even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders, it's just a feeling, because I don't have many curves or breasts this is associated with masculinity and I've seen many phrases like that )
I don't know how I could use my body for anything, tall women can use it for modeling, stronger women can use it for weightlifting. And how can I accept myself, accept my features?
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Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source My post was written about changing your body to the one you want.
That's pretty obvious
I think what's obvious is that was shit advice and you're only getting called out for that specific part. No need to be defensive as all I'm doing is giving you a reality check for yourself.
hailourtruegod wrote:View source I think what's obvious is that was shit advice and you're only getting called out for that specific part. No need to be defensive as all I'm doing is giving you a reality check for yourself.
🤷♂️ Okay, I still think you're wrong.
Active HelperAyssid wrote: No one asked you to get on the offensive lil bro, chill.
Lil bro? He's older than you Zoomer.
Ayssid wrote: No one asked you to get on the offensive lil bro, chill.
We do not tolerate harmful advice.
He could of got into his advice instead of giving off an attitude in the first reply towards me and overall it would be better to not pretend like he cares to help as it makes it look like he's just trying to fill up his amounts of replies.
You're obviously still a child and looks like you'll have a childish mindset for a while from seeing all your posts so this post will seem like an attack on you from only your perspective and the few of others here like you as at this level many as yourself don't take the chance to understand criticism as you're obviously displaying.
Feel blessed you are here because that means you actually have a chance to mentally grow up.
I think all was said and done with the advice to the OP.
The bad advice in question is harmful which we would gladly share why we know it's a bad route what he adviced, and again, I am not reffeeing to the gym part.
Don't be predictable and try to get the last word in, or do, whatever, won't be diverting with you. If you actually have something of merit to share then maybe I'll reply back to you.
For now, you made yourself look more childish with that reply. Congrats.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source 🤷♂️ Okay, I still think you're wrong.
In this case, it does not matter what you think because objectively your 'advice' is very harmful to health. There are numerous studies about this along with endless user accounts of personal usage. At the end of the day, the numerous associated health risks are not worth getting a supranormal amount of testosterone in the body. Instead, a rigorous Kundalini Yoga practice, Pranayama, and Sanskrit mantras provide the same in a healthy manner.
Henu the Great wrote:View source In this case, it does not matter what you think because objectively your 'advice' is very harmful to health. There are numerous studies about this along with endless user accounts of personal usage. At the end of the day, the numerous associated health risks are not worth getting a supranormal amount of testosterone in the body. Instead, a rigorous Kundalini Yoga practice, Pranayama, and Sanskrit mantras provide the same in a healthy manner.
I didn't say anything about testosterone, or about injecting giant doses of testosterone into the body.
You're just being ridiculous, reading p
My message to fit in with your criticism.
Simply stupid
Henu the Great wrote:View source In this case, it does not matter what you think.
Hormone replacement with progesterone, estrogen and GH with the support of an endocrinologist and regular exercise would solve the OP's insecurity about his childlike body or masculine appearance.
It's only natural and obvious, it was the most honest suggestion I could make.
Most here like to see things in an absurd way in order to simply criticize, to grow any suggestion to the harmful level by a million times.
Hormone replacement is done infrequently until a set time has elapsed.
Normally, after the change you never go back.
I'm not telling the OP to live a life focused on bodybuilding.
Wotanwarrior wrote:View source What do you think of a man who is the opposite and likes women with a physique similar to Apollonie Sabatier or Mata Hari?
The funny thing is that there is no famous woman or from the Hollywood industry that I find attractive in the least, the current modern standards seem totally artificial to me and I totally abhor them.
It is not obligatory to find Hollywood actresses attractive. Hollywood women are videogenic (at least they used to be, I certainly wouldn't call Hollywood nepos now attractive), that's one aspect of attractiveness. There are many others and these are cycling in and out of fashion.
The Victorian or Edwardian aesthetic is more appealing to some people precisely because it used minimal makeup and focused on the robustness of forward features. But that's to do with Pluto in Aries, Taurus and that side of the chart, among other things.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:
Problems and more problems, I destroy one lie and then another.
No argument was fixed, several changes were necessary to fulfill the desire for retaliation with excellence.
But unfortunately it's all very ridiculous and absurd
I don't think it's difficult to forget your pride and simply say that "given the context, your suggestion isn't bad, it really has nothing to do with the schizophrenia I've created in my head".
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote: You completely ignored the reality that these things would lead to the desired development and the desired joy.
I've already rebutted the point about it being harmful, now they say the problem is mental and not physical, and now I disprove it.What's next?
"Sometimes you just need to make yourself look the way you want."
You disproved nothing, you did not read nor comprehend OP's post, because she identified that the issue is psychological. Read how many times she talks about feelings and acceptance.
It is not biological, if there were a diagnosed phyisiological dysfunction then medication could be appropriate, but this is not your place to determine and not your place to advise injecting hormones, especially when you don't have the facts and you clearly do not understand neither the person nor problem you are advising on.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source Problems and more problems, I destroy one lie and then another.
No argument was fixed, several changes were necessary to fulfill the desire for retaliation with excellence.
But unfortunately it's all very ridiculous and absurdI don't think it's difficult to forget your pride and simply say that "given the context, your suggestion isn't bad, it really has nothing to do with the schizophrenia I've created in my head".
What is ridiculous and absurd is how you either didn't read or didn't comprehend the OP yet you are advising on it anyway without even understanding or elaborating the risks of introducing exogenous hormones into your body.
What is more ridiculous and absurd is your attitude when faced with disagreement.
Epiphany wrote:View source You disproved nothing, you did not read nor comprehend OP's post
She feels less like a woman and claims she looks like a teenager going through puberty.
And she hasn't identified any possibility of what to do with herself.
There's certainly no one asking her to accept herself, it's simply an outburst.
The feeling was caused by a situation that makes her uncomfortable.
The bad feeling about herself seems to be the result of her own perception of her body.
But she also claimed in a non-direct way that a more developed body with more curves is the desired one and one with possibilities that are possible for her to see.
This can be solved by changing the body
Or with self-acceptance
Self-acceptance happens because it's impossible to change, so the way to deal with something you feel uncomfortable about is simply by accepting it so as not to suffer (by lying to yourself) and creating happiness through it.
I support both, but I believe that modification is more efficient and better depending on the financial situation and desire for it.
But, you see, if someone had the opportunity to change their body to the one they wanted quickly, easily and painlessly, they would certainly do it.
In other words, self-acceptance is a useful lie.
As I said, you and other people want to distort what I've said to mean: "Put yourself on huge doses of hormones without a doctor's prescription and die from it".
But obviously that's not exactly what I said.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source
I'm a person who supports everything that's useful.
The tips on self-acceptance are good for me, they serve a purpose.
Change your perception
Or do things from your perception
Changing your perception is easier, but no fun at all
Doing things from your own perception requires courage to challenge yourself and get to where you want to go. Here it was necessary to confront your ideas
Ayssid wrote: Source:
A strange question for you.
If it sounds crazy, it's because I "misjudged" you
When you're meditating, do you focus on what's spacious? Free and unnameable?
Ignore me if you don't have an answer
Just give me a like to show that you read the message.
In addition to what Nova666 wrote about affirmation, I am including Shannon's post about breast growth and health below, as it may help some women:
Shannon wrote:View source Hi, sorry for the late response.
If one just so happens to have an interest in increasing their breast growth and keeping them healthy, you can do a couple things.
Breast massages using the energy from the palm chakras, especially. You massage your breast in a circular motion while directing the energy and focusing on them at a nice and proportionate size. Depending on your desired size, it can take a little. The breast massaging will also help the lymph circulation. Rub the palms together first to increase energy flow.
The sanskrit mantra Vriddhi helps a lot as it has to do with growth and augmentation.
I also find that collagen helps the breast maintain bounce, perk and suppleness. It can slightly enlarge because of its "plumping" effect.
The herb Vitex (chaste tree), which was already mentioned, helps to balance progesterone. Progesterone is responsible for the fat deposits in the breasts. There are other herbs that have a reported effect on increasing breast growth but I wont list them here as any of them have phyto-estrogens and because most women are estrogen dominant, that wouldn't be a good idea. There are enough xeno-estrogens in our environment. The Vitex is the safest and works on balancing the hormones by working with the pituitary.
Overall increasing the amount of healthy fats can add additional fat on the body, giving a more voluptuous form. The healthy fats wont disrupt the hormones and give an undesirable kind of weight gain. But as with all fats though, too much will make you gain weight disproportionately.
Honorary TranslatorHave you high Mercury or Gemini/Virgo influence in your Natal Chart?
Mercurial people may tend to look younger than they are.
AskSatanOperator wrote:View source even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders, it's just a feeling, because I don't have many curves or breasts this is associated with masculinity and I've seen many phrases like that )
I don't know how I could use my body for anything, tall women can use it for modeling, stronger women can use it for weightlifting. And how can I accept myself, accept my features?
Highlight your best features. You have to accept what you have. Also, genetics plays a part and the nutrition we received or lack thereof.
What is your diet like? The best thing you can do is increase the healthy fats that you consume. No margarine or hydrogenated gmo vegetable oils.
Just physically speaking, I can tell you now that eating healthy fats, milk (from healthy, pastured animals) grass fed meat, butter, eggs and tallow will make your body curvier and fill in— hips, breasts and buttocks. There is a limit to this though.
Our cells are made of saturated fats and so are our hormones. This solves and or helps with infertility too. Don’t listen to the low-fat BS fad.
Healthy fats and good animal protein is missing in needed in our diets. Start with nutrition.
Don’t lose your mind trying to alter your body, just stay balanced and give your body what it needs naturally and let the rest happen.
Femininity is not just body size and shape, as everyone has pretty much highlighted here. Like HPS Lydia mentioned, dressing up, doing your hair, jewelry, light make up helps. You are feminine, you are a woman, keep that in mind. You embody the feminine principle, your body shape doesn’t change that.
Engineered Trasformation wrote:View source Have you high Mercury or Gemini/Virgo influence in your Natal Chart?
Mercurial people may tend to look younger than they are.
Hi, how are you? I don't have any Gemini or Virgo in my chart, my Mercury is in Leo...and it's not my ascendant.It's on the ToZ page that you have more knowledge or you study and realize that generally X person has a Y appearance based on the map...?
AskSatanOperator wrote:View source Hi, how are you? I don't have any Gemini or Virgo in my chart, my Mercury is in Leo...and it's not my ascendant.It's on the ToZ page that you have more knowledge or you study and realize that generally X person has a Y appearance based on the map...?
I somehow study Astrology and I have noticed how people body aspect is partially reflected by the planets. For example people with Jupiter as chart ruler, in 1st house or with strong influence may have a large body (this can be fat or muscles, according to how you live your life, and also Mars energies). I am not that expert but I trained my mind to analyze facts under the Astrological point of view, and also energetic; while I observe general facts I try to explain to myself why this happens.
Saturn is also responsible for "smaller" body parts. Many years ago I had a partner whose Saturn was aspecting my chart ruler. On the long run, I ended up loosing weight (I am not a small person for my nature, so this was external effect).
Being voluptuous is of Jupiter, being small is of Saturn, looking young and teenager-like is of Mercury, so on.
What I was trying to say is, you are not "wrong" for how you are and look. This simply may be your nature according to your planets.
I also know a person whose body is rather small and light, low-height and few muscles around. I do not remember her placement of Mars but she has strong legs (possibly in Sagittarius?); this person is very good in cycling sport, as small and light cyclists may be stronger in climbing hills, she says.
Running is also good for small people, martial arts for small and quick people, why not?, gymnastic. You can use your body in multiple good ways for you.
Each person is somehow strong, each of us has strengths. Big, voluptous, grown is not always equal to better.
Also, smaller and leaner people tend to have less problems in old age (my personal opinion), due to lower stress on back, joints, and organs. While may be weaker where strength is required.
Don't blame how you are. Otherwise all the "small" people like Asians would be blamed... but I see they can be very strong and valuable in multiple ways.