Family #80344 What could I have been possibly done to deserve this?

[Ask Satya Operator]

So my mom is a stupid masochist who can't even leave a guy who cheated on her and has zero self respect and she can't even realise this because she's either having a burst of anger or in a depressive mood or making stupid childish jokes and my dad is a pig who acts like a total douchebag to her.
And I can't even confront any of them because I'm afraid I'll make my mom even more depressive and when I argue with my dad I get the urge to cry even though I don't find arguing with them worth to cry for.
So what should I do other than "work hard save yourself"
Anyways thanks to ToZ for this service.

 

[AFODO]

What you can do is to not care about things you cannot change.

 

[FierceSerpent]

You can place a strong white-golden aura around her and program it with affirmations like "I am placing a powerful aura of pure self-love and self-respect around my mother. This aura is helping my mother recognize her worth now." Visualize her grounded in her worth, and your father responding to the shift.

At the end of the day, we all have to save ourselves, but let her know that if she ever decides to walk away from your father, she'll have your full support.

 

[Shadowcat]

It's understandable that you would feel very frustrated and alone in such as situation. Please remember that the happiness off your parents isn't your responsibility. It is neither your responsibility to save either of them from the other or keep the peace. This is what grows someone into a codependent who keeps attracting broken people who are mentally ill that end up taking them for granted and abusing them as they continue to overgive.

I know it sucks because your parents problems emotionally effect you. It's ok to tell them both how it makes you feel but it's not your job to fix their problems. Focus on trying to not let this drain you. Focus on what you can do to build your life and what you can do when you become of age to lead a successful life to not have to be around your parents if they continue to be toxic. If anything physically escalates do not hesitate to call the authorities. Closing your chakras is a good option as well to not absorb all of the negativity.

 

[Rroco88]

If you're a minor, meditate, focus on yourself, your education, your physical and mental health, go out in nature to avoid being near them, because at the end of the day, they are supposed to take care of you and comfort you, not vice versa. You're not responsible for them and how they feel and how they act. And you are not their parent to solve their conflict, even if it seems like you have taken on the role of the parent.

If you're an adult, it's even better for you, because you can get a place for yourself to live in peace and advance without worrying about catching negative energies in your own home.

Your parents seem to be emotionally immature, and it's not uncommon. A lot of people are. But you're not responsible for that, you are responsible for your own life and for how you respond to your surroundings.

And I bet you, the Gods would rather see you advance than try to solve conflicts and change people that have a lower chance of becoming Zevists in this life, and draining yourself in the process instead.