#511 porn addiction

[AskSatanOperator]

I have a bad/unhealthy relationship with porn, I tried to quit many times before and failed. Right know I'm trying again and I'm away from it for 11 days. The thing is I don't masturbate, and don't have a sexual life too. So quiting means nothing sexual for me. I don't masturbate because it is likely leads me to porn. And after some time I always lose my motivation because I don't have anything sexual at all. I feel like I'm trapped. I wanted to ask you, what do you think I should do?, what do you think about this situation? And I also wonder what do you think about porn, or even how it is for satanizm?

 

[SeguaceDiSatanas]

I have a bad/unhealthy relationship with porn, I tried to quit many times before and failed. Right know I'm trying again and I'm away from it for 11 days. The thing is I don't masturbate, and don't have a sexual life too. So quiting means nothing sexual for me. I don't masturbate because it is likely leads me to porn. And after some time I always lose my motivation because I don't have anything sexual at all. I feel like I'm trapped. I wanted to ask you, what do you think I should do?, what do you think about this situation? And I also wonder what do you think about porn, or even how it is for satanizm?

Masturbation doesn't lead to porn, and if that's your desire, you shouldn't abstain sexually or anything. You can have orgasms without being afraid to turn to porn. Porn is an extreme. (FREE) sex life is the right middle ground, forced sexual abstinence is another wrong extreme.

You shouldn't think that a middle ground can take you to the extreme, on the contrary, from what you tell me, precisely because you abstain completely it seems that you only have porn as an alternative to having a "sexual life". Maybe if you avoided forced abstention, instead, you would be able to avoid going to that extreme.

 

[SeguaceDiSatanas]

Masturbation doesn't lead to porn, and if that's your desire, you shouldn't abstain sexually or anything. You can have orgasms without being afraid to turn to porn. Porn is an extreme. (FREE) sex life is the right middle ground, forced sexual abstinence is another wrong extreme.

You shouldn't think that a middle ground can take you to the extreme, on the contrary, from what you tell me, precisely because you abstain completely it seems that you only have porn as an alternative to having a "sexual life". Maybe if you avoided forced abstention, instead, you would be able to avoid going to that extreme.

PS:
One last thing I would like to add is that there is not only the extreme of things. Free sex life does NOT mean spending 22 hours a day masturbating or having sex with every breathing being. I wanted to explain this.

 

[Ayssid]

I have a bad/unhealthy relationship with porn, I tried to quit many times before and failed. Right know I'm trying again and I'm away from it for 11 days. The thing is I don't masturbate, and don't have a sexual life too. So quiting means nothing sexual for me. I don't masturbate because it is likely leads me to porn. And after some time I always lose my motivation because I don't have anything sexual at all. I feel like I'm trapped. I wanted to ask you, what do you think I should do?, what do you think about this situation? And I also wonder what do you think about porn, or even how it is for satanizm?

I think your biggest problem is sexualization of things and thinking that sex is a good achievable goal. Everything is heavily sexualized nowadays, so it's no surprise on that part, but there is no reason you should have to count days you spend without porn if you didn't care enough about it. You don't have anything going on sexually precisely because it seems your focus is that. Like, what if you don't have anything sexually? It's not the end of the world. Focus on something else and masturbate when the energy is a bit too much to handle. Don't use sex as a motivator, it will get you literally nowhere. Being able to attract a partner is almost entirely random, focus on things you can control. Control your mind, set yourself goals and aspirations that give you purpose. If your only purpose is having sex, you've failed as a person. Being a decent person means being able to go beyond our animal instincts. Don't let sex control your life. If you have nothing going on sexually, that's fine. You have the freedom to replace that with something else.

As for tge last question, porn is bad, that's all. The industry is riddled with jews. I've read accounts defending porn that is not jewish but that is just mental gymnastics and extremely hypocritical. Porn is bad period.

 

[Henu the Great]

Being able to attract a partner is almost entirely random, focus on things you can control.

Only someone not being aware of the possibilities of magick can say it like so...

Other than that, many valid points were raised.

 

[Ayssid]

Only someone not being aware of the possibilities of magick can say it like so...

Other than that, many valid points were raised.

Brother the rituals don't do shit to meI'm cooked
Glad the message had some value in it tho xD.

 

[Impetigo]

Porn is bad. There are spirits that can attach to you through it. The same thing that's done to music, there are spells put into it. Like professional jewish porn, they know what energies they're invoking and plaguing humanity with. Lust and agony are the favorite varieties of energy for the enemy, which they use to drain us and feed from. Best thing to do is find someone to have a relationship with and turn your understanding and experiencing of sex from lust to love, calm down and gain your power back. Instead of getting off, focus on giving loving energy to someone else.

Good luck.
-Ave Satanas-