Relationships #75601 need advice on going out of the comfort zone

[AskSatanOperator]

long story short, this guy I've never met asked me out. he isn't exactly my type but i cannot call him ugly and he looks like he takes care of himself.
the thing is, i have no idea how to approach the situation. i've been in 2 relationships so far and i know that it takes a long time for me to warm up to someone romantically (my chart also supports this) and now im asking myself all sorts of questions

how do i test the grounds to see if hes open to spirituality?
what do i do if he isn't, but is otherwise a decent guy? is it worth it long-term?
even if we naturally bring up the topic of religion, if he says something parroting obvious jewish propaganda, is it worth it to question him about it / give my input or do i stay silent and just dont meet him again?
" "what will my friends say about him" and how do i stop giving a shit about what they think"
i feel like even though i've been in relationships prior i have zero experience like these because both my exes were my close friends for months before we started dating, and were both women so it was easy to level with them emotionally. now i simply have no idea how to approach this. is it sort of a just do it until you figure it out sort of situation or are there ways to become more secure and know what i want on my own

 

[AFODO]

Asking out someone without knowing them is like giving a ring to a stranger.
He should have approached you as a "friend" and than the relationship builds, like with your previous exes.

Something you could do is tell them that you don't know them enough but you are interested in getting to know him. He will feel happy that you want to get to know him, although you just rejected him, but in the best way possible.

how do i test the grounds to see if hes open to spirituality?

Just get to know him. You don't have to talk with him about religion, in fact I really advise against talking with him about divisive topics.

if he says something parroting obvious jewish propaganda,

Just say that you don't believe in this or something. Or, "I don't know...", or you know, something like this.

 

[SeguaceDiSatanas]

how do i test the grounds to see if hes open to spirituality?
what do i do if he isn't, but is otherwise a decent guy? is it worth it long-term?

No one can judge whether the guy you choose is right for you. What are you looking for? What do you prioritize? How do you consider an attractive guy? Based on this, see if he is actually right for you. I could tell you what I think, but not necessarily what I think is right for you. Not everyone has the same needs in relationships and seeks the same things, just make sure that he supports and does not hinder your evolution.