Adding to the advice here, be mindful of the context. If you're looking for outside support, do a check on her family first. I've known several cases where the family added to the person's depression, either by being/having been abusive, or withholding resources, such as after disagreements. If...

Thank you, this is highly clarifying. I've been wondering about the situation for a long time, and there's clearly a lot more, unimaginable to most of us, but I kept clear of speculating. Every piece of information that must reach us will come in due time. The rest are distractions.

Welcome back. There are some basic things you should know, after which materials will make more sense. ToZ was officially founded as a religious organization, under the name Temple of Zeus. It broke away from the purely social group that was known before, and from conversation subjects of the...

Since it was requested, I will list my advice below. I didn't include it as people are already offended by as much as naming reality, calling it harsh, or excessively judgmental, since you stress exact wording. If you insist on clarity, there was a member who called a handjob nothing and...

Salut, pana primesti un raspuns, daca trebuie sa faci ritualul intr-un timp scurt, poti folosi varianta originala de pe Tozrituals.

This is a bigger mistake than some want to acknowledge. Like everyone else, I am free to have my opinion. I also never cheated, so I have my actions to back me up. Besides, my disappointment is not even related to OP, who is a new person here. This is apparent if you read my reply correctly.

Excuse me for butting in. I want to express my disappointment. As it appears, Guardians are needed to clarify that cheating on one's spouse is immoral and preventable. Knowing some members who were pro-this situation have families, this general attitude is concerning. Being lightyears behind in...

Thank you for this post. I remember most of my dreams and often dream lucidly, I'd be vert interested in reading more on this topic.

It's good to keep in mind that throughout recent history there were no opportunities for genius women to show their abilities to the world. Some did so with their husbands' help (when the husbands were able and also willing to provide this assistance), and ended up overshadowed by them to some...

OP was improving, in my opinion, by admitting to his actions and recognizing their impact. Then all of a sudden, he was told these are not a problem, not a big deal, worthy of encouragement in some conditions, and that he would even deserve to be in the life of the people that he betrayed. In my...

If some loyal couples ruined their lives by staying together for the sake of their children (which is completely true), what makes you think the case of this couple will be any different? Many members suggested reconciliation, which is, essentially, still a form of staying together, for those...

Yes, cheating on his children's mother makes him a bad father and sets a bad example for them. Now the children are aware their parents separated because one couldn't be loyal. I also don't believe in marriages where people are free to have affairs. They can certainly make it work, but they...

Sex ed is a broad subject. It goes from proper names for body parts to staying STD-free and correctly putting on condoms. Many aspects would be useful to know a little before puberty. Hygiene, for example. Parents who don't bother teaching basic life skills will surely not do it when it comes to...

I'm surprised at the encouraging replies here. You valued your children less than a handjob from a random girl, since now you could be seeing them twice a year if their mother files for divorce. Besides, you wasted 10 years of her life, and made it insanely difficult for her if she chooses to...

Great news! Thank you and everyone who's worked on the new platform.