even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders, it's just a feeling, because I don't have many curves or breasts this is associated with masculinity and I've seen many phrases like that )
I don't know how I could use my body for anything, tall women can use it for modeling, stronger women can use it for weightlifting. And how can I accept myself, accept my features?
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AskSatanOperator wrote:View source even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders, it's just a feeling, because I don't have many curves or breasts this is associated with masculinity and I've seen many phrases like that )
I don't know how I could use my body for anything, tall women can use it for modeling, stronger women can use it for weightlifting. And how can I accept myself, accept my features?
Being small and petite is fine. It is not necessary to look like a fertility idol to be attractive. This build can actually help you by giving a youthful appearance and making you more approachable/endearing than someone built like an amazon.
The beauty business today is fake and does not encompass the full range of beauty in humanity in all of its diverse expressions, you don't need to check any boxes for a modeling agency unless you specifically want to in order to be employed by them. These agencies may be obsolete in the age of influencers anyway.
For lifting, you are always free to pursue athletics and sports, and strength & muscle is something you can build. It could be fulfilling for you to put on muscle and grow your proportions if you're bothered by your build.
Study your natal chart and pay particular attention to the 1st house, your sun and venus and their aspects, along with saturn. This will give you clues as to where these feelings are coming from and how you can fix them with spells.
AskSatanOperator wrote:View source even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders, it's just a feeling, because I don't have many curves or breasts this is associated with masculinity and I've seen many phrases like that )
I don't know how I could use my body for anything, tall women can use it for modeling, stronger women can use it for weightlifting. And how can I accept myself, accept my features?
First of all you have to simply recognize that these are your characteristics before accepting them.
I am particularly short and in every way I tried to tell myself: "come on, I am more or less as tall as the others...", I tried to deny my characteristics and it hurt me to have them.
When I accepted being like this, I understood that it is okay to be as you are in a natural way, I started to love myself and my unique characteristics, because charisma, even physical, is in our individual details that change from person to person.
From the point of view of martial arts, being short could really seem like a disadvantage, but what corresponds to the truth is that you have to learn to enhance your characteristics. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages.
I am short, so for me the clinch (remaining clinging to the opponent's neck) is more difficult and dangerous to perform, so I avoid it, but I have more control to detach myself from the opponent's clinch and therefore I get the upper hand by avoiding it; this is a small part of the martial arts that I do, but it is a good example.
Taller, stronger and more muscular people, yes, think that if they kick me in the head or simply punch me they will kill me, and it is true, the fact is that they never manage to hit me because my technique is superior to theirs (since I do not have much physical strength being short I have to focus only on technique), it is no coincidence that they praise me by saying that I am "too strong" and things like that.
You are not at fault, you have individual characteristics that others do not have. Everyone has their own, see what advantages you have. Apparently the only advantage in martial arts is having the strength that if you hit, the other person dies in just one of your hits, but in reality no one can hit me because I am faster, more reactive and have a superior technique.
I learned that being short I can hit low, and there are more effective techniques for me, etc. Because I learned to APPRECIATE what I could do and not focus on what I could NOT do, but others could.
I hope this little example has been a guide for you. Start to understand the strengths of who you are, stop seeing your difference as a deficit compared to others, your difference is only making you unique. If you know how to manage it, it will make you special.
I think the people who think in the manner you first said are doing so because of porn or maybe because majority of women in the West are objectively and by the scientific definition of being over weight so the average woman doesn't have their natural fit body. Can't even go for a spontaneous run for 30 seconds without becoming winded and that's not exaggerated. Their diets are horrible.
Many women who don't have "voluptuous " bodies are still very feminine.
I recommend doing Venus squares for beauty or anything related to Venus like cleaning then empowering the throat chakra. You will become in tune with your unique beauty and learn how to work with what you got as the saying goes.
even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders, it's just a feeling, because I don't have many curves or breasts this is associated with masculinity and I've seen many phrases like that )
I don't know how I could use my body for anything, tall women can use it for modeling, stronger women can use it for weightlifting. And how can I accept myself, accept my features?
I’ve been meaning to make an account for awhile now and this post kinda spoke to me. I’m a man, and I’m extremely turned off by overweight or obese women. I don’t hate them as people and get along just fine, but when it comes to physical attraction I have 0. I find normal weight women attractive but when I think of a long term partner who I would want to marry and have kids with, she is always petite so that if she gains weight she is still attractive. Maybe this is a superficial way of thinking.
I’ll give you a real life story and hopefully I’m not doxing myself with this. I shop at my local overpriced grocery store nearly everyday. One day I heard a female voice in my head (GD?) saying “she likes you”. When I looked, I saw one of the cashiers doing a sexy flirty side pose picking up a basket starring at me. I’m 90% sure she is in her early 20’s but she looks very petite and on the younger side. I noticed her flirting a few more times after hearing the voice. She appears to of quit her job recently and I'm not sure I'll ever find out.
Problem is I don’t really know anything about her and more importantly her age or how to approach topic when there has always been other people around in a very public space (store). I really don’t want find out she isn’t an adult and end up being “that guy” for trying to talk to her after shes been flirting. She probably thinks I haven’t noticed or don’t care, its just risky on my behalf. To make things more difficult she went and got braces around around that time plus wears glasses that make her look even younger. Point I’m trying to make, looking young for your age is a good thing, its also is risky for any potential partner. You will have to take the initiative looking for someone but it doesn’t mean you are unattractive it just makes you harder to approach. I hope this helps.
In addition to everyone else's great replies. You can find clothes that flatter your figure, you can hire a stylist to give you tips, and write them down so you will always have them. There are many women with your body who are always listed as the "sexiest woman". Kiera Knightly, as one of the most famous examples.
If you want to feel more feminine, find a better hairstyle that suits you, wear pretty clothes, shape your fingernails differently (almond is flattering without looking fake)... it's all these little things that add up. Thanks to the porn industry people have become rather vulgar and thinking only big breasts means feminine, instead of understanding how it has always been. It's the little touches that makes us feminine. Matching accessories to clothes, adding little details, paying attention to our voice and manner of speech, and so on.
AskSatanOperator wrote:View source even though I'm an adult, I still have a body that seems to be less developed, when we think of adult women we usually think of everything voluptuous, but I'm quite the opposite, I look like a teenager entering puberty...The problem is, I feel less of a woman or I feel like someone underdeveloped or a boy (I don't want to change genders
Others here have already given you great and sound advice.
I believe I can offer you some perspective and observations in general, that may prove to be helpful too.
I am thinking that you are somewhat young, as women who are of similar build and older will have probably have resolved and dealt with this issue. This is not me being dismissive of the issue you're currently facing.
I have met many small and petite women over the course of my life and you know the one thing I found in common with the majority of them. It is simply that they more than adequately made up for any physical attributes that were lacking with a great personality, character etc.
So, , I would implore you not to be fixated on your appearance per se as to how you are lacking compared to other women. I am not saying let yourself go, but take pride in your appearance , take care of your diet and exercise and learn to accept yourself. Concentrate on your strengths and your self-development and your self confidence will grow. Within time, I am sure some hopeful person will be knocking on your door.
I sincerely hope this helps.
SomewhatCoherent wrote:View source I find normal weight women attractive but when I think of a long term partner who I would want to marry and have kids with, she is always petite so that if she gains weight she is still attractive. Maybe this is a superficial way of thinking.
Gigabased.
This is just my observation, but I have the impression that there have been a lot of similar questions recently, mainly about appearance, breasts size or low self-confidence in women. It's a bit concerning that so many women struggle with low self-esteem nowadays thanks to pornography and social media.
Petite women can also be extremely sensual and feminine, just like any other women with different body type. It all depends on how you express it. Adding to the rest of responses, you can choose to wear appropriate clothes that emphasize your figure. Experiment with your look and do something that will make you feel more feminine - be it a makeup, hairstyle, clothes etc.
People who tell you that you need to have a specific figure and large breasts to be a "real woman" are usually brainwashed through pornography or by looking at the retouched women on Instagram. The opinion of these people is not important and should not affect your value or self-esteem. Of course, there is nothing wrong with having big chest, the point is that being a feminine woman is more than just the size of our chest. There is really not a need for you to have big breasts to feel feminine. Besides, there will be always a person who will appreciate your beauty.
When it comes to modelling, the main factor in choosing a model in agencies is height. There are smaller models, but this is an exception to the rule and rather rare. The market is changing all the time, but realistically, smaller women have fewer opportunities. Even tall girls have trouble getting into agencies, because of the fierce competition, so the chances for a short women are even lower. A better option for petite women are commercial prints or jewellery shoots. However, I do not see any obstacles for women with a smaller body build not being able to practice sports. You can try in this direction, if it's something you want to do.
In conclusion, do some work on increasing your value and self-esteem. Look at photos of women with your type of body and see how elegant and feminine they look like. You can find out how to choose proper clothes that will suit your figure. There is a lot of good advice written in this thread, so take into account the advice of others.
Active HelperThe ideas you are having about what is attractive about a woman are mostly propaganda that is mostly coming from other women. What you are saying is not the opinion that all men have, and many men are most attracted to a woman with a body type like you have. Model and weight lifter are not examples of good jobs anyway.
Active TranslatorHPS Lydia wrote:View source In addition to everyone else's great replies. You can find clothes that flatter your figure, you can hire a stylist to give you tips, and write them down so you will always have them. There are many women with your body who are always listed as the "sexiest woman". Kiera Knightly, as one of the most famous examples.
If you want to feel more feminine, find a better hairstyle that suits you, wear pretty clothes, shape your fingernails differently (almond is flattering without looking fake)... it's all these little things that add up. Thanks to the porn industry people have become rather vulgar and thinking only big breasts means feminine, instead of understanding how it has always been. It's the little touches that makes us feminine. Matching accessories to clothes, adding little details, paying attention to our voice and manner of speech, and so on.
What do you think of a man who is the opposite and likes women with a physique similar to Apollonie Sabatier or Mata Hari?
The funny thing is that there is no famous woman or from the Hollywood industry that I find attractive in the least, the current modern standards seem totally artificial to me and I totally abhor them.
Progesterone(Juice) and the gym
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source Progesterone(Juice) and the gym
Is this legal for someone to do? I don't fully understand what you are suggesting here.
Blitzkreig [JG] wrote:View source Is this legal for someone to do? I don't fully understand what you are suggesting here.
Hormone replacement and the gym.
I read High Priestess Pythia's thoughts in one of the pdfs.
Positive thought about affirmation.
"I have large breasts in a healthy way." I told myself this for 1 month. I was wondering if it works.
it works! my body started storing fat in my breasts. It went from 80C to 90C in about 3 months. Perfect for me now. if you're not happy with yourself, try a mental affirmation.
for me, my Venus is in a special place. so it has always been important how I look. I am demanding and vain. which I never hide, This is how I love myself. But the fact is that propaganda is unfortunately harmful to women's mental health. fortunately, thin women are loved by men just as much as more feminine plump ladies.
Thin women want to be shapely, and plump women want to be thinner. Where is the truth here?!🙂
Wotanwarrior wrote:View source What do you think of a man who is the opposite and likes women with a physique similar to Apollonie Sabatier or Mata Hari?
The funny thing is that there is no famous woman or from the Hollywood industry that I find attractive in the least, the current modern standards seem totally artificial to me and I totally abhor them.
It's perfectly fine. There is no one ideal type for everyone.
Hollywood is just stupid, I never pay attention to it. I rarely even watch tv or movies anyway.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source Hormone replacement and the gym.
Using synthetic hormones such as steroids and other similar drugs that alter your hormonal production is extremely harmful and can permanently damage your health, avoid it.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source Hormone replacement and the gym.
andrapod approach. The same, without great health reduction, can be had via spiritual disciplines.
Ĥl·lĥæ wrote:View source Hormone replacement and the gym.
If you need the first thing it's because your diet is close to literal shit. For the majority of people who have hormone imbalances IS because of the food they eat from processed meals/snacks to ANY consumption of processed white sugar.
For rare cases we have Planetary Squares for this or related spiritual workings but people need to consider the diet first.
May I strongly suggest not to put the "oven emoji" on someone's post just because they don't like the unnatural path you mentioned which is hormone therapy.
Exercise is all a must of course, that goes without saying but I probably need to actually say it here because people like to take things out of context. Not saying you personally but anyone with ill intent but I digress lol.
hailourtruegod wrote:View source If you need the first thing it's because .
My post was written about changing your body to the one you want.
That's pretty obvious