Yes, but that's not the point.
All these fetish communities, bdsm culture, strongly related to lgbtq communities, woke culture and sick pornography are full of crap, mental poisons and damaged people.
Want a tutorial about how to ruin your life? just search for the above on the internet and follow them. One should avoid these.
Then when you have a setted mind, resolved issues, good mentality ecc... you are ok to live your sexuality. You are gay, you do like alternative things, that's ok.
But you are deteached from all the above detrimental cultures, and free from mental issues.
One sexual life should be lived with sacredness, and should be about healthy self expression. It's something higher than the random bullshit. There is power and beauty in these, and this is sacred.