Relationships #75637 What should I do so that she will talk to me?

[Ask Satya Operator]

So, 2 years ago I saw a girl on Instagram and I kind of liked her. I sent a follow request to start a conversation but unfortunately she didn't accept it. I tried with my other profile but nothing changed. Last year I met a senior boy in my school and we gradually became good friends. Near about in December of last year when we were talking on phone he randomly mentioned her name and I was surprised. I still wanted to talk to her. I found that they were friends but not that close. He told me that she has a boyfriend who is his good friend. I tried to move on and even liked another girl but unfortunately the girl liked someone else. (I know my love life sucks.....) So just a few days back when I reading the chats on class gc (with nearly 80 boys), they were spamming each other's awkward pictures and suddenly someone began spamming pictures of there ex's and girls they had crush on (on view once) and then I saw her picture.. (That picture wasn't in my context because no one knew that I liked her.) After seeing the picture I had a strange feeling that I cannot explain. No matter how hard I try to forget her, her thoughts, her pictures, her name come to me from sources I don't even expect from. I want to talk to her once and for all. But she won't accept my request. She doesn't know that I exist, she doesn't know that there is someone who loves her.
I need help about what I should do. Love magic didn't work cause she doesn't know about me. I just want to start a conversation with her. I thing it would be better if I could meet her in person through my senior friend, without letting him know that I always wanted to meet her. But I don't know how to do that.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

I know my love life sucks.....

Stop drowning yourself in negativity with self-sabotaging affirmations, and try some Venus Squares.

https://templeofzeus.org/Venus_Square.html

But I don't know how to do that

Try this:

https://templeofzeus.org/AURA.html

She doesn't know that I exist

Sorry, but how exactly did you fall in love with a girl who doesn't even know you exist and therefore you don't even have half a relationship with her and you've never shared anything with her? Try to get to know her with the methods listed above, but WITHOUT it becoming a negative obsession.

 

[Gerecht_Ror]

She doesn't know that I exist, she doesn't know that there is someone who loves her.

I think, her popping up in front if you so often, may be the result of your obsession with her. If you meditate and built power, obsession with her may manifest in reality so you "by coincidence" find her pictures or even connection with her through people.
It may also be you know her from a previous life, as we can meet again people with whom we had a close tie in previous lives in similar ways.

Expressing love for a person you only saw in pictures seems a bit excessive. You are probably both idealizing or projecting onto her your idea of perfect love, like daydreaming instead of action.
Also fear of failure may block you: if you never talk to her, you will never be rejected. If you are able to overcome this fear probably your energies will help to reach her so, you will be able to know her and see if this is love or not. I think taking action is the only solution.

 

[EyeofHorus666]

My advice, focus on building yourself up. There are many girls out there (yes, even like this one) but unless you have made yourself the best man that you can yourself be, how can you expect them to take notice. I'll tell you a small secret. Some woman out there don't necessarily like to be overly fawned over or obsessed about, but will see a confident man who knows he has things going for him (because he has worked on himself) and gravitate toward him automatically. Without him even having to try. Take just some of the focus off of her and start working out, or learn a new skill, and she may just notice you
Good Luck
Hail Satan Forever!

 

[Solar Plexus]

Stop drowning yourself in negativity with self-sabotaging affirmations, and try some Venus Squares.

https://templeofzeus.org/Venus_Square.html

Try this:

https://templeofzeus.org/AURA.html

Sorry, but how exactly did you fall in love with a girl who doesn't even know you exist and therefore you don't even have half a relationship with her and you've never shared anything with her? Try to get to know her with the methods listed above, but WITHOUT it becoming a negative obsession.

Hello, are affirmations used in squares?

 

[Yurei]

Hello, are affirmations used in squares?

Yes, they are.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

Hello, are affirmations used in squares?

Yes, both spiritual and material

 

[Persephone [NG]]

I think you have idealized this girl. She doesn't know you exist but you don't know her well enough to fall in love with her. True love is something very different, let's say it's infatuation.

If she has a boyfriend I would leave her alone and, if I were you, I would work on myself to improve myself and positively attract a girl who fits me and who I am!

Obsessively looking for a partner can only bring discomfort and negative energy.

The fact of hearing her name even when you don't think about it makes me think of a clear example: I want to buy a red car because no one in the city has one, but once I get back from the dealership you will see nothing but red cars!

The unconscious connection you are creating is manifesting her name/appearance often but that doesn't mean it's a clue!

You will see that by working on yourself, at the right time, someone will manifest who aligns perfectly with you and will help you grow even more.

I wish you the best

 

[Epiphany]

You should either nut up and get in contact through this other acquaintance or forget about her. You've formed a one sided parasocial relationship where you're pining for somebody that isn't even in your life and doesn't appear to have any odds of crossing paths with you without effort on your part. You might as well have a waifu. Even that might be healthier because the realism that it's just a fantasy is built right in.

Her inbox is probably a box of dicks, the best thing is for you to find a way to stand out and be noticeable, so people will come to you instead and have their own interest in seeing you. Hearing about you through friends, etc. Unless you have some kind of clout on social media it's unlikely you'll find any success there. Stick to the real world.

 

[Epiphany]

Alot of times with these things if you see more of the person you might realize that everything you saw them as was all in your head, a fantasy and an idealization, a delusion. You may not be compatible whatsoever. They may turn out to be the most annoying person you've ever spent a day with, or disgusting, or boring, or pathological liars, druggies and crazies.

That's why it's essential to actually get in contact and see the real person so that you don't get pulled underwater by pining over "the one that got away".

 

[Hárbarðr]

I need help about what I should do. Love magic didn't work cause she doesn't know about me. I just want to start a conversation with her. I thing it would be better if I could meet her in person through my senior friend, without letting him know that I always wanted to meet her. But I don't know how to do that.

Ok, let's say you started a conversation. There's now over 90% chance she'll walk away and you'll be in a worse emotional state because of rejection. Nothing turns women off more than neediness. Women don't find it "cute" or "romantic" that a stranger (unless he's an attractive celebrity) is obsessed with them, they find it creepy. If they are good-looking, they have hundreds or thousands of guys stalking their profile online, telling them how beautiful they are and how they would like to meet with them, not to mention even worse things like sending them photos of their genitals. So even if you messaged her online, why do you think she would notice you any more than the hundreds of other guys stalking her?

Others gave you good advice. Focus on improving yourself, practice void meditation to clear any obsessive thoughts and you will be better.