in some way, maybe spiritually or perhaps just psychologically I don't really know. Because problem is, now I actual have a sexual partner who I love very much (we're married), but I find it difficult to do sexual things with them. When we try to, I just get scared and I start feeling inadequate and self conscious and then I can't do anything. I never used to be like this when I was younger and I had sexual partners before, but this long time period without being able to find a partner until fairly recently (about 10 years or so) seems to have really affected me in a bad way. I'm afraid it will drive a wedge in-between my and my partner, and I don't want that.

It's not like I don't want to do anything, like I'm not in the mood or something, I am, I'm just scared when I think about it and then I can't do it.

I'm just embarrassed and ashamed to even ask about stuff like this, but I feel desperate so please will someone help me figure out how I can get past this, for both me and my partners sake. Thank you.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

I have a problem with this and I don't know how to deal with it, so I'd appreciate any advice anyone can give.

For a long time, many years I guess, I was unable to find a sexual partner and I feel like this damaged me in some way, maybe spiritually or perhaps just psychologically I don't really know. Because problem is, now I actual have a sexual partner who I love very much (we're married), but I find it difficult to do sexual things with them. When we try to, I just get scared and I start feeling inadequate and self conscious and then I can't do anything. I never used to be like this when I was younger and I had sexual partners before, but this long time period without being able to find a partner until fairly recently (about 10 years or so) seems to have really affected me in a bad way. I'm afraid it will drive a wedge in-between my and my partner, and I don't want that.

It's not like I don't want to do anything, like I'm not in the mood or something, I am, I'm just scared when I think about it and then I can't do it.

I'm just embarrassed and ashamed to even ask about stuff like this, but I feel desperate so please will someone help me figure out how I can get past this, for both me and my partners sake. Thank you.

Why do you think you have been all these years with problems relating sexually to others? Why don't you explain this? You can become emotional since the fifth chakra is the female counterpart of the second.

 

[NetemPtah]

Purify and empower your sacral chakra. You need to purify your sacral chakra on a daily basis.
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[Engineered Trasformation]

I am, I'm just scared when I think about it and then I can't do it.

Hello there. I am sorry for your difficulties. This seems very annoying and blocking problem, apparently.
Are you male or female? (I think you can reply anonymously by ask-Satan service again, with reference to this question nr. 77214)

In any case. Often people experiencing such problems in sexuality, may have been damaged by traumatic events. It's only a possibility but you sound like a possibly damaged person. This may come from past lives, too. I am not sure whether this can be caused by many years of lack of partner. Did you feed your sexual life by masturbation only or just had no sexual life at all?
If the problems lays in a trauma, it is needed to bring this to the surface and re-elaborate the mind process about sexuality. As you are experiencing difficult feelings when attempting sex, this seems the trauma - if any - is already emergjng spontaneusly.
The best advice I can give here, is to ask your own Guardian Demon, or some other God, to show if you had a trauma in childhood or before, and which one.
Based on the answer you can take measures to heal it, and correct the mind. You can also try inner dialogue while in trance, to ask your own mind about this.
This can be obviously be done through mediatation, chakra cleaning and unblocking, soul cleaning, etc. There are many ways, depending where the problem is - most often in 2nd or hearth chakras.
Also, recalling traumatic events in a subliminal way, and correcting them through positive experiences, that would lead the mind to believe you are still in the past. The Demons can drive you to those experiences, I know this for experience on myself.

Feel free to add more on here. The Demons may guide you in the process, while here me and others, can be of support by simply listening and understanding your concerns, just human touch.

 

[Henu the Great]

I have a problem with this and I don't know how to deal with it, so I'd appreciate any advice anyone can give.

For a long time, many years I guess, I was unable to find a sexual partner and I feel like this damaged me in some way, maybe spiritually or perhaps just psychologically I don't really know. Because problem is, now I actual have a sexual partner who I love very much (we're married), but I find it difficult to do sexual things with them. When we try to, I just get scared and I start feeling inadequate and self conscious and then I can't do anything. I never used to be like this when I was younger and I had sexual partners before, but this long time period without being able to find a partner until fairly recently (about 10 years or so) seems to have really affected me in a bad way. I'm afraid it will drive a wedge in-between my and my partner, and I don't want that.

It's not like I don't want to do anything, like I'm not in the mood or something, I am, I'm just scared when I think about it and then I can't do it.

I'm just embarrassed and ashamed to even ask about stuff like this, but I feel desperate so please will someone help me figure out how I can get past this, for both me and my partners sake. Thank you.

You should openly communicate about this with your partner. Communication is key in relationships. From there, you can start, perhaps even working together, on this issue.