Relationships #79543 Is "cuddling" still race-mixing?

[Ask Satya Operator]

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

 

[Ironskull]

I was like you but I free my life from desire of girls just by meditating to reach Nirvana and block every desire of love from another person…

 

[AFODO]

I was like you but I free my life from desire of girls just by meditating to reach Nirvana and block every desire of love from another person…

That's not good except if you are 70+ years old and have already completed these parts of life.

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

I don't think it's bad to have friends from other races but have some more moderation towards them. If you get more open spiritually you'll feel what's good and what's not, but a lot of negative karma in the given area can blind you as well.

 

[Yurei]

I'm a virgin (male). I don't want to enter into a relationship or have casual sex (which goes against my nature). First, I want to clear my negative karma.

But I also crave desperately to be touched/nurtured and my Sagittarius energy does crave some sort of variety somewhere in this area.

I can make friends with all types of women pretty easily... is it okay to use them as "cuddle partners" so long as there are boundaries and I don't get emotionally attached?

It soothes my nerves and keeps my urges/addictions at bay while I work through this karma and start an actual relationship in a few years and get my life together.

Would it still be considered race-mixing if they are of different races? And it is a friendship thing only (which is made clear to them).

Idc about sex, I would be okay my whole life without sex if I could have this dynamic lol, so until then it is quite effective for me personally?

But unfortunately it is very rare to see my own race where I live.

No, it doesn't count as race mixing.
But think about it; if you are in such close proximity to someone of the opposite sex, in such an intimate and compromising position, who's to say there won't be kissing next? And then that can escalate to full blown making out. And before you know it you are engaging in race mixing.

 

[The Pythagorean]

The material issue of race mixing is not even the sex itself, it is having children that will no longer be either of the participating races, will struggle to reincarnate due to their genetics, and you yourself might struggle to reincarnate if enough people make that decision and your race happens to dwindle.
So, if we would only look at material issues, even sex itself would be okay, as long as the normal precautions against STIs/STDs etc. are taken.

THAT BEING SAID, there are spiritual consequences to having sex with someone you're not "supposed to", like another race or a very close relative. Effects on the Sacral Chakra, which will then take work to fix, work you wouldn't have had to do in the first place had you not made the mistake.

Those consequences still exist, spiritually, even with something as mundane as cuddling, kissing, whatever. Less so, I assume, but still there.

Not to mention the mental effects, which might involve guilt and so on.

Unless you are yourself an immigrant, I don't see why you'd struggle to find cuddle buddies of your own race. As for variety, there's plenty enough variety to go around within your own race, especially if you're white.

 

[Acolyte Of Pan 666]

I think you’re severely sexually repressed.

This may offend some people but I don’t think there any humans out there who are genuinely “asexual” or who be okay their whole life if thet never had sex. It’s like people who say they don’t enjoy food or music because they’re “above” others or something. No you just justified your repression as a “good” thing somehow as a coping mechanism.

The only exceptions imo are those with severe genital and/or mental issues.

So you’re not interested in sex at all but are begging to be cuddled? Right… I don’t buy it.

It also seems you have a mentality where you think you don’t deserve sex or a relationship. This is nonsense. You can do magickal workings and hypnosis to remove all these negative, repressice states instead of justifying them.

You don’t need to “work” on anything to get into a relationship. There are murderers, rapists, and all kinds of filth in relationships right now, but somehow fate has decided you specifically don’t deserve a relationship? This perfectionism is poisonous to the psyche and should be removed.