LOVE BREAK UP

I think if you truly love her, you should give her space and respect her boundaries. Being needy and clingy with her will not do any good. I speak from a similar experience, here.

In time, if she wants you, I think she will come back to you on her own decision. Perhaps this is what Father Zeus wants you to learn (check your astrological transits, also).

I think you should also work on yourself (meditations, Rituals, your own life, hobbies, career, etc.), and not depend on any person for your own internal happiness. Carl Jung wrote a lot about this.

MarsUltor666 wrote:View source

think if you truly love her, you should give her space and respect her boundaries. Being needy and clingy with her will not do any good.

I am going to respect it.But i still fear she will forget me and i will lose her….

ktrv wrote:View source

I’m going through a really intense emotional situation. Someone I care about asked for space, and I feel overwhelmed, anxious, and mentally restless. In the past, connecting with Zeus helped me find strength and clarity.But now i feel awfull and i’m losing myself.I even tried detachment
ritual but still it is not fixed.I love this woman vert much and would like to make her my wife one dau.I would like to ask what should i do?I

Which rituals would help my relationship?
Which meditation would help my mind?
And any other recommendation would be nice.

My goal is to have a normal relationship the problem was me and my anxiety but now I want to get her back so please I’m open to everything as she is my everything.

Do Saturn's kabalistic square, that powerfull magic gonna get rid of all that not serve u, in physican and emotional statement, also, that gonna bring u more clarity in urs life, If Saturn cleanses the foundation, then Venus square might give u a good relationships

Black Magic wrote:View source

Do Saturn's kabalistic square, that powerfull magic gonna get rid of all that not serve u, in physican and emotional statement, also, that gonna bring u more clarity in urs life, If Saturn cleanses the foundation, then Venus square might give u a good relationships

Please refrain from doing this. It’s well known that Saturn’s energies can be difficult to manage, and this is mentioned on the pageExternal ↗ as well. Instead, there are plenty of more helpful things you can do that specifically address these kinds of issues.

Healing the Emotional Body
Self Love Meditation

ktrv wrote:View source

I’m going through a really intense emotional situation. Someone I care about asked for space, and I feel overwhelmed, anxious, and mentally restless. In the past, connecting with Zeus helped me find strength and clarity.But now i feel awfull and i’m losing myself.I even tried detachment
ritual but still it is not fixed.I love this woman vert much and would like to make her my wife one dau.I would like to ask what should i do?I

Which rituals would help my relationship?
Which meditation would help my mind?
And any other recommendation would be nice.

My goal is to have a normal relationship the problem was me and my anxiety but now I want to get her back so please I’m open to everything as she is my everything.

The first thing you should do is give her the space this relationship needs. If this situation is connected to your anxiety or any other psychological struggle, then it’s important to work on that seriously. Read the post NG Sonne shared with you.

Having mental health challenges is not easy. But it is also not easy for a partner to be with someone who is struggling, especially if the relationship becomes emotionally overwhelming. Some people simply cannot be fully present all the time, and sometimes a partner carries so much that they need to step back before they get hurt too. This doesn't mean that the relation is over, but it is broken and needs to be repair. But you can't repair something with broken parts and think that it will work perfectly fine.

The best thing you can do now is focus on healing yourself. Not just to get her back, but for you.

Nikólaos666 wrote:View source

Having mental health challenges is not easy

That’s the worst part….All of the problems are “out of my control” or should i say i don’t do it on purpose.

Nikólaos666 wrote:View source

The best thing you can do now is focus on healing yourself. Not just to get her back, but for you

Well that is my goal now but i just don’t know how.I want to feel secure so this dosent happen in the future.And the worst thing is i found out how much i was the problem too late but who knows maybe this is a step set by our Lord so i can become a better person and she will come back after or someone better than her.But i’m still struggling to heal and to forget.

At the end of the day Love wouldn’t be Love if there was no heartbreak…

Sonne [NG] wrote:View source

Please refrain from doing this. It’s well known that Saturn’s energies can be difficult to manage, and this is mentioned on the pageExternal ↗ as well. Instead, there are plenty of more helpful things you can do that specifically address these kinds of issues.

Healing the Emotional Body
Self Love Meditation

Hey, I want to follow the working exactly as recommended, so I have a couple of questions:

Is it strictly necessary to start only when the Moon is waxing or full and in the specific signs (Cancer, Pisces, Taurus, etc.), or is it still effective if I begin on a normal day?

Also, if I miss the exact timing (like Venus placement or Moon sign), should I wait for the next proper alignment or just continue with the cycle anyway?

I just want to make sure I’m doing it correctly and not messing anything up.But also i want to start this tomorrow as i need it to help me heal.

Sonne [NG] wrote:View source

Please refrain from doing this. It’s well known that Saturn’s energies can be difficult to manage, and this is mentioned on the pageExternal ↗ as well. Instead, there are plenty of more helpful things you can do that specifically address these kinds of issues.

Healing the Emotional Body
Self Love Meditation

Saturn Square will probably just make you break up in order to learn a bigger lesson of life. It can get unmanageable if you aren't prepared.
That's my intuition about Saturn here.

ktrv wrote:View source

I’m going through a really intense emotional situation. Someone I care about asked for space, and I feel overwhelmed, anxious, and mentally restless. In the past, connecting with Zeus helped me find strength and clarity.But now i feel awfull and i’m losing myself.I even tried detachment
ritual but still it is not fixed.I love this woman vert much and would like to make her my wife one dau.I would like to ask what should i do?I

Which rituals would help my relationship?
Which meditation would help my mind?
And any other recommendation would be nice.

My goal is to have a normal relationship the problem was me and my anxiety but now I want to get her back so please I’m open to everything as she is my everything.

I don't know your full situation here, so my advice will be general.

Being needy, in a state of lack, would not help you here, nor in make you satisfied, happy, fullfilled, or in solving a problem that you associated with these things, which also the association isn't really true in itself.
Being in a cycle of emotional dependence is not good.

You may prepare yourself to do what now looks like the hardest thing to do, or the scarier one to do.

In the end what matters is you, your state of being, ecc... So don't hesitate.

Don't give up on life or love either of course. It's full of beautiful people outhere, there isn't "the one". Someone good, fun and beautiful that will make you grow (grow eachother) is good enough.

ktrv wrote:View source

I’m going through a really intense emotional situation. Someone I care about asked for space, and I feel overwhelmed, anxious, and mentally restless. In the past, connecting with Zeus helped me find strength and clarity.But now i feel awfull and i’m losing myself.I even tried detachment
ritual but still it is not fixed.I love this woman vert much and would like to make her my wife one dau.I would like to ask what should i do?I

Which rituals would help my relationship?
Which meditation would help my mind?
And any other recommendation would be nice.

My goal is to have a normal relationship the problem was me and my anxiety but now I want to get her back so please I’m open to everything as she is my everything.

You need to fix what was turning her off to you. If shes asking for space shes probably been holding onto these feelings for quite some time.

Think of it like this, how are you making her feel? Are you being needy and need her reassurance constantly? How is that fun for her. She is essentially mommying you. Be an attractive man towards her that knows how to create a loving fun dynamic. You have an incredible unfair advantage over other men being a Zevist.

Your love right now is disconnected. Level yourself up and attract her back and you will have an even better relationship.
Watch this VideoExternal ↗. I have used this guys approach to women and have reversed a break up. And attracted other women the same way. This isnt some sleezy pick up BS but to help you understand relationship dynamics between men and women.

ModernMage wrote:View source

You need to fix what was turning her off to you. If shes asking for space shes probably been holding onto these feelings for quite some time.

Think of it like this, how are you making her feel? Are you being needy and need her reassurance constantly? How is that fun for her. She is essentially mommying you. Be an attractive man towards her that knows how to create a loving fun dynamic. You have an incredible unfair advantage over other men being a Zevist.

Your love right now is disconnected. Level yourself up and attract her back and you will have an even better relationship.
Watch this VideoExternal ↗. I have used this guys approach to women and have reversed a break up. And attracted other women the same way. This isnt some sleezy pick up BS but to help you understand relationship dynamics between men and women.

This looks like just someone who try to sell bs, doesn't solve the core issue.

"she lost respect for you".

Healthy relationships cannot survive actual disrespect.

The rest is all just based on being needy, from what I saw on that video.

Sonne [NG] wrote:View source

Please refrain from doing this. It’s well known that Saturn’s energies can be difficult to manage, and this is mentioned on the pageExternal ↗ as well. Instead, there are plenty of more helpful things you can do that specifically address these kinds of issues.

Healing the Emotional Body
Self Love Meditation

True, but if the one know how to use it properly, Saturn's energy might be very helpful in matter of transformation, that might get rid of a lots of problems as well, but also, Saturn might get rid of that what the one considered necessary

Disciple of the Serpent wrote:View source

Saturn Square will probably just make you break up in order to learn a bigger lesson of life. It can get unmanageable if you aren't prepared.
That's my intuition about Saturn here.

I don't know your full situation here, so my advice will be general.

Being needy, in a state of lack, would not help you here, nor in make you satisfied, happy, fullfilled, or in solving a problem that you associated with these things, which also the association isn't really true in itself.
Being in a cycle of emotional dependence is not good.

You may prepare yourself to do what now looks like the hardest thing to do, or the scarier one to do.

In the end what matters is you, your state of being, ecc... So don't hesitate.

Don't give up on life or love either of course. It's full of beautiful people outhere, there isn't "the one". Someone good, fun and beautiful that will make you grow (grow eachother) is good enough.

I done square myself, it's doesn't break me, but yeah, it's give me not pleasant lessons and a lot's of stuff to think about. He broke a lots of illusions as well and get rid of a lot unnecessary stuff. I feel void inside, but, that's only temporary, when Saturn clean the fundament, the others Gods start to create theirs own stuff on it when it's clean. But, folks are right, Saturn demand a lots of respect and you have to be careful to work with him. A lots of people prefer to work with Jupiter instead, but, it's the matter of problems that you have currently. The reason why people don't like Saturn, in my opinion is, it's because he break illusions and he might hurm the ego of one as well, but I have no problem with ego and I prefer to live without pink glasses anyway, so, that's suits me. And remember, his lessons don't suppose to destroy you, but help you with yours current problems, the choice and responsibility is yours

ktrv wrote:View source

I am going to respect it.But i still fear she will forget me and i will lose her….

I had this fear, too, which was why I also became anxious, and I was extremely insecure. I pushed her away with this. But, I learned to let go, and I started focusing on myself more.

She is still here.

If it is meant to be, she won't be going anywhere. Don't worry. The universe, the Gods, the planets, fate, whichever you want to call it, will see to this.

Overall, lessons in life like this happen. If she does disappear, and it isn't meant to be between you, then you will carry the lessons learned from the experience, it will strengthen and teach you, and you'll end up finding someone who is a better match. Perhaps look at your transits and see where Saturn is. I have had some brutal and painful lessons to learn, myself, but I needed to, and I am deeply grateful.

I would also highly advise against using a Saturn square. There is a warning on that page for a reason. Saturn transits alone, can be brutal enough.

MarsUltor666 wrote:View source

I had this fear, too, which was why I also became anxious, and I was extremely insecure. I pushed her away with this. But, I learned to let go, and I started focusing on myself more.

She is still here.

If it is meant to be, she won't be going anywhere. Don't worry. The universe, the Gods, the planets, fate, whichever you want to call it, will see to this.

Overall, lessons in life like this happen. If she does disappear, and it isn't meant to be between you, then you will carry the lessons learned from the experience, it will strengthen and teach you, and you'll end up finding someone who is a better match. Perhaps look at your transits and see where Saturn is. I have had some brutal and painful lessons to learn, myself, but I needed to, and I am deeply grateful.

I would also highly advise against using a Saturn square. There is a warning on that page for a reason. Saturn transits alone, can be brutal enough.

Once you understand Saturn and his whole essence, you will stop being afraid of him, words cannot describe it, instead of running away from him, you should turn to him without fear and then you will receive a reward for your courage, even if it means reaching the bottom, it's worth it, and I've seen it through my own experience. He is the Tsar of the Golden Age, and people want to reach the Golden Age without going through his trials? It's like waiting for a harvest but not caring for its seeds

MarsUltor666 wrote:View source

I think if you truly love her, you should give her space and respect her boundaries. Being needy and clingy with her will not do any good.

While this is true in many cases, not all. Doing this can make the woman feel unloved, like you don't want to be with her anymore, and she may withdraw more, feeling insecure and unwanted. It really depends on the individual, their natal chart, and emotional state.

Black Magic wrote:View source

True, but if the one know how to use it properly, Saturn's energy might be very helpful in matter of transformation, that might get rid of a lots of problems as well, but also, Saturn might get rid of that what the one considered necessary

There would be no need to give such advice to someone who knows how to use the Saturn square, because they already know. These kinds of statements are only tried by beginners who know nothing and think they are more advanced than they really are, and if something happens to them, you would be responsible for it.

For this reason, it is important to think twice before saying something, and not say it unless it is truly necessary.

Besides, the things I linked to are more effective and relevant to these issues, so doing a Saturn square for something so trivial is just overkill.

ktrv wrote:View source

I’m going through a really intense emotional situation. Someone I care about asked for space, and I feel overwhelmed, anxious, and mentally restless. In the past, connecting with Zeus helped me find strength and clarity.But now i feel awfull and i’m losing myself.I even tried detachment
ritual but still it is not fixed.I love this woman vert much and would like to make her my wife one dau.I would like to ask what should i do?I

Which rituals would help my relationship?
Which meditation would help my mind?
And any other recommendation would be nice.

My goal is to have a normal relationship the problem was me and my anxiety but now I want to get her back so please I’m open to everything as she is my everything.

In addition to all the above advice, are you maintaining a steady routine for yoga and meditation? This helps with anxiety. Also read the new material in the ToZ, and perhaps Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. These help steady the mind.

High Priestess Lydia Coventina wrote:View source

In addition to all the above advice, are you maintaining a steady routine for yoga and meditation? This helps with anxiety. Also read the new material in the ToZ, and perhaps Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. These help steady the mind.

Yes i am and i was fine until now as this relationship showed me a problem I had that was there but just hidden as there was nobody i cared so much for at the time.

Also thank you for the suggestion!

ModernMage wrote:View source

You need to fix what was turning her off to you. If shes asking for space shes probably been holding onto these feelings for quite some time.

Think of it like this, how are you making her feel? Are you being needy and need her reassurance constantly? How is that fun for her. She is essentially mommying you. Be an attractive man towards her that knows how to create a loving fun dynamic. You have an incredible unfair advantage over other men being a Zevist

Fun fact you got it almost all the problems we had😂…..So yeah i’m trying to be better and more attractive in love.

Thank you everyone for your ideas and recommendations just reading all of this helped me heal.Everytime i had a problem people here would help i love being a Zevist!!!!!!!