A fight with my mother. Kicked out...

MiniMe3388 wrote:

mercury_wisdom wrote:

MiniMe3388 wrote:

My intuition is scary sometimes. I predicted your situation. Next time try not to argue with your mom, sister :D

Haha I won't. By the way I am a guy haha.

I guess I was unconscious when I wrote that you are a girl XDD

Well its news to me too. I like the avatar picture you have mercury :)

Glad to see that is all ok, brother. I am going throw something similar, my mother is upset on me with no reason and the best option is to move out. It must be something in planetary transits, can someone take a look and say where is the problem?

mercury_wisdom wrote:

Hey everyone it's official. I have successfully apologized and returned home now. I brought her some beautiful flowers, chocolates and a car medal for her new car since she wanted one so much. We are better now. Also I have been doing yoga and meditations regularly when I was at grandma's so I didn't give up.

HAIL ZEUS Forever!!

Very glad to hear you managed to work things out with your mother, may your relationship with her remain well and harmonious now and in the future.

It is great to hear when things work out for the better for Zevism after they asked for help or advice on the forum.

Stay well!

HAIL ZEUS!

mercury_wisdom wrote:

Hey everyone it's official. I have successfully apologized and returned home now. I brought her some beautiful flowers, chocolates and a car medal for her new car since she wanted one so much. We are better now. Also I have been doing yoga and meditations regularly when I was at grandma's so I didn't give up.

HAIL ZEUS Forever!!

Good to hear :)

Lunar Dance 666 wrote:

MiniMe3388 wrote:

mercury_wisdom wrote:

Haha I won't. By the way I am a guy haha.

I guess I was unconscious when I wrote that you are a girl XDD

Well its news to me too. I like the avatar picture you have mercury :)

Thank you Lunar! I always liked your icy princess avatar and your name fits it well too in an artistic way. :)

Dark Blue Eye wrote:

Glad to see that is all ok, brother. I am going throw something similar, my mother is upset on me with no reason and the best option is to move out. It must be something in planetary transits, can someone take a look and say where is the problem?

Well I wouldn't recommend sharing your natal chart or transits on the forums. Rather you should try to find it yourself. Try looking at your 4th house what kind of planets are there? Transiting planets that could give you problems with this are Saturn, Neptune, Uranus, or even Mars or Pluto in your 4th house or making an aspect with it.

Another thing you should look at is your moon as it represents your mother and home life. Try to to see if the above mentioned planets especially the slow ones and if they are making aspects with the moon.

Best of luck and hope it gets better for you!

mercury_wisdom wrote:

Dark Blue Eye wrote:

Glad to see that is all ok, brother. I am going throw something similar, my mother is upset on me with no reason and the best option is to move out. It must be something in planetary transits, can someone take a look and say where is the problem?

Well I wouldn't recommend sharing your natal chart or transits on the forums. Rather you should try to find it yourself. Try looking at your 4th house what kind of planets are there? Transiting planets that could give you problems with this are Saturn, Neptune, Uranus, or even Mars or Pluto in your 4th house or making an aspect with it.

Another thing you should look at is your moon as it represents your mother and home life. Try to to see if the above mentioned planets especially the slow ones and if they are making aspects with the moon.

Best of luck and hope it gets better for you!

This is all I wanted, not to share my natal chart, just to know where I must look. I didn't pay attention on Uranus and Moon. Thank you!

MiniMe3388 wrote:

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Glad to see you managed to work things out with your mom, sometimes we have to make some sacrifice so we can have some peace and comfort. I can't even begin to imagine what it must feel like being a Satanic soul in a Muslim country. But I'm glad to see you didn't give up, until the time comes where we can be self sufficient, we must endure certain things, and make an effort to not get into such arguments, not only because it can create bad situations such as being kicked out, but it also takes a toll on your soul when you allow yourself to connect to the energies of those of the enemy programs. You must make an effort to detach as much as you possibly can, to preserve your inner peace. Be safe Brother.
HAIL ZEUS!

Dark Blue Eye wrote:

Glad to see that is all ok, brother. I am going throw something similar, my mother is upset on me with no reason and the best option is to move out. It must be something in planetary transits, can someone take a look and say where is the problem?

Is it the best option to move out? If the problem is purely emotional, then this can be solved relatively easily. I think if you had another reason to move out, then it would've happened before this conflict.

Assuming living with her is conducive to your advancement, finances, lifestyle, and so on, then it would make more sense to try to remain home. It would also be in her interest to be in close contact with a Zevist as well (even if she is unaware of this).

I would begin using Ehwaz and Wunjo to both repair and strengthen your relationship for the future. I think this upcoming Pisces moon is a decent enough time for this. Cancer would be better, but Pisces is good enough.

If the conflict is coming from something new and unexpected, then it is probably relating to transits and a 40 day working is not needed (unless you need more power). However, if the conflict is based upon points of friction that have always existed (personality clashes), then a 40-day working is needed to permanently establish more positive relations between each other.

Don't start arguments with npc's, it's not worth it, their consciousness is low and they're gonna have trouble understanding anything of value you tell them, their mind is closed to the truth.

BlackOnyx8 wrote:

Glad to see you managed to work things out with your mom, sometimes we have to make some sacrifice so we can have some peace and comfort. I can't even begin to imagine what it must feel like being a Satanic soul in a Muslim country. But I'm glad to see you didn't give up, until the time comes where we can be self sufficient, we must endure certain things, and make an effort to not get into such arguments, not only because it can create bad situations such as being kicked out, but it also takes a toll on your soul when you allow yourself to connect to the energies of those of the enemy programs. You must make an effort to detach as much as you possibly can, to preserve your inner peace. Be safe Brother.
HAIL ZEUS!

Thank you Onyx! Your words are true. Living within Islamists can be tiring, exhausting and depressing. But we have to do what we have to do to survive.

Also I am not alone. I have Father Zeus, My GD, and my lover.

HAIL ZEUS!

mercury_wisdom wrote:

So I had a big fight with my mom and I hurt her so much. She kicked me out and told me she never wants to see me again.

I know the problem is already sorted but I wondered why would you ever literally fight with your mother? You haven't given us an insight of the whole situation. If you posted about this in other posts then ignore me. Yet instead of being kicked out and having to apologize maybe you could have tried to prevent the whole thing from happening. Definitely you need to prevent it in the future. In many other cases this is an extremely serious precedent.

The Alchemist7 wrote:

mercury_wisdom wrote:

So I had a big fight with my mom and I hurt her so much. She kicked me out and told me she never wants to see me again.

I know the problem is already sorted but I wondered why would you ever literally fight with your mother? You haven't given us an insight of the whole situation. If you posted about this in other posts then ignore me. Yet instead of being kicked out and having to apologize maybe you could have tried to prevent the whole thing from happening. Definitely you need to prevent it in the future. In many other cases this is an extremely serious precedent.

Well it was about money. I lent her all my savings awhile back because there was a period where she got divorced from dad and she wasn't able to work because she is a teacher and it was a school vacation so I had to give her that to keep us afloat or we would be on the streets. This annoyed me deeply but I just did it anyway because there was no other option and like she helped me a bunch I wanted to help her too.

Then that day we fought I was already depressed and in a bad mood for a while then she hinted that she will give me half of my money and won't return the rest after promising me she will return it fully. I got really violent and cold and started insulting her because I have been trying to suppress my anger of having to let my life savings burn like that for so long that I kept it bottled up so I exploded that day with the worst and most hurtful insults. I told her I wanted to leave this shitty place so she then started kicking me out and telling me to leave right now and gave me some money and told me that she never wants to see me again.

Thats how it went.

The Alchemist7 wrote:

mercury_wisdom wrote:

So I had a big fight with my mom and I hurt her so much. She kicked me out and told me she never wants to see me again.

I know the problem is already sorted but I wondered why would you ever literally fight with your mother? You haven't given us an insight of the whole situation. If you posted about this in other posts then ignore me. Yet instead of being kicked out and having to apologize maybe you could have tried to prevent the whole thing from happening. Definitely you need to prevent it in the future. In many other cases this is an extremely serious precedent.

The Alchemist7 wrote:

mercury_wisdom wrote:

So I had a big fight with my mom and I hurt her so much. She kicked me out and told me she never wants to see me again.

I know the problem is already sorted but I wondered why would you ever literally fight with your mother? You haven't given us an insight of the whole situation. If you posted about this in other posts then ignore me. Yet instead of being kicked out and having to apologize maybe you could have tried to prevent the whole thing from happening. Definitely you need to prevent it in the future. In many other cases this is an extremely serious precedent.

They didn't have to give insight into the whole situation for helpful advice which ultimately solved the issue for them to be given, so it was unnecessary for them so disclose such personal things they may not want to share, here. If they feel it necessary to gain more specific advice regarding the situation, and what caused it, and how to prevent it, they may tell us whatever they feel is necessary for people to know in order to give an insightful answer.

In this case, it was not required and likely Mercury_Wisdom can think themselves on how to prevent such things in the future, or understand better what caused it so it won't have to happen again. If it's not yet obvious to them as is, they may introspect on these things during Trance for example to find answers themselves, which is better to do than to ask people to give you the answer for you, as you learn a lot more through self exploration and introspection when searching for an answer.

Also, this has already taken place in the past, a solution was required, but the situation had already occurred, thinking whether or not it had to happen was not of much use anymore after that point, except for future reference, which, as I said before, is something they can figure out themselves through Introspection and Trance.

Most people have to go through experiences like this to learn and grow.

HAIL ZEUS!

Your anger was justified but how you expressed it wasn't as it didn't lead anywhere. You should do a working to get your mother to give you your money back.

Blitzkreig wrote:

Dark Blue Eye wrote:

Glad to see that is all ok, brother. I am going throw something similar, my mother is upset on me with no reason and the best option is to move out. It must be something in planetary transits, can someone take a look and say where is the problem?

Is it the best option to move out? If the problem is purely emotional, then this can be solved relatively easily. I think if you had another reason to move out, then it would've happened before this conflict.

Assuming living with her is conducive to your advancement, finances, lifestyle, and so on, then it would make more sense to try to remain home. It would also be in her interest to be in close contact with a Zevist as well (even if she is unaware of this).

I would begin using Ehwaz and Wunjo to both repair and strengthen your relationship for the future. I think this upcoming Pisces moon is a decent enough time for this. Cancer would be better, but Pisces is good enough.

If the conflict is coming from something new and unexpected, then it is probably relating to transits and a 40 day working is not needed (unless you need more power). However, if the conflict is based upon points of friction that have always existed (personality clashes), then a 40-day working is needed to permanently establish more positive relations between each other.

All is good now. It was for sure a transit. The annoying part is that I am the youngest in my family and the most mature, but I can't control if others create stupids conflicts. In generally, due to my advancement I see more differences between me and the others. The sad thing is when I see members of my family going down. I know this is because of enemy's curses and negative karma. If I will do a working to empower them, they could go in others directions and fall even more, I know this from experiences with meditations. I am thinking to do a working to break the negative karma for the whole family, but I don't know what to focus on. I don't know how to express this better, but I hope is clear enough.

mercury_wisdom wrote:

Thats how it went.

To be honest I think when parents are facing difficult times and are in need for money then they should be definitely helped, as long as you had a „normal” relationship with them and they haven't treated you in totally negative ways. It might be frustrating to see your savings flying by but when it comes to the safety of your family, money have a lesser importance in my opinion as parents cannot be compared to some strangers or `friends` who are borrowing money from you. Myself when I give money to my parents I never expect to get them back eventhough they keep insisting that they are just `borrowing` because they are in need. Obviously your sitation was way more delicate but the thing is, if you are young and have a normal/decent income then money will keep coming to you anyway, is not something to fight upon as long as the safety and wellbeing of your parent is concerned especially that you helped them at a hard time for them when they had no income.

VoiceofEnki wrote:

In this case, it was not required and likely Mercury_Wisdom can think themselves on how to prevent such things in the future, or understand better what caused it so it won't have to happen again.

Most people have to go through experiences like this to learn and grow.

You're right people in theory learn the best from going through certain experiences themselves but in this case it was more an emotional reaction rather than a lack of experience, therefore is not like it was something neccesary for him to go through to specifically learn something. I think the event itself was so „abnormal” to me that I could not personally miss the chance to ask about details out of curiosity. At the end of the day everybody here can learn something from his experience.

Aquarius wrote:

Your anger was justified but how you expressed it wasn't as it didn't lead anywhere. You should do a working to get your mother to give you your money back.

Bruh :lol: he just got back, we're gonna kick him out again.

Powerofjustice wrote:

Aquarius wrote:

Your anger was justified but how you expressed it wasn't as it didn't lead anywhere. You should do a working to get your mother to give you your money back.

Bruh :lol: he just got back, we're gonna kick him out again.

He did not say to get angry at his mom again but to do a working to get the money back. We all said he should try his best to not get out of the house because its the only way he can meditate.