Once you understand Saturn and his whole essence, you will stop being afraid of him, words cannot describe it, instead of running away from him, you should turn to him without fear and then you will receive a reward for your courage, even if it means reaching the bottom, it's worth it, and I've seen it through my own experience. He is the Tsar of the Golden Age, and people want to reach the Golden Age without going through his trials? It's like waiting for a harvest but not caring for its seeds
Yes, I have come to understand this through recent experience. I have gone through said trials in the past few months, for the first time in my life. Saturn is a beautiful planet.
I was referring to doing the planetary square for Saturn, as opposed to experiencing and undergoing Saturnian lessons in general (i.e., transits). When I was referring to Saturn being brutal, I didn't mean it in a negative sense, as such. I meant that Saturn can be very harsh, if it needs to be. But doing the square I think is far too much.
While this is true in many cases, not all. Doing this can make the woman feel unloved, like you don't want to be with her anymore, and she may withdraw more, feeling insecure and unwanted. It really depends on the individual, their natal chart, and emotional state.
Ah yes, that is true. I suppose there needs to be a balance, right? I'm still trying to understand this, myself. The situation in this thread is a little bit similar to mine.
Thank you, High Priestess.